ok so im a virgin still and i dont want ot have sex yet. i dont even have a bf at the time. my brother wanted these consert tickits but doesent have the money. this kid at his school knows me and has seen me but i dont know him. he is 1 year older than me. he told my brother that he would give him 4 tickits for free if i would have sex with him FRIDAY my brother told him the next day yes and the kid gave him the tickets. my bro went to the concert the other night. today he told me about having to have sex with this guy that he was gonna drive me over to his house fri and no one would be there but us to and i said no. but he said i have to cause he already wne to the concert but i dont want to have sex??? plz help
2007-02-28 10:05:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you tell your brother what to do with himself. you dont owe him or his friend anything. do not let him bully you into doing this. If you do it now he might use you again . you need to put a stop to this now. Tell your mom dad or a trusted adult whats going on.
2007-02-28 10:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by nethnee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are to go to your parents immediately and tell them what you told us here . In fact , print it out and show it to them so they know you mean it. Under NO circumstances be alone at home until this is solved . Your brother wants to be a pimp, let him carry the consequences . If there is no trusted adult around, go to the local police . You will be sorry for the rest of your life if you don't tell on him. Imagine if you got pregnant or catch a disease .Please listen to the good folks on here and do what they say.
2007-02-28 18:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police. Seriously, it's not like you'll get in trouble, nor will your brother or this friend. Just call them up, tell them just what you told us and they'll drive over to that guys house and tell him to get a f_ucking life and that he can't expect you to sleep with him and that he's sh_t out of luck for those tickets. He'll be too scared to try anything with your brother so it's all cool. Or call HIS parents and ask them if it's alright to have sex with their son in order to settle your brothers debt. That'll teach him....
2007-02-28 18:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by Tellus A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man what a brother you have. tell your brother thank you for making you get in the position you are in. As for the sex addict, dont go to his place. when you are at hopme make sure you have the doors locked, tell your parents. And if so tell the sex addict yourself that you arent going to have sex. i was once pressured to have sex but i always kept my pants on. ONLY YOU CAN CONTROL WHAT YOU DO. dont let yourself ok?
2007-02-28 18:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by yay i love that word 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, talk directly to your parents about this; its completely unacceptable that your brother would put his sister in this sort of situation. I strongly recommend that you don't spend any significantly long period alone until this gets resolved, the guy your brother took the tickets from might try and "force" himself on you.
2007-02-28 18:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats ur brothers name so i can find him and kick his A$$! Seriously You need to find an adult like a parent, school teacher or counselor or call the cops immidiately dont do it sweetheart, your brothers sounds like he doesnt care about you if he's puttin you in a situation like that. You need to call the police and stay home with an adult that night. Please call them it will make you feel better.
2007-02-28 18:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by Lady B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops. seriously, if your own brother sold your body for some freakin tickets, then he is a huge d**kwad. Tell your parents too. They'll put an end to it. Just remember, cops are there to help you.
2007-02-28 18:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE cant Make you do that tell your parents whats going on Your brother shouldnt of done that You dont have to have sex like that its wrong
2007-02-28 18:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by HunnyBunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forced sex is RAPE and just because your brother 'said you would' is NO REASON for you to have to 'go through with it' ... and if necessary, you should go to an ADULT whom you can trust and get 'back-up' so that you can 'stay a virgin' until YOU are 'ready' to have sex with the PERSON YOU CHOOSE TO BE YOUR "FIRST.'
2007-02-28 18:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a joke right your brother is out of line and you best be telling you parents or some adult right away. if you don't this could be very dangerous it's called rape if you say no even once
2007-02-28 18:16:11 · answer #10 · answered by sweetsmiles69@jennieask-me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋