Girls I need your advice! Please help!!!?

Question

There is this girl in school that I like. We are the same age and I’ve known her for a couple of years now (but we are not close friends).
I like her a lot and I try to flirt with her but she doesn’t seem to respond well to that. And I don’t think that she would go anywhere with me. (I kinda suspect that maybe one of her friends likes me)
My question is what should I do?
I know everybody asks the same question but I’m really confused and I’m not that good at this (as you probably guessed by now).
I really don’t know what to do. The only thing I can think of is during classes to grab her hand and take her somewhere more private in the building and tell her everything
(that I like her, that I like being with her, that I’m doing this in school since I don’t see her outside of it, and ask her whether I have any chance of being more then friends with her) I really really need your opinion (no matter how brutal it is). Is that ok, what should I change or maybe you have another idea

Answer 1

I went through the same thing with this boy I liked. I started to flirt with him and he kinda flirts back. What I did, I gave him gifts from time to time and he finally figured out I liked him. It worked out fine with me. Just bacause you do this, dosn''t mean she's going to like you.
Girls have a mind of their own and you can't force them to like someone.
Hope this works and good luck!

Answer 2

Go for it! What's the worst that can happen? Maybe she gets a little mad or disgusted if you don't do it tactfully, but if you like her that much, she probably isn't mean enough to be awful about it. Or maybe she would say no because of her friend's feelings about you, which I can't really help you with, but hope for it not to be that. Another thing you could do is send her a note of some description. I realise that sounds stupid, but if you write it in a cute way. Which it will be unless you are all cocky in it. Either way, good luck!

Answer 3

She's shown no interest in you so far, and it's unlikely that kidnapping her and forcing her to listen to your impassioned speeches of love will suddenly change her mind. If it's true that her friend likes you, and she cares about her friend, she won't encourage you or accept your proposals anyway.

So either you can get over her and try to pursue other women, such as her friend, or you can make one last clear effort. Ask if you can speak with her, and then tell her flat out that you like her very much and would like the chance to go out with her on a date. You sound pretty invested in this, so what do you have to loose?

Answer 4

If she's not responding the way that you are hoping for I wouldn't jump right into it and tell her everything. That might freak her out. Just ask her to hang out sometime after school or on the weekend. Start out by telling her she makes you laugh or she is fun to be around. If that seems a little scary, try to get a group thing together.

Answer 5

if you want to seriously freak her out the by all means confess. most importantly STAY CALM!!!! if shes not interested then there's nothing you can do. don't try to change yourself for anyone no matter how in love you think you are. nobody know a persons true feelings.

if you are truly desperate try dropping hints.
here's what you say " i need your advice. i really like this girl but i don't know if she likes me. i think about her a lot (don't say you think about her all the time that is creepy). do you have any advice?" do this exactly. my boy friend said this and i got the hint. we've been dating for almost a year.

Answer 6

get her screen name and talk to her online--then when the time is right just ask her if she wants to walk over to the mall or dunkin donuts or wherever near your school after class the next day. Then just chill there for a while--feel the situation out. If it feels right slowly lead her in to how you feel. IF you just grab a girl in the hallway and tell her you've always loved her its kinda creepy. Just be gradual.

Answer 7

well first try and call her more often just for the h*ll of it. um maybe write her a note or something telling her that you need to talk to her in person because i dont think grabbing would be a good thing lol. then tell her what you need to and hopefully everything works out. and when you do tell her dont try and make her figure it out just say it.

Good Luck!

Answer 8

i thinl that you should take her to a more private please in school and thell her how you feel but instead of dragging her by the hand ask her politely for her to meet you somewhere and don't just burst out and say it take it slowly.
GOOD LUCK!!!!

Answer 9

i say go for it lifes too short to worry. whats worse getting told to get lost, or going on as you are wondering what might be. get yourslf siked up and go for it. the worsed that can happen is a no, and thats not so bad really doll

Answer 10

go for it!! tell her how you feel, because chances are she likes you back and is too scared to admit it. don't be afraid to tell her otherwise you will regret it..take a chance, worst comes to worst, she just wants to stay friends and you just move on ;] good luck!