Family & Relationships - 1 March 2007

In a past relationship, or a current one. Will you do it differently with the next relationship?

2007-03-01 16:48:25 · 10 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Marriage & Divorce

How did you carry on and what all did you do?

2007-03-01 16:47:52 · 21 answers · asked by Caribou2 1 in Singles & Dating

Whats the deal with this guy if he just STOPS talking to me. never officially giving a reason or dumping me, just disappearing. Never saying a cruel word. I know ur thinking.. not interested. Same guy- appears about once every 1 to 2 years saying how much he has missed me and i'm the one who got away and thinks about me all the time - but doesnt try to get laid so its not a booty call, then he disappears again??? what do u make of it

2007-03-01 16:47:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First let me explain myself. I'm a sweet girl. I like to go out and have fun and 'party', but I do not sleep around. I dress classy, and I have morals. I take care of myself and I'd say I'm fairly attractive:
http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f300/x0xoandi/andrea2.jpg

Recently, I really liked a guy, and I messed up (as did he) and slept with him wayyy too soon. After that, he didn't pursue me at all, and brought over a different girl the very next weekend to a place he knew I'd be.

I'm not in denial here. I see what has happened. Basically he hit and quit. I never thought it would happen to me, but now that it has...I kind of feel like something is wrong with me. Like I must now be that special if it's that easy to blow me off.

Is that what he thinks of me? From a guy who had expierence in this, do you really think low of girls you do that to? He did try to talk to me this past weekend and he realized I wasn't going to take that so he backed off. What is he thinking?

2007-03-01 16:47:14 · 7 answers · asked by Ali 3 in Singles & Dating

A very good friend of mine, "Joe", may like me. We always have messed around (nothing inappropriate, of course), and we spend a lot of time together, but I've been wondering lately if it's friendly or flirty. The laughing and disco dancing and fooling around has turned into asking me if I want a piggyback and tickling, and because of certain past events, I'm a little sensitive to this. (Not exactly "DON'T TOUCH ME!", but I notice more, and I'm more conservative now.) And today, we said goodbye, and as I was leaving he ran back and playfully said, "Oh wait, let me do this!" and he kissed me on both cheeks, said goodbye, and left.

Of course I was in shock, but now I'm really thinking. I don't think that I like him in that way, and I don't want to end up dating someone just because they like me. On the other hand, we would make a cute couple, we're already great friends, and he's REALLY nice. What if he asks me out? Should I say "no" or should I give him a chance, or what?

2007-03-01 16:46:49 · 10 answers · asked by Drinking from a broken glass.... 2 in Singles & Dating

why doesnt my boyfriend want to get married but he loves me and he wants us to move in together but i want to get married first.. hes not scared of committment.. so why doesnt he want to? he says its because he has issues, and just gives excuses..

2007-03-01 16:46:32 · 24 answers · asked by !*notblonde*! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-01 16:46:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

For someone who just got out of grad school a year ago, is there anything wrong with not wanting to marry yet?

2007-03-01 16:46:27 · 13 answers · asked by Caribou2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We broke up after 6 months of seeing eachother because he said that he doesn't know how he feels. Should I stick around or bolt? Every time we're around eachother he hugs me and acts like he cares a lot but we don't sleep together any more or kiss. Any advice? :( I'm totally miserable at this point because he still calls me to do things and we have a lot of fun but it's not really a relationship. I'm not good with gray. It's black and white. He chose not to be in the relationship but still wants to hang out and hug me and hold me... Should just tell him I'm not comfortable just being friends with him?

2007-03-01 16:45:35 · 6 answers · asked by tracimelbfl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 16:45:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my parents are having ego problems and think whatever they tell is right...i've tried counselling and has'nt worked.........can you help me out...........i dont wanna sit and resolve things because i know it wont works for a lonf time i need a permanent problem solver

2007-03-01 16:44:30 · 8 answers · asked by compton213 2 in Family

When 2 children share the same father and live with their respective mother, which is the correct way for one child to refer to another? They see each other, often. Sister/Brother or Half Sister/ Half Brother.
Also, do these questions (how many in you family, ect?) come up on applications for schools, ect?. Just wondering, as I would not like to cause confusion for the toddler, later on.

2007-03-01 16:42:51 · 10 answers · asked by yolkyolk 5 in Family

2007-03-01 16:42:49 · 5 answers · asked by heartbeats_tin 2 in Friends

Me and my boyfriend are completely in love we've been going out for a while now, and i never used to beleive in love, but being with him completely opened my eyes, and ive never been happier, and im still the happiest i can ever be when im with him.

But the problem is hes in england now and hes working now since he cant work here, and im working here because i cant work there. I want to save up for college and a car since the school i want to go to is far, and he needs to pay off a debt, help his mother out, and wants to help pay for my school.

I just dont know how i can compromise our working situations, but im not just going to leave him

i just need a little advice. Everyone thinks im too young to be making decisions like this and to be in a serious relationship, but i just want some advice to help me out. I think about it every day, that im just in a big love rut and i just cant decide what is a smarter decision, or what i want more

2007-03-01 16:41:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can you tell me how to tell if some one is cheating on you?

2007-03-01 16:41:29 · 7 answers · asked by Sarah D 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 16:40:29 · 7 answers · asked by MR. EARL 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy at school but he does not know im there i try to talk t him but he is with his friends all the time how can i tell him with out his friends there

2007-03-01 16:40:14 · 3 answers · asked by jenny f 2 in Singles & Dating

What will you do if I say I like you?

2007-03-01 16:39:00 · 5 answers · asked by Charliemagne 1 in Friends

2007-03-01 16:38:41 · 14 answers · asked by . 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and i broke up 4 months ago but we were unresolved til last week. He has a close friend who started liking him and he found himself reciprocating although he doesnt know how much and whether it's just a distraction or for real. He wants time to find out that's why he ended things with us. We both still love each other, he's been totally honest about it with me, and we feel we aren't really over for good. It sucks and everything but i can't help hoping. Apparently neither can he get over me. Are we meant to be?

2007-03-01 16:38:31 · 9 answers · asked by dasnag 1 in Singles & Dating

HI! any sites tt showcase wedding bouquets/posies for indian brides?tks!

2007-03-01 16:37:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've known this girl for 7 months. We had lots of fun together. when we hung out she acted like I was her favorite person in the world. This past Valintines day I took her out and we had a great time and she asked me tons of questions about what I want in a girl and marriage and things like that. Soon after i tried to kiss her and she turned away. When I spoke to her on the phone days later she was very shy and flirtatious with me. Then out of the blue she started blowing me off.

When I got angery with her and told her, she gave me attitude. Now we are not talking. Did she ever like me or was she just playing me all this time??? As soon as I tried to progress things she turned cold.

2007-03-01 16:37:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

nathan was born 2 mounths early and at that time my boyfriend & i lived sepratly he lived at his parents and i was living with my grategarand mother who raised me form age3 and up but anyways when he grue in to toldler hood his addtiude had changed from loving to really almost hateing his dad.i knowtest his cange in behaver when he would bring him back home form having on nathan for the weekend &now it seems to gottien woise sence we moved in to gether and also became pregnet with his brother . thank god he loves his brother! and surpriseingly he is not jellous of eathan! but shawn trys to get him to do anything at all, he sits or stands there yelling at shawn or telling him hes not his dad or stop telling me what to do!!! and i am at my whits end about them 2 cause when they are around each other its nothing but fighting and yelling i dont need eathan to start this behavor at his dad eather! even shopping is a night maire cant get through it with out shawn and nathan fighting! HELPME

2007-03-01 16:37:36 · 14 answers · asked by mary k 1 in Family

I know a guy who's really a cool guy - non desperate, non pervy, a perfect gentleman, and actually knows what he wants in a girl. The thing is, he's never been in a relationship. He's just one of those guys that is just a "friend". This girl who he's had a crush on for the longest time (his best friend) is also falling deep for him too. He realized that at this point in his life (with financial issues, school and work), he can't let his selfish desires get to him - he wants to really protect his chance he has with this girl but believes that right now he can't give her everything she deserves and is not the right time. He HOPES that later in the future, he could still have a shot - he wants a "real, serious, and long lasting" thing with her. Do innocent guys like him values relationships more?

2007-03-01 16:36:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sexy girls,

how can you spot if a guy is dateable? Nice Watch? Nice car? What!

2007-03-01 16:36:29 · 3 answers · asked by bustyblondegirls007 1 in Singles & Dating

they chuck stuff at me call me racist names and punch me,sometimes i wanns swing back but deres too many of them!

2007-03-01 16:35:00 · 6 answers · asked by wamzy 2 in Friends

I have a few friend issues going on, and I would like some advice.

"Rose" is having problems with this guy, "Billy". She likes him a lot, and she asked him out once, but he just acted all weird about it. For awhile he kind of avoided her, but then he started to talk to her on MySpace. One day, all of a sudden, he messages her: "Please don't write 'Your Rose' anymore. It makes me feel like a fairy." She told him that it was a mistake, since she is from Germany and doesn't really know that "your" is kind of personal, but what the heck does "fairy" mean?! And she feels really put down, and like he's just making fun of her behind her back, and I don't want to tell her the wrong thing.

"Amy" and I used to be great friends, but now she hardly ever talks to me, even though we see each other every day. I found out from someone else that she and her boyfriend broke up! What's up? I just feel like I'm a waste of her time, now.

I'm not dependent on what you say, but advice would be cool.

2007-03-01 16:34:49 · 5 answers · asked by Drinking from a broken glass.... 2 in Friends

2007-03-01 16:33:36 · 14 answers · asked by antonio s 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to get her something personal, and meaningful. Of course I'm taking her out to dinner, getting her flowers, etc. But the gift that means something that I will be giving at the end of the night needs to be personal, maybe even sentimental. She likes the ocean, nature, and she studies meteorology. She's kind of a tree hugger person, but not really. I sort of just started dating her maybe 3~ weeks ago, but we've gotten real close, real fast. I don't want to get her any kind of crazy jewelry. Not yet at least. A bracelet or something semi neutral might be OK, but nothing over the top in terms of price or glam.

I'm open to any other ideas though. I'm stumped at this point... guys... girls (especially) help me out!

2007-03-01 16:33:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but can't seem to even keep a guy around longer than two weeks. what can i do to keep a guy interested in me?

2007-03-01 16:33:07 · 15 answers · asked by Bigmomma 3 in Singles & Dating