Basically I am 14, and theres this girl i like. Not sure if she likes me, been just kind of admiring her from afar. I'm known for being quiet in my school, so i'm not sure how to become friends with her.
2007-03-01 15:57:09 · 11 answers · asked by Jack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also im probably not too good looking, maybe just modest iunno lol but im smart if thats a plus
2007-03-01 16:07:45 · update #1
One more thing i forgot, I found out today we are going to seperate high schools at the end of the school year, so that kinda puts a limit on time.
2007-03-01 16:12:25 · update #2
talk to her
thats how you have to start
2007-03-01 15:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by HULK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are quiet in school, but you like her, it would be nice if you be the first to strike a conversation with her. Honestly, girls find silent boys slightly a turn-off at first, but when you know each other more deeply, she will come to admire you.
Now is the time to strike a conversation - just think of this, if you'd never ask any girl out, you'd never be able to talk to a girl and marry and have kids someday.
2007-03-02 00:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i kinda had this problem myself a couple of years ago when i was 13-14 years old and the easiest way 2 talk 2 her is ask about school like oh watz 2day's hw or w/e rite?? try to talk to her like wats ur name and other skewl stuff. this should lead to a lenghty conversation and if she is interested in u, she will attempt to keep the conversation goin without any akward pauses. hope this helps!!!
2007-03-02 00:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok follow the steps............... if u want the girl..
1. change your image in school- u can do this by getting into various clubs,making contacts.. do anyhting break windows...anything to be a lil famous..
2. get really friendly with her girlfriends-take their numbers and also of hers and tell her to call you, also talk to her friends quite often
3. tell her friends- after knowing her frieds for some time, tell the closest of the friends what you feel for the girl
4. be extra sweet- well simple, send her flowers, presents... anything....
5. invite her for a party- the word is party, but it won't be, just invite her and her friends, and then later tell them to move out from their, leaving the girl with you for sometime. propose her there and then....
im sure after all this she won't reject you.......
2007-03-02 00:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by laila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when ur around her try and talk 2 her about something for example u see a book she's carrying u ask if the books good stuff like that anythin 2 start a convo
2007-03-02 00:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well jack, it might be really hard for u to go up to a girl u don't even know about.....but all i can tell u is be yourself cause if u start of by not being yourself then its just faking who u really are. Just get the courage to go up to her smile and say hi then say my name is jack and yours then just start talking to her. See we only have one life to live so take chances she might even like u back.
2007-03-02 00:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by Angelina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's quiet too, then start by asking a question bout homework. work ur way from there
if she's really outgoing, then maybe u should approach her and then talk. it'll be better than just watching her and not doing nething.
2007-03-02 00:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by Lyzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, what do you like her for? if she is like the popular girl who gets all the guys, then she isn't worth your time. if you have known her for a long time and you know what her personality is, then you should go for it and try to talk her, even if there are other people around her! good luck!
2007-03-02 00:03:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've gotta change...just make sure that you are confindent when you talk to her...its tough being a young man at that age..i was in your postion..lol...basically you have got to wait it out until you are like 18, 19 and you will get plenty of girls.
2007-03-02 00:01:00 · answer #9 · answered by hey_thanks_you_guys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u should move 2 fast and assume she likes u. Introduce urself and start talking about what u do know about her and what u might have in common.
2007-03-02 00:08:03 · answer #10 · answered by BeAuTiFuL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋