If a person has always been a cheater, they have never ever been faithful, would you believe that they can change? What if you really loved this person and really wanted it to work?
2007-03-01 15:52:31 · 14 answers · asked by pinkcurtin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
not really. no. unless they are scared sh.i.t.less in our of their adventures, that will keep them away from cheating... for a while.
2007-03-01 16:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is all about a pattern of behavior, when the cheater doesn't get his way, he gets angry and goes outside the marriage rather than work on the problems. from what i have seen the cheater always goes back into it again no matter how much he loves the person. as it is about his belief's, and his character. people cheat because they may have unrealistic expectations.
2007-03-02 00:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater will always be a cheater
2007-03-01 17:39:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does not matter if you love the person and you want it to work, i am sure that the countless vicims before you have loved the person and wanted it to work but he cheated anyway, so yea, once a cheater always a cheater, they never change
2007-03-01 16:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cheater are born cheater and will die cheater. Cheating is in their blood. How can they change?
2007-03-01 17:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by snowy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree. I think that a person can change. When they cheated before maybe they were not in love with the person. I cheated on my previous husband, and have never or thought about doing it ever again. I think that you have to do whatever makes you happy
2007-03-01 16:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by chanel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they have NEVER been faithful they probably won't change no matter how much you love them. If it was a one time thing maybe but in this case you have to decide if you really want to deal with a lifetime of mistrust and heartache when they cheat again.
2007-03-01 16:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by C T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a person have to want to change in this day and time cheaters are like dynamite waiting to blow its to much deadly deases out here for all that let him go on unless you want to die with them that cheat
2007-03-01 16:40:16 · answer #8 · answered by okdmoore@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope...Never will change...
A "one time" isolated incident may not mean a repeat cheater
but a habitual cheater can never be trusted...
2007-03-01 16:34:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife cheated. It was very very difficult in many ways, but we have been married now 20 years and she has changed. The important thing is that she was very humble, sad, even humiliated by her actions and you could see it in her eyes...no cover, no lies, no defense. The aftermath takes years, and it changes a person in many ways, but can be overcome and well worth the effort. Take care.
2007-03-01 16:02:40 · answer #10 · answered by Paul 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's rare, and you are the one who's constantly changing to deal with their indiscretion. If it don't stop, it's your choice to give up your livelihood till the point of excepting. Just try not to loose too many years for their enjoyment in life while you'll miserable. I gave up 31 yrs, so, this is good advise.
2007-03-01 16:26:36 · answer #11 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋