I was on Facebook and just for fun I did a search on my ex-boyfriend to see if he had Facebook. He does have Facebook,But I DIDN'T add him as a friend. I did, however check to see who HIS friends were. He had 25 friends and 10 of these were girls. There were only 2 or 3 pretty girls, but it still bothered me. I felt hurt seeing these girls, I dunno why? Why did I feel this way? We only dated for a month ( but we saw each other a lot), then HE ended it. It was a beautiful & innocent relationship, it never went past kissing cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hold hands, it was sweet. Also he would still say hi to me on msn even though HE ended it. Also, he ended it ONE YEAR ago, yet a month ago he called me & asked me to go see a movie w/ him. I went, he picked me up & after the movie he said he wants to "see me every once in awhile." But I have not heard from him since our hangout. He's 26 while I'm 21.
2007-03-01 15:53:08 · 5 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't get me wrong, I'm a pretty girl but I dunno why seeing those girls on his Facebook bothered me? He's Chinese & all the girls on his page were Chinese, while I'm Persian. How do I get over this? I’m not a cyber-stalker, I just saw it today & I will never look at his page ever again.
2007-03-01 15:53:53 · update #1
Your just jealous at his possible prospects being what u percieve to be as hotter than you. dont sweat it, they could be nice girls who let him add them so he can feel cool. as for the part about "seeing you once in a while" i think u posted another q about the guy didnt u? i think i said something about what a cocky A for tellin u liek it is liek that.
2007-03-01 15:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First I commend you for waiting and girl even if he finds someone more attractive than you doesn't mean that you are not beautiful. After all he saw something in you to date you in the first place. Secondly, whose to say that those friends weren't just friends. Maybe he's just not "the one". Move on you have a lot going for you and if you aren't comfortable with the "every once in a while" next time he calls just say " oh, I'm a little busy right now". It's all or nothing at all. Don't be on standby for anyone.
2007-03-02 00:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural to feel jealousy. We all do at one point or another. Like you said you know that you are pretty. I understand what you are saying. I know that I am also attractive, but when I see a woman who is prettier that I am I notice her, but I appreciate the physical and internal beauty that I posses. Just keep in mind beauty comes from within as well. Have you ever met someone guy or girl who is absolutely beautiful, but once you get to know them and their personality they can become as ugly as hell? About the guy..forget him.
2007-03-02 00:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by uuummk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may worry about family problems regarding dating outside his race. But you need to just move along and not look for or see him at all.
Good luck
2007-03-01 23:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by Nort 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop being jealous and move on, he isnt worth getting upset over... you obviously still like him, and until you stop liking him, seeing those things will bother you.....
2007-03-01 23:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by jim 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋