My bf wont let me know his msn or email password. We have been together for awhile now and hes on it a lot. I can't understand why he cant give me it if hes not hiding anything. If hes not hiding anything he obviously doesn't trust me am I right? Do I have a right to know his password or no because I am pretty sure hes talking to other girls online!
2007-03-01 15:50:02 · 10 answers · asked by superstar77 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If there was nothing to hide why wouldn't he just give them to you.
If you know his msn user name, and when he is on the computer - get a friend to log on and chat to him and see what he is like online.
e.g. if it is chit chat or sexy talk
2007-03-01 15:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Okay, there are a few things slightly wrong here...
1) It's his password. If he doesn't want to tell it to you, that should be fine. It's his life, not yours.
2) Just because he doesn't want to tell you the password doesn't mean he's hiding something. People like their privacy, if you haven't noticed, and what other people sent him is his business, and it would probably create a lot of akward situations if you read all of his email.
3) If you want his password SOLELY because you want to see if he's talking to girls online, you're very insecure about the relationship. Talk to him about it, don't steal his password or anything! That'll just make things worse. The keyword in a relationship is communicate; talk to him about it, and discuss you're worries about him privately.
Hopefully he'll tell the truth and you'll know, but reading his emails and such isn't the right (or smart) way to go.
2007-03-01 23:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jeremy A 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i can understand it because it is a personal thing. But if you guys have been together for a long time, he should be able 2 trust you with it. Maybe he just doesnt want to give out his password at this point in your relationship
2007-03-01 23:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by chrisbnjordiet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you go through his wallet, his underwear drawer, his personal finances, his medical records, his family history, etc. ? Does he go through yours? Would you really want to know everything that is in his brain and he yours?
Some things are just private, may not be anything he would not want you knowing but it might take away a sense of security and privacy. I'm married and my wife and I both respect each others privacy and have a sense of trust toward each other ... maybe you should take that into consideration.
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2007-03-02 00:03:33 · answer #4 · answered by J T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! Even if he is talking to other girls, you don't have a right to know his password. It's HIS email and HIS MSN, not yours. I don't know if he trusts you or not, but you obviously don't trust him.
2007-03-01 23:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by Keji 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
respect his privacy though. if he wants to keep his password secret, then let him. he probably trusts u, but doesnt want to let u in on EVERYTHING... i wouldnt if i had a bf. neway, if u think he's talkin to other girls, then let him know u think that. have a meeting or something and talk about it.
2007-03-01 23:54:11 · answer #6 · answered by Lyzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have passwords that I don't let my bf know. It's my business just like it's your bf's business so leave it alone. Trust him. If you don't you shouldn't be with him.
2007-03-01 23:54:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you need to know his password ??
if he wants to cheat you he can. he could give you a password of any other e-mail id he might has.
so if you dont believe him, dont say with him.
cause, its very easy for him to cheat you in this case
2007-03-01 23:56:18 · answer #8 · answered by HULK 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unless your on your death bed and only have a few days left on this earth and don't want to alone, keep him. But if not almost dead, dump him and move on..... life is to short to f@ck around with stupid games.
2007-03-01 23:56:15 · answer #9 · answered by wittster 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its called privacy and his passwords are none of your business
2007-03-01 23:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋