i have a girlfriend and i have been seeing another lady behind her back and now i dont want to see this other girl. how do i tell her that i dont want to sleep with her anymore and just want to be friends. i need to becareful cause she may tell my g/f
2007-03-01 15:50:32 · 20 answers · asked by darth2380 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest with her. Don't lie....tell her you don't want to be with her anymore.....you don't necessarily need to get into the details of this other girl. She'll respect your honesty even if she hates you afterwards.
2007-03-01 15:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by Riley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't of started seeing this other person behind your girlfriends back in the first place!! All I have to say is that you tell her and if she does end up telling your girlfriend well then you can learn from your mistake not do that to anyone ever again!!
2007-03-01 23:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by pqr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either way I think you're in trouble because of the position you put yourself in. You basically handed her an ace. So you are at her mercy. Honestly I hope she does tell on you because you don't deserve to keep your girlfriend if you've cheated on her. YOu need to ask yourself why you cheated on her. Was there something missing from your relationship that you found in this other girl?
2007-03-01 23:55:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, you may just get what you deserve...
However, if this girl knew about your relationship, she's just as guilty as you are. Explain she's great, but you owe it to yourself and your girlfriend to give your relationship a shot. If she gets mad (which she may) try to calm her down. Let her get upset or cey, don't aggrivate the situation by yelling at her, etc. Also, I'd avoid being friends with her (if it's possibile). If she's friend with your girl, be prepared for her to tell your girlfriend.
Did you ever think about being honest with your girlfriend?
2007-03-01 23:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you should first be truthful, but then again it may hurt her precious feelings and your plan may back fire on you. So therefore just limit your communication to a bare minimum and hopefully she'll get the message, don't give her nothing to feed off of, that you're leading her on in any type of way.
2007-03-01 23:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by diamondz_a_mill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To avoid too much confusion, you have to explain your unfaithfulness to the one you love, hopefully she will understand.
Then tell the other person that you will not be seeing her anymore, and that your present girlfriend already knows about her.
Sounds complicated but sometimes honesty works.
Good Luck.
2007-03-02 00:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by Seeanna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never be friends with her, just be straight up honest, because she will find out. You should have never cheated on her in the first place.
2007-03-01 23:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't deserve advice. You deserve to be called out on your crap and lose both girls. You're an idiot for getting yourself into this situation in the first place.
2007-03-01 23:54:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fess up to your gf. That's the best thing to do. If she gets upset, be apologetic, but don't crowd her because she will need time to think. Honesty is the best policy...
2007-03-01 23:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing is for sure: you cant erase your past. wat u did its gunna stay dat way. its better if u just tell her straight up because then u gonna keep telling lies and more lies until it all blows up in ur face. i call this my "domino theory." when u tell a little white lie, it usually leads top a slightly bigger lie then a bigger lie until it gets really bad and theres no way to get out. so just tell her before its too late
2007-03-01 23:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋