but can't seem to even keep a guy around longer than two weeks. what can i do to keep a guy interested in me?
2007-03-01 16:33:07 · 15 answers · asked by Bigmomma 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I`m available
2007-03-01 16:49:03 · answer #1 · answered by oldjr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is to be chill. When you sense anything but great energy between you and a guy, it would be best to kind of lean back (either physically or emotionally). Know what you want and at the same time be generous with him. Like if he's really into kissing and you aren't then just kiss more (it's not like it's sex).
Another huge thing is how many times you see each other. If you don't give him space and the OPPORTUNITY to miss you, how the hell will he be thinking of you and going crazy for you. Attraction grows in the presence of absence (Quote me if you like). As a rule of thumb, until you're in a COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP, don't see each other more than twice a week. Don't call more than every three days.
You'll be good.
Franklin
2007-03-02 00:42:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off try to find a guy thats interested in you and the things you like to do.Not just some a**hole that just wants to get in your pants.find someone that you can talk with and someone that you dont have to talk with ,a person that you can actually enjoy silence together,without being uncomfortable.Hopefully it is the guys fault you cant keep them interested for more than two weeks but you might want to evaluate that and also hopefully its not your friends thats driving them away,well anyway....good luck and God bless you sweetie I'm sure that you'll find him. Hes out there just dont give up!
2007-03-02 00:45:40 · answer #3 · answered by chris w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want a million dollars. But if I don't make an effort to get it,it is not going to fall like rain from the sky. Same thing with you, keep on trying until you find the right guy
2007-03-02 00:40:02 · answer #4 · answered by ☼♫☆☺♡♥☺☆♫☼ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be looking for a guy that interests you. You shouldnt have to do anything to keep him interested. Definately dont have sex
too early, You should wait. Deep down guys want to have sex immediately , but they also tend to think that you gave it up to too many guys prior to him , if you do..
And it will eventually change the way they feel and think about you
wheter u did or didnt.
2007-03-02 00:41:15 · answer #5 · answered by bob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find the right guy who will treat you right and wants to be with you. the cute guy who is shallow and just wants sex isnt the best choice. but we all want the same thing someone to love and who will love us. and we always choose whats on the outside and not what we want which is on the inside. ask your male friend who has been friends with you the longest to go out on a date. chances are he has remained friends with you all this time becuse he is in love with you and wants to be with you.
2007-03-02 00:40:28 · answer #6 · answered by brian w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer is that you have to be interested in yourself first. Unless you know how wonderful you are in your OWN heart, nobody else will be able to see it and won't want to stick around.
2007-03-02 00:38:59 · answer #7 · answered by travelgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you look like your avatar, I think these guys are the ones with the problems!
2007-03-02 12:01:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to meet decent men through friends and events.
2007-03-02 00:35:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be quiet, boring, or have no personality, spoiled, always asking for stuffe, give us space, dont call every f'ing day, let us hang out with our friends, and dont get pissed if another girl talks to us. it can go on forever really.
2007-03-02 00:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by Gonzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋