But sometimes she has a small odor.How can I tell her gently without crushing her sensitive heart?
2007-02-28 09:59:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The best thing you can do is to just come out and say it. It is possible that she just needs to take a feminine cleaning (douche) and you need to make that suggestion to her. She may not realize she has an Oder and if you can smell it I'm sure others can too because that sent on a woman is strong.
2007-03-08 01:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by 女性ウルバリン 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any gyno will tell you douching is SOOO bad for you but the shower together should do the trick if not if there is a discharge and its not time for her "cycle" then she needs to be checked out.... Remember if its a fishy odor then it might be a bacteria infection if its a yeasty odor then it can be a yeast infection bith can be EASILY taken care of. if its time for her cycle take that into mind it might just be her. there are a lot of reasons females give off an odor . Just be honest and DONT do it right before sex cause that wll throw up a BRICK wall you wont ever knock down. Also she is probly already aware of it but dont know what to do about it
2007-03-07 21:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a pleasant situation but, sometimes it has to do with diet or not drinking enough water. I would talk to her rather then try some half baked scheme to give her a bath. Lets face it she will catch on to that and be more upset. If the odor is small then she might not even realize it. There are many famine products out there she could you. I would tell her you sometimes notice not often but at times and go from there.
2007-03-07 13:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Great question! As a woman, I always take extra precautions in the odor department. Woman have a natural tendency to give off a very pungent odor before, during, and after love making. Besides just coming out and saying "Honey you have a slight odor problem, and I don't want it to become a problem for us, so let's see what we can do about it", there really isn't much you can do besides suck it up. How would you want her to approach you about the same issue? Be tactful!
2007-02-28 21:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bath and Body works, they have some great smelling fragrances, tell her you want to give her a day at the spa at home... because you love her sooo much, bathe her w/the scent u picked out, sweat pea smells really nice..., shave her, shampoo her hair, dry her off, paint her nails fingers and toes, massage her feet, her back, her neck kiss her all over, then u can handle the rest...right???
2007-03-08 14:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest taking a showers together. Go out and buy her an expensive deodorant as a gift, along with an expensive bottle of perfume.
Put a note along with the wrapped gift "Love you so, you always have such a beautiful aroma about you."
She will believe you, and automatically will start taking care of her hygiene on her own.
2007-03-08 02:31:51 · answer #6 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that is a life as a woman we have so many issues and that is the most special place of our life. If you love her you should be able to tell her so that you can have something good to get into...that doesn't smell. Maybe she needs a stronger douche or something...but maybe she needs to be seen by a doctor and has a physical problem. But whatever the case you have to be the one to tell her in the most nice way ever....GOOD LUCK!!!!
2007-03-06 13:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by DePressed08 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Besides some of the great answers above...the reason you need to tell her is it could be a medical problem (infection or something) and she might need to see a doctor. It is a touchy subject but this is not a girlfriend, you should have no problems being honest with your wife...try taking a bath or shower with her...but if the odor remains, than it might be something more serious...good luck
2007-02-28 18:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by poker_fan_in_nyc 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You need just come out and tell her because if you don't that's the worst thing you could do. We want honesty even if it hurts. Just to say honey i felt you should know. But what ever you do, do not share this info with your friends. Tell her so she can take care of it. That shows you love her.
2007-03-08 00:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by friend 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honesty is the best policy...sorry, but she won't catch on or think you're a jackass if you tell her that she needs perfume down there! If she gets pissed off at you then she needs to grow up. You guys are married and should be able to discuss issues about your sex life together.
2007-02-28 18:36:14 · answer #10 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋