Family & Relationships - 1 March 2007

in a better place now, but still scared.

It mostly has to do with me, commitment issues and a bad childhood.

Anyone else out there afraid and stalling?

2007-03-01 16:01:27 · 4 answers · asked by Advice Please 3 in Weddings

As time passes by, family structures have been changing. We once believed that a perfect family is a NUCLEAR FAMILY ( consisting of parents and child/children ). However, it seems to me that now, many married couples are seperated/divorced etc. So do you think it is safe to say that in the future, there's a big possibility that there would be a higher amount of married couples divorced/seperated than the amount of the "perfect nuclear family"? Or if so, tell me your opinion what families would look like in the future?

2007-03-01 16:00:40 · 5 answers · asked by sugarcoated 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 20 and ive never had a girlfriend or dated but from what i see on tv and observe around me it seems like that stuff is all just drama etc. is it worth it or am i better of living the way i have?

2007-03-01 16:00:28 · 8 answers · asked by billy t 1 in Singles & Dating

not getting a girlfriend? I don't want to be geeky but I don't want to be with so many people at one time! PLease this is just too sad for me, I think i'm gonna cry.
PS I don't want my grades going down.

2007-03-01 15:59:45 · 8 answers · asked by Mylo 2 in Singles & Dating

when we were young, the best one yet and the only one I was in love with, no one has ever treated me like that, but. Some years ago we try again, and he gave me the worst pain from any one I ever knew. We see each other as friends, as we have done after the first parting. This is hard, I still love him but I don't like him .

2007-03-01 15:59:39 · 4 answers · asked by ymomzy 2 in Singles & Dating

Would love to chat

2007-03-01 15:59:01 · 2 answers · asked by shoot 1 in Friends

there's two girls at my school that i would like to date

the first one is really popular but talks to alot of guys, she looks really fine and is friends with everyone...She doesnt talk to me much but she does sometimes send me looks

the second is semi-popular and spends most of her time with her friends not that much with guys, she looks pretty fine too and i'm pretty good friends with her


who should i choose???

2007-03-01 15:58:54 · 6 answers · asked by Wis-Can-Sin Boi 4 in Singles & Dating

there's a guy in my school that i have liked for 2 years and I want to get over him b/c he is way out of my league but I like him. over the summers I am fine b/c I don't have to see him but during classes I can't stop looking at him, what do I do?!?!?!

2007-03-01 15:57:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Basically I am 14, and theres this girl i like. Not sure if she likes me, been just kind of admiring her from afar. I'm known for being quiet in my school, so i'm not sure how to become friends with her.

2007-03-01 15:57:09 · 11 answers · asked by Jack 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband divorced in 2005. He wanted full custody, and I was dumb and agreed. I have unlimited visitation. He has made is nearly impossible to see my daughter. He threatens me whenever I try to have contact with her and I am outright scared of him. So I was just wondering how do I go through the courts to have visitation rights enforced? I dont have alot of money, so I was wondering if there were places that could help low income people.

2007-03-01 15:57:08 · 7 answers · asked by chanel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-01 15:55:38 · 11 answers · asked by krishna c 1 in Singles & Dating

For several months now my husband is much 'less' affectionate, and does not seem to
want sex as much as he used to, and I gave him a puzzled look and was astonished at how he turned so 'red in the face', but I said nothing.
Also, about three months ago he joined a gym
and goes 'faithfully' every morning before he goes to work. He tells me he just wants to get in shape. Two weeks ago I found a dark hair in the seat of the car (passenger seat), but i blew it off
thinking it might be my daughters.
One night this week when he came home from work I kissed him, and there was a smell similar
to the face powder my grandmother used to use.
I have 'not' confronted him with this 'YET'.
Also, I realized the hair in the car could not have been my daughters because she hasn't been in the car. We've only had it for two months, and she hasn't been over since christmas.
I must admit I'm really upset and not sure how to handle this. Am I just over reacting??

2007-03-01 15:54:25 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

tell me wut u wud rlly say wen asking a girl to be ur gf...

help!!

2007-03-01 15:53:53 · 2 answers · asked by 123 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay... So im working out of town and while away I did some extra curricular activites at an adventure park.. While there, I met this women who works there.. She blows me away with her looks and axecent (swedish) and the way starred right through me,,So much so, that the next week we are working away, i go there again and put my life at risk just to see her again.. But didnt build the nerve to ask her out.. I'm not working up that way anymore and I cant stop thinking about her, even though I hardly know her!!! Im usally a one nighter sort of guy and dont usally get this way.. And i dont know what to do... What would you all do in this sitution??? <----- This is an update for those who answered this, I took your advice yep I asked her out, I sent flowers and my cellphone number and I got a call from her work, youve missed her by five hours, shes left the country.. But she would of loved the flowers!!! She lives miles away now and I cant get her out of my mind? What would ya all do now??

2007-03-01 15:53:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend broke up with me at my schools Valentines Day dance. I really think I loved him. He said he wanted to get to know me better but now he's saying he doesn't want to date me again. He still wants to be friends but it's really awkward between us. What should I do?

2007-03-01 15:53:37 · 5 answers · asked by Ethryl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

controlling/insecure/sometimes violent husband?
I am stay home mom and HE is controlling of everything, I need a car and he is very angry about that, even when I say I will get ajob to pay for it.
He just wont budge and I have been in th ehouse for 3 straight weeks with our kid while he is out of town working.
I am going mad being prisoner in his house.
What do I do?

2007-03-01 15:53:25 · 19 answers · asked by Bitsy B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was on Facebook and just for fun I did a search on my ex-boyfriend to see if he had Facebook. He does have Facebook,But I DIDN'T add him as a friend. I did, however check to see who HIS friends were. He had 25 friends and 10 of these were girls. There were only 2 or 3 pretty girls, but it still bothered me. I felt hurt seeing these girls, I dunno why? Why did I feel this way? We only dated for a month ( but we saw each other a lot), then HE ended it. It was a beautiful & innocent relationship, it never went past kissing cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hold hands, it was sweet. Also he would still say hi to me on msn even though HE ended it. Also, he ended it ONE YEAR ago, yet a month ago he called me & asked me to go see a movie w/ him. I went, he picked me up & after the movie he said he wants to "see me every once in awhile." But I have not heard from him since our hangout. He's 26 while I'm 21.

2007-03-01 15:53:08 · 5 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and we have been good friends for some while. His heart has been broken in the past by girls that he really cared about. He had told me a while back ( one month ) that he had started seeing another girl and was sorry that he led me on. A week later he told me on the way to my house ( we were still friends ) that he had broken up with her. His mother and best friend told me that he never dated the girl and it was a test to see if I really cared about him. His mother also tells me that I am the only girl, including her that he can have a full conversation with. We spend the night at eachother's houses quite often and spend alot of time together. What is he waiting for, or is he just playin with my heart. Thanks to all who answer.

2007-03-01 15:53:06 · 7 answers · asked by unknown 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 15:52:58 · 6 answers · asked by Goran B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 15:52:48 · 7 answers · asked by james bond 1 in Singles & Dating

If a person has always been a cheater, they have never ever been faithful, would you believe that they can change? What if you really loved this person and really wanted it to work?

2007-03-01 15:52:31 · 14 answers · asked by pinkcurtin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

....So I'm on the fourth date with a woman. I want to invite her over for a meal that I'm going to prepare instead of "taking her out". By the way, I am a great cook. What do you think of this idea?

2007-03-01 15:51:53 · 15 answers · asked by PAPlaya27 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a girlfriend and i have been seeing another lady behind her back and now i dont want to see this other girl. how do i tell her that i dont want to sleep with her anymore and just want to be friends. i need to becareful cause she may tell my g/f

2007-03-01 15:50:32 · 20 answers · asked by darth2380 1 in Singles & Dating

lol well i posted a question like 30 min ago and reading the answers posed just new questions, the way i see i have 98points left and nothing fairly worth my time better to do so i might as well find out the answers to the millions of questions that ponder my brain every second of my life, the last question i asked was basically what to do from here and it raised in my mind that ive done the things people do at this age from the age of like say 12, I've help as many people as i possibly can in my life but i cant help myself, the things i help people with everyday relationships, people in general, i need help with too and cant ponder any answers too just blah i cant even spit a question out its such a complex topic with me:|

2007-03-01 15:50:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Your spouse and you were having problems.
You told him that you needed space to think about things and he was devastated, saying he needed to talk about it all. You told him to talk to someone other than yourself as you couldn't help him as you needed space.
The person he chose to speak to was an old casual relationship he had, (he hasn't spoken to her since you two got together, but she has texted him often to check and see if you two were still together) - who then asked him if he was up for phone sex??
Would you be hurt and confused as to why he would chose to talk to her?

2007-03-01 15:50:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My bf wont let me know his msn or email password. We have been together for awhile now and hes on it a lot. I can't understand why he cant give me it if hes not hiding anything. If hes not hiding anything he obviously doesn't trust me am I right? Do I have a right to know his password or no because I am pretty sure hes talking to other girls online!

2007-03-01 15:50:02 · 10 answers · asked by superstar77 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 15:49:52 · 2 answers · asked by d_miano81 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 15:49:52 · 5 answers · asked by choco taco 3 in Singles & Dating

All of a sudden, my friend would just talk to me like as if shes nervous or sometimes aggravated. It's like as if she doesn't want to be friends anymore. I don't think I did something to piss her off since she still talks to me. Why is that...?

2007-03-01 15:49:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have a question i need straight up answered please.
ok so lets say a father has full custody of a daughter but the daughter stays with the mom in another state with the dads permission but there is no court involved. the mother decides tht things arenot working out with the daughter so she decides to send her back to the fathers.

can the father object to this?

* the daughter is 16 years old

2007-03-01 15:48:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family