Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

Ok, what goes thrw a persons mind when the look at somebody and say they are ugly and another person looks and says they are beautiful how do we define beauty by looking upon a person for the first time

2007-02-28 10:08:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 10:08:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've asked so many questions on here but I love to hear others views. Me and my ex of 7 years broke up and he moved 2000 miles away..Well, he moved before we broke up..I know there isn't another woman. I am pregnant with his child and we are very young...22 & 23. We had our wedding planned before the baby. Dr. said I would never be able to have kids..my ex wanted one and I ended up getting pregnant. We wasn't trying because of what the Dr. told me. He was very excited while I was kind of depressed because I wanted to be married and have my degree. Now, I wish he comes back and I know alot of people thinks that is stupid. We had a pretty good relationship, His father walked out on him as a baby. He tells me he misses me and loves me but picks stupid fights..Does distance really make the heart grow fonder?? I told him last night we shouldn't talk until we clear our heads..Has this every happened to anyone?

2007-02-28 10:07:40 · 2 answers · asked by angelsdeath420 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so im a virgin still and i dont want ot have sex yet. i dont even have a bf at the time. my brother wanted these consert tickits but doesent have the money. this kid at his school knows me and has seen me but i dont know him. he is 1 year older than me. he told my brother that he would give him 4 tickits for free if i would have sex with him FRIDAY my brother told him the next day yes and the kid gave him the tickets. my bro went to the concert the other night. today he told me about having to have sex with this guy that he was gonna drive me over to his house fri and no one would be there but us to and i said no. but he said i have to cause he already wne to the concert but i dont want to have sex??? plz help

2007-02-28 10:05:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it's really weird.

2007-02-28 10:05:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my crush knows i like him & he`s been actin real shy around me
i know he`s never ever had a girlfriend but i still can`t tell if he
likes me or not. so tomorrow, since he sits infront of me, i`m thinking of writin him a real short note just saying, "hey. do you like me?" since it`ll be so short & he obv. will have an answer, i`m sure he`ll write back. =]

good idea? any suggestions? thank you.

2007-02-28 10:05:27 · 5 answers · asked by Taylor. 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend of 10 years and he lives with mommy. He has lived with her all of his life. his dad died when he was 19 and before he died he told him to take care of everything after he died. so now he has felt it to be his obligation to take care of mommy by living with her. 15 years later his mom has never remarried they have their names on each others checks and bills come to them like they are married. Its sick i know and there is probably nothing or anything anyone can say or do to make him grow up and move out and be a man. but if there is i wish i knew. mommy is also very much healthy works a full time job and is very active. Please help....... Anybody!

2007-02-28 10:05:11 · 20 answers · asked by Kris C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My future father in law said to me that his wife would like to be "part of the wedding party."

OK, that means she wants to be a bridesmaid, right? I couldn't believe it. I have never seen or heard of 1. people inviting themselves to be bridesmaids and 2. older/mature women being bridesmaids. I thought bridesmaids are all invited by the bride and they are the bride's sisters and close friends/relatives.

Please kindly tell me if
1. Wedding party is the same as bridal party (please correct my understanding if it's wrong)
2. How I should deal with the situation if she does indeed want to be a bridesmaid.

I don't hate my FMIL, but her request is way too weird. I don't want her to be my bridesmaid! Never!

2007-02-28 10:05:11 · 19 answers · asked by Lady WK 1 in Weddings

but now i want to...now ifeel as though its passing me by and time is runing out.....


but i dont know how...seriosuly i dotn know what im doing....and am very tense and anxious about the wole thing?? what do ido???

2007-02-28 10:04:43 · 5 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Singles & Dating

About two months ago I woke up having a huge anxiety attack aswell as depression to go along with that. The thought that I woke up with was that "What if I have fallen out of love with John (my current boyfriend)" The thought scared me to death and slowly my feelings came back. I went from hating him one day to loving him the next...back and forth for about 2 months.

So all in all I am wondering if what I am having anxiety because I HAVE fallen out of love. Am I convincing myself that I love him...I almost feel like I have someone telling me "no you dont love him" I dont know what to do. It is ruining my end of the relationship.

I want to be with this guy forever and it will kill me to have to end things with him. Keep in mind this is my 1st non dramatic relationship and it is a "healthy" relationship. My friends say I am most myself when I am around him. So I dont know what to think about it, how do I know if I am convincing myself or not?

I hate this!

2007-02-28 10:04:08 · 2 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How can i get better at guitar? I know how to read tabs, but i dont want to learn how to read music or anything like that. I dont want to take lessons. Can i do something that will make me play really good?

2007-02-28 10:04:06 · 2 answers · asked by bustyblondegirls007 1 in Singles & Dating

I have known since I was 16 that my dad was not my natural father although my mam (parents are seperated) did not tell me until this year. She believes that my dad doesnt know (I think he does but just wouldnt admit it). I love my dad , he has been a reasonably good dad.
My mam has told me my natural fathers name and I have his adress and telephone number. He has been fed constant information about me over the years (he is also married) so I would not be a shock to him .
What I now need to decide is do I actually want to know him? Do I want him in my life ?
Have you been in this situation ? what did you do ? What were the consequences?

2007-02-28 10:03:58 · 31 answers · asked by bluegirl 3 in Family

2007-02-28 10:03:38 · 10 answers · asked by [ΦΘΚ] PIяATE 4 in Singles & Dating

Apart from the obvious.lol. We are saving to go away for the summer so we are trying not too spend much money but dont want to feel like we are missing out on doing things. thanks.xx

2007-02-28 10:03:22 · 14 answers · asked by moojkc 2 in Singles & Dating

ok me and my boyfriend being going together for a year and a couple of weeks and we broke up 2 days ago but i just cant stop thinkin about him but i want to get over him but i see him every morning and aftrnoon everytime i see him i just want him back so bad . we talk every known and then but i want to know what the quickes why to get over him

2007-02-28 10:03:20 · 1 answers · asked by @lw@y$cut3 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl in school that I like. We are the same age and I’ve known her for a couple of years now (but we are not close friends).
I like her a lot and I try to flirt with her but she doesn’t seem to respond well to that. And I don’t think that she would go anywhere with me. (I kinda suspect that maybe one of her friends likes me)
My question is what should I do?
I know everybody asks the same question but I’m really confused and I’m not that good at this (as you probably guessed by now).
I really don’t know what to do. The only thing I can think of is during classes to grab her hand and take her somewhere more private in the building and tell her everything
(that I like her, that I like being with her, that I’m doing this in school since I don’t see her outside of it, and ask her whether I have any chance of being more then friends with her) I really really need your opinion (no matter how brutal it is). Is that ok, what should I change or maybe you have another idea

2007-02-28 10:01:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am shy but all the guys i know like girls who are the life of the party.

2007-02-28 10:00:55 · 4 answers · asked by sweetcherrypie_♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

What is your opinion of this statement?

"From what I understand about guys (which, admittedly, is very little) NOT hearing from him can really be a good sign.

I think, a lot of times, they do that when they REALLY like ya--sometimes because they don't want to screw it up by seeming pushy, sometimes because they like you more than they feel ready for."

2007-02-28 10:00:46 · 2 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Singles & Dating

But sometimes she has a small odor.How can I tell her gently without crushing her sensitive heart?

2007-02-28 09:59:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i really dont like this person since 6th grade

2007-02-28 09:59:29 · 9 answers · asked by getto_girl10 2 in Friends

Two years ago my husband cheated on me with my twin sister. They were both drunk. My sister says that she did not want to have sex with him, but she did not tell him no she just let it happen. I asked her if he forced her and her answer was no. When I first started dating him he wanted to have sex and I said no and he was fine with the answer. He never did force me. All you have to say is no! Right/Wrong? I went to counceling with him and I still talk to my sister. Before this happend we had a good marriage and my sister was my best friend. We have two children and I love the family we have together. Currently I go to couseling for an eating disorder. I have no self confidence. Sometimes I think that I am just affraid to be alone. I was raised by just my mother and I don't know my father. So tell me what do you think about my LIFE? I do still love him and I love my sister. Do you think people can work through problems like this one? Thanks for your time!!

2007-02-28 09:58:55 · 10 answers · asked by ccl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-28 09:58:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hey remember me i am the one that wrote that one passage about if my boyfriend saying send me a kiss baby please please well guess what thanks to espn01 she send me a very nice suggestion and i talked to him and asked him how would he feel if i had did the same thing to him and we talked now hes being so nice and sweet he is always saying that he loves me and everything so what do u think does he really love me or what i trust him now that he showed me that he really does love me but give me ur oppinion please just do it thanks oh and please write to me at esalocasoyyo01@yahoo.com my name is nadir thanks bye

2007-02-28 09:57:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 09:57:33 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-28 09:57:01 · 11 answers · asked by robertkeightley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-28 09:56:47 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-28 09:56:21 · 1 answers · asked by ohdarnitsmeagain 3 in Singles & Dating

woman is by choice very domestic, makes the home warm and inviting, and caters to her Husband, by whom she is loved dearly. Think Leave it to Beaver, only with spankings if she gets out of line, ala John Wayne in McClintock. No one is suggesting that this is the only choice, but I'm curious as to how many girls would desire that type of arrangement.

2007-02-28 09:56:16 · 6 answers · asked by shreveport_master 2 in Singles & Dating

Over the years I've had alot of trouble with being 'used' by my friends, being unappreciated by them and being isolated by them, also problems at home between members of my family which brought us to breaking point, none of which I blamed myself for however I did shut myself off from people and began spending alot of time by myself, which I loved. Now after five years I'm starting to hate it. I hate being by myself and I want friends but after spending some much time alone it's really hard. I don't know how to express my feelings for other people, I find myself pushing them away and even feeling uncomfortable with physical contact. I hate being alone but in contrast I hate being near other people. I don't know what I should do. Can anyone help?

2007-02-28 09:55:57 · 4 answers · asked by suzume 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

give details such as weather ,where u went, what they did to make it so special,what did you eat ,smells sounds etc............

2007-02-28 09:55:30 · 1 answers · asked by raindovewmn41 6 in Singles & Dating