I know a guy who's really a cool guy - non desperate, non pervy, a perfect gentleman, and actually knows what he wants in a girl. The thing is, he's never been in a relationship. He's just one of those guys that is just a "friend". This girl who he's had a crush on for the longest time (his best friend) is also falling deep for him too. He realized that at this point in his life (with financial issues, school and work), he can't let his selfish desires get to him - he wants to really protect his chance he has with this girl but believes that right now he can't give her everything she deserves and is not the right time. He HOPES that later in the future, he could still have a shot - he wants a "real, serious, and long lasting" thing with her. Do innocent guys like him values relationships more?
2007-03-01 16:36:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Id say so, my boyfriend is a lot like that. Hes definately different than a lot of men in the world. and worth waiting for.
2007-03-01 16:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Innocent is not the most accurate word. In any event, if he dos not take his shot now with this girl, he will not get that chance again. He could probably make a list of reasons why she should wait, but I don't think she will wait and for how long? His desire for her is not selfish at all. He knows what he wants and so does she. Financial issues, school, and work will take care of themselves. He should not let her go.
2007-03-01 16:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like him do value relationships more. He is a fool though for not offering what he has and going for it. He might lose his chance because of it. Love is more of a priority than a job, financial issues, school or work. And he can still be in a relationship and keep his **** together. He just has to make it work through effort.
2007-03-01 16:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by Malcolm L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say some adult men are nicer to prettier females, yet in effortless words to appeal them and make a reliable effect. the genuine adult men with a sansative area and/or heart will be awesome to a lady no count number what their apperience is
2016-12-05 03:24:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i said it once to you and i'll say it again...he's just not into you (best friend?), let go of your fantasy and move on. force it and you'll lose a friend or worse end up as a booty call or a rejected baby's mama. neither is cool.
2007-03-01 16:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by formerlylunesta@yahoo.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think guys like him DO, but they really don't show it much. They're usually the ones that are too shy or soemthing.
2007-03-01 16:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by cheaa. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe they do.
2007-03-01 16:42:06 · answer #7 · answered by rubyred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋