My ex and i broke up 4 months ago but we were unresolved til last week. He has a close friend who started liking him and he found himself reciprocating although he doesnt know how much and whether it's just a distraction or for real. He wants time to find out that's why he ended things with us. We both still love each other, he's been totally honest about it with me, and we feel we aren't really over for good. It sucks and everything but i can't help hoping. Apparently neither can he get over me. Are we meant to be?
2007-03-01 16:38:31 · 9 answers · asked by dasnag 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
using jealousy might not work - im the one tht's jealous of the girl. he knows i'm not e kind to be able to date when i love someone.
2007-03-01 16:59:52 · update #1
You never know.
It IS possible to always get back together. It happens all the time.
Sometimes the timing just isn't right at the moment.
2007-03-01 16:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T LISTEN TO ANYONE BUT ME! OTHER PEOPLE WILL GIVE YOU STUPID ADVICE THAT WILL END UP WITH NOTHING.
Phew... enough shouting.
What you need to do is really do your best to show you moved on. I know it's hard, but try hanging out with other guys (even date some... I'm serious.) It seems like jealousy is a bad game to play, but it is SOOOOO powerful, it can make nothing turn into love and even cause people to kill those they love.
Don't show that you're doing this on purpose. Just be casual and your ex WILL confront you soon enough. He WILL ask what's going on and you need to be strong and tell him that whatever he wants, he needs to decide (Don't be over-eager either). He may not get back with you at first, but he will be going CRAZY and THINKING OF YOU LIKE MAD. When he does ask you out again (which will have a 85% chance of happening) he will treasure you so much and you really won't have nothing to worry about. AFTER that, THEN you can make up for the jealousy game and be extra sweet for him.
Trust me, this works,
Franklin
2007-03-02 00:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This separation may just be a bump in the road that will eventually bring you back together, but even stronger than before. Good luck, I wish you well!
2007-03-02 00:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not mean that you are "meant to be", but certainly it means you could give it another chance. Just remember why you broke up with each other in the first place.
2007-03-02 00:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by gerberdaisy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but I seriously doubt it, you can never go back, it's best not to burn bridges, but found that you can never return to lost loves. It's best to move on. Just remember, never play games with the heart, it will surely back fire.
2007-03-02 00:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by Cheryl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both are feeling the same way, then i believe you'll be back together again. Best wishes to ya.
2007-03-03 01:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by PhiloPhobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sex must of been the only thing that brought them back together. Either that or somebody is afraid of relationships.
2007-03-02 00:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by **Fletchs Babygirl** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love something let it go if its not to be it want be back if it is ment to be it shall return (make it do lab work before intimate contact)
2007-03-02 00:44:56 · answer #8 · answered by okdmoore@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will tell.
2007-03-02 00:41:40 · answer #9 · answered by angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋