We broke up after 6 months of seeing eachother because he said that he doesn't know how he feels. Should I stick around or bolt? Every time we're around eachother he hugs me and acts like he cares a lot but we don't sleep together any more or kiss. Any advice? :( I'm totally miserable at this point because he still calls me to do things and we have a lot of fun but it's not really a relationship. I'm not good with gray. It's black and white. He chose not to be in the relationship but still wants to hang out and hug me and hold me... Should just tell him I'm not comfortable just being friends with him?
2007-03-01 16:45:35 · 6 answers · asked by tracimelbfl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him how you feel about this because I think he is just wants to keep you in his life until he gets another girl.He doesn't want to completely break the relationship coz he'll get lonely so you are just keeping him busy. Tell him and if he doesn't want to be in a relationship then tell him you can't be friends. I've been in the same situation and as soon as I told him how I felt about him, he stopped calling. So think really hard about this
Good Luck
2007-03-01 16:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least be grateful that he has been honest with you. A lot of guys would have just said yes that they did love you just to have the sex. If you really love this guy, let him move along in the relationship at his own pace. Otherwise, find yourself someone else.
2007-03-02 00:53:08 · answer #2 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what i see from your message, he just need love and care from someone. maybe he had feelings for u but that may be history. just a remark. but don't take it to heart. my thinking was he liked someone else but either that someone didn't know about it or she doesn't like him.. he still wants to hang out , hug and hold u even that the both of u are not in relationships means he just need someone to love him and pamper him.. erm.. like what i said, don't take it to heart cause i don't know his character. u may want to ask his good friends around him?
2007-03-02 01:01:02 · answer #3 · answered by Teo r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him. It's not good for you to be hanging out with him, hoping you're going to be back together if that's not what he wants.
2007-03-02 00:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by caddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over and done,move on for your Heart's sake.
2007-03-02 00:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him sweetie....that is a waste of time...trust me. i kno its hard....but its the best thing for u.
2007-03-02 00:58:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋