Me and my boyfriend are completely in love we've been going out for a while now, and i never used to beleive in love, but being with him completely opened my eyes, and ive never been happier, and im still the happiest i can ever be when im with him.
But the problem is hes in england now and hes working now since he cant work here, and im working here because i cant work there. I want to save up for college and a car since the school i want to go to is far, and he needs to pay off a debt, help his mother out, and wants to help pay for my school.
I just dont know how i can compromise our working situations, but im not just going to leave him
i just need a little advice. Everyone thinks im too young to be making decisions like this and to be in a serious relationship, but i just want some advice to help me out. I think about it every day, that im just in a big love rut and i just cant decide what is a smarter decision, or what i want more
2007-03-01 16:41:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel so strong about this then go with your heart! You are young and you must remember that you have your entire future wide open and you have so much more to learn about life in general...college is a big wake up call...it can make or break a relationship! If it is meant to be it will work out for the best!!! Just have faith right now!!! Ask yourself....am I mature enought to make a descion like this or should I wait?
2007-03-01 16:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by dont worry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the young love mature if possible. concentrate on getting what you need to go to school and let him resolve his own issues. figure out how to start your education and have your own interest. a long distance relationship may/may not work out. so its best you have your own plans. i have no doubt that you are in love...now is the time to build the foundation for it to last and that takes planning and time. a couple of years of school and learning how to support yourselves, will make each of you strong together or apart.
2007-03-01 16:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by formerlylunesta@yahoo.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you,
then he will support you wishes, to work here, with your friends and family, where you have stability and security.
If he loves you and you love him, you would cross oceans for one another. BUT, it's best to work, save your money in your homeland, and let him come to you.
2007-03-01 16:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by Lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what really matters is what you believe in, it is your decision, not someone else's. Do what your heart and your conscience tells you to do..
2007-03-01 16:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by ☼♫☆☺♡♥☺☆♫☼ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋