im 20 and ive never had a girlfriend or dated but from what i see on tv and observe around me it seems like that stuff is all just drama etc. is it worth it or am i better of living the way i have?
2007-03-01 16:00:28 · 8 answers · asked by billy t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is FULLLLL of drama.
Does he like me? Does he not? What if I try to kiss him? Then what?! Does my hair look good? Is he just leading me on? Is he ever gonna ask me out? Am I just being an idiot? Does he want what I want? Is he just a player? Is he just messing with my head? Why isn't he calling me? Does he not like me anymore? Is it ME?!
A LOT of drama my friend. You're not missing out on ANYTHING.
Just wait until the right person comes along. It will feel so right.
God has a plan for you and will bring you the right one in His time. Just have faith in Him.
And relax. You don't have a broken heart.
Enjoy being single while it lasts. You're freeeeeee!!
2007-03-01 16:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are better off living the way it feels best to you. Don't go by what you see on TV. Those are stories, in case you didn't realize that. Drama is created by people. If you find someone who is mature and you act mature then you won't experience too much drama. Other than that, it is called life.
2007-03-02 00:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by sherockstn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a personal choice. But, dude, TV really isn't the best thing to base life choices on. There are positives and negatives to everything. There's nothing like having someone who you love laying next to you as you wake up in the morning. Nothing hurts worse than when she breaks your heart. it's part of life, a part that for me, has filled my life with its highest ups and downs. I wouldn't trade a single nervous smile or shattered heart for anything. There is no guarantees that its worth it in the end, but what does?
2007-03-02 00:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by land-pliskin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal relationships don't get on TV because TV looks for the drama. It might be that you haven't found the right girl is all. Don't sweat it.
2007-03-02 00:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are missing the most wonderful part of life. Tv is not an accurate depictation of relationships, or sex. There are amazing experiences waiting for you out there, go get them.
2007-03-02 00:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by MeanGirl 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not always drama. A relationship is what you make of it and how much you are willing to comitt and put forth.
2007-03-02 00:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you haven't found the correct person, then no, its not worth it, but when you find someone special, you will know nothing is better than being with them.
2007-03-02 00:08:58 · answer #7 · answered by meh. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know god read your bible if you seek and ask him to send you a good honest christain freind the worst relationship come from choosing on our own and not asking the father to send us the special one
2007-03-02 00:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by okdmoore@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋