Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

man has your "heart". We often place labels on relationships such as married or engaged. But I believe women that are engaged and married, often times the husband or fiance does not have their "heart' and secretly another man has their heart. That other man could be in past or present. But for various reasons a "formal" relationship does not manifest between the two.

I guess what I am asking is: Can a man actually "have" a woman's or women's heart without ever knowing it. And do you have to be in a relationship with a woman for you to "have" that woman? What are your thoughts?

2007-02-28 09:39:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Today i fingerd my girlfriend and she tossed me off for the first time today. Couple hours later i got this wierd feeling. Its feels like guild or sadness but i cant think why?

2007-02-28 09:39:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

someone?? For 2 yrs my now EX was madly in love and then the next day he didn't feel for me. How does this happen??

2007-02-28 09:39:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they also get into me and my parents room they are 6 and 4

2007-02-28 09:38:41 · 2 answers · asked by ♥Animal♥queen♥ 2 in Family

If I invite people to attend my wedding, and they cannot attend, do they have to send gifts? I DO NOT want gifts, and do not want people to feel obligated to send us one!

2007-02-28 09:36:55 · 6 answers · asked by Learning is fun! 4 in Weddings

I feel alone in life, because I live in a different city now from all my friends. And I have no family to speak of. I try to make new friends.

But I feel like I judge too much, based on looks, education level, social and financial status. I know this is wrong, but how can I get over this? I really need friends in my life right now, and it's hard to make new ones.

2007-02-28 09:36:27 · 2 answers · asked by MBA Grad Student 1 in Friends

well my best friend i love is not talkin to me & i didnt do anything wrong...what should i do i cant live w/out her..

2007-02-28 09:36:23 · 1 answers · asked by BOBO 3 in Friends

I'm not sure how to deal with her. She wants to be "friends". I don't trust her intentions.

2007-02-28 09:36:05 · 4 answers · asked by Kaybee 4 in Marriage & Divorce

eat. my cousin was going to drop something at home then go to the dinnebut her friend said he would follow her home with his girlfriend in the car then my cousin can ride with them ride to dinner together. This is weard what does this mean? This guy likes her but this happens? What do I tell my cousin?

2007-02-28 09:34:37 · 1 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

He is kind of on the perverted side, we don't talk too much but when we do we flirt a lot. He also does flirt with a lot of girls. I need to know if it is possible to get a guy to like one girl when he is used to flirting with tons of preppy girls. I am like a normal girl, he tells me I'm hot but I don't think so. If you need any more details I'll add more but if you answer from just this please do.

2007-02-28 09:34:33 · 5 answers · asked by jessicamarie93@sbcglobal.net 2 in Singles & Dating

I personally never notice those things at weddings. I pay more attention to the event than what I get out of it. Will it be rude or something if I don't do wedding favors?

2007-02-28 09:33:35 · 16 answers · asked by Knome Lover 4 in Weddings

i really don't know what to do. so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 3 months now. and i care about him. or i think i do. we're really close. or he thinks that we are. i just feel like a little bit of space. but i don't know how to tell him that. and i don't know if i want to still be with him or not. i'm just so confused. and i don't know what to do. he told me the other night that he was still thinking about a fight we had like a month ago, and i asked him if there was anything else he wanted to tell me that he was mad about, and he said no. then he asked me if i was thinking about anything that he should know about. i lied and said no. but i don't know what i would tell him. i'm his world. he's even said that. and we're still really young and i don't want it to be this serious. we're not going to be together forever. and he's getting so attached. what do i do? i don't know if i want to be with him or not. could someone please help me. i don't know what to do. help!

2007-02-28 09:31:51 · 52 answers · asked by Emy 1 in Singles & Dating

Please be curtious with your answers. My friend is very open with me and has asked me a question and I do not know the answer, and I was wondering if you could help me? He thinks that he might have a disorder or something bcuz when he has sex, he can not last longer than 10 minutes unless he is drunk or something. He 'finishes' really fast and he just wants to know if that is a problem? Please don't be rude with your answers. He is really scared.

2007-02-28 09:31:48 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do some bad girls like to go for the good guys?

2007-02-28 09:31:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Am i wrong in doing this?
i have found out that i have chlymadia and ghonera and i feel like my life is over becuase it has gone none treated for years and has made serious damage to my reproductive organs causing me to be infertile. i am 19 and been with my boyfriend for over 3 years and he has been by only sex parnter so i know he is infected too. i do not want to tell him becuase if i can not have children with him then i dont want him too either. i had symptoms and he has none so he will probaly be infertile too if he leaves it. i just cant tell him incase his is curable and then he will leave me and have children with some one else. am i wrong and bad?

2007-02-28 09:30:43 · 23 answers · asked by uni girl 1 in Singles & Dating

He is so HOT I can't resist it. Almost every time I see him I nearly faint, he's that hot.

2007-02-28 09:29:45 · 14 answers · asked by lunar_16_day 1 in Singles & Dating

He is so cute and nice it makes me weak! I already know he cares, but everything is so blurry! HELP ME!!!

2007-02-28 09:29:45 · 11 answers · asked by cow_girl_808 2 in Singles & Dating

I think I am a very weird girl a lot of times I am a really quiet girl dont say much but then there are those times where I am loud and obnoxious and then people get mad and tell me to stop. i want to be one of those people who can make friends with anyone because i can say anything and be a really cool girl everyone would love to hang out with. What should I do?

2007-02-28 09:29:44 · 6 answers · asked by spazzy_monkey 1 in Singles & Dating

i told her a lot of times that i love her...
she never had a boyfriend ether...
i want her to be my first girlfriend...
because i really love her...
and she feels the same way for me...
but she never told it to me only to our friends...
so what should i do?

2007-02-28 09:29:35 · 6 answers · asked by email person 3 in Singles & Dating

Since 8 had to do work when I got home from school. I wasn’t allowed to do my homework until I did my chores. My mom didn’t work but she would wait for me to get home so I could go to the grocery store, even though we lived 2 blocks away and she had a car, she would wait for me to get groceries. I used to tell her I couldn’t carry that much, and she would say “stop your whining”.And I had to vacuum the house every day, and cook dinner, as well as laundry and iron my step-father’s clothes. Every weekend I had to mow the lawn,wash the cars, and pull the weeds. My step-father would bust open my bedroom door at around 7am every Saturday and Sunday and make me get up and do yard work or whatever stupid things he was up to that weekend, because he didn’t want me to be “lazy”. So I never got to play with the other kids, or sleep in, or do whatever, and never really got to learn to socialize with kids.

Anyway,did I miss anything worthwhile?

2007-02-28 09:29:34 · 6 answers · asked by MBA Grad Student 1 in Family

hey who ever reads this thanks..what would u do if u loved someone u know liked u but they were not ready for a relationship?well its more complicating then i make it sound im a girl in love w/a
girl who likes me but is not ready to be w/a girl

2007-02-28 09:29:15 · 6 answers · asked by BOBO 3 in Singles & Dating

if you've dated a person for 12 years should it have already moved on to marriage? details please ready to give it all up

2007-02-28 09:28:59 · 13 answers · asked by thanh hien 2 in Family

Ok in my neighborhood there is this kid who alway picks at me like finds ways to belittle me i dont know anything he can come up with I want to show him that I won't take his crap but I am afraid that if I hurt him I will get in big trouble what should I do?

2007-02-28 09:28:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There's this guy in my class who I kinda like. Well, on his bday, I left him a comment on myspace that said happy birthday!(accidently sent it twice). Anyways, 2 other people sent him a happy bday comment, and I looked on their page, and he sent them a comment back thanking them. Well I didn't get anything. Now I feel so stupid! I was trying to take a step, and I think that it backfired! What do you think? Guys would you think that a girl was stupid if she did that to you? Thanks.

2007-02-28 09:27:54 · 22 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 09:26:59 · 19 answers · asked by bbybbbrat 1 in Friends

Ive been upset lately because my boyfriend told me that we should be friends... he still call me and say he would come see me but i kno life is not gon be the same... the only reason why we split was because his mom and dad think that im 2 young 4 him... now we have been together 4 this long {since nov. 2005} and now its such big deal {{they never met me but kno of me}} now wen im in school it be eatin me up but i try 2 smile a lot & not worry 2much bout it {{he graduated last year}} my bestfriend be tellin him how upset i be but all he tells me is its not his choice and dont be angry wit him... but i cant help it wen we talk on the phone now he can tell that i be sad but i try my best 2 be cool about it wen i talk 2 him {{i hate 2 talk about it again it could turn out worse}} its not his fault but i seem 2 be blamin him inside!! please help me out!

thanks

2007-02-28 09:26:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 09:26:36 · 25 answers · asked by ericatnn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive overprotected possesive family,protective man.I cant go out alone or after 6.00pm so that rules out going across countries to meet my man or him meeting me here.What can i do when i just need a break?Things are great but i feel that i dont want to feel anything instead of feeling the way i do.Im not depressed.Im just overprotected overpossesed over.Ive never lived life like teenager.Please tell what would u do if u were me?This is not USA

2007-02-28 09:26:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he has lost a bet and has to spend the day dressed in what ever i say, not sure what though? any ideas?

2007-02-28 09:26:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A few weeks ago I had to testify against my sister who is a Meth addict for breaking into my house and beating me up. After the hearing, the reduced her bail to $5,000.00 and her dealer bailed her out. After she got out, she , of course, went right back to using and drinking. A few days ago her dealer kicked her out of his car on the highway and she hitchhiked to my dad who finally convinced her to get into rehab again.........Here is my question. The state attourney called me this morning and asked me if I wanted to drop the charges because she was in rehab or if I agreed with the proposal of 3 years in prison with all but 90 days suspended. I want to believe that she will get better, but she is 38 and has 2 kids the family had taken away, and she has been like this for more than 20 years. Should I drop the charges and hope she gets better?

2007-02-28 09:25:53 · 16 answers · asked by mi4ree 2 in Marriage & Divorce