Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

O.K...my girlfriend finished with me on Sunday by text. I had been having unrelated problems with stress (exams etc) & she said that all i ever seemed to want was intimacy (not talking2her!) (she hadnt touched me in 1 month) (Really hurt by that!). Anyway,on Mon,she told me she felt it best if we didnt talk4a while,give it 2weeks to get over me,she said!I said 'would u want2go 4a drink aftr then, perhaps as friends (been c in her 4 year-gud frnds b4)?She said 'u may not want2,itl b hard! I was devastated & went home...the next day late at nite got text saying how she nvr wantd2hurt any1 or me,& felt 'really guilty',but 'deserved to'...then left it at that....WHAT DO I DO? If I still like her,do i nvr speak2her again? What's best in this situation? I really value her friendship,but if stil lyk that'd be hard? Do i leave it & see if she texts me eva? Could she?

2007-02-28 10:33:58 · 4 answers · asked by Rejhaven 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl I met a while back gave me her number. We talked then I stopped talkin to her after a while I felt I was bothering her but she was playin hard to get. She moved my friend saw her and she told him to tell me Hi I still Like her. I want to talk to her but im not very good with words. I also keep getting signs that makes me think about her.

2007-02-28 10:33:43 · 3 answers · asked by Curious Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

in 8th grade, i asked a guy out who i hadn't even talked to & obviously, he said no. this year (the next year) i looked at him & realized he was looking back.

we went on a band trip & sat close to each other in the bleachers on accident and he talked to me for 3 hrs straight and we even went on a little "adventure" together (sneaking out of our "assinged area") for about 40 minutes.

then i asked him to lpa. and he said that he didn't go to dances. i thought then our relationship was over. but...

a few days ago he sat by me in a class made for study time and we talked the WHOLE time. about nothing in particular but we were flirting a lot.

he told me he was going to try to come about 30 min. away to watch me in the drumline.

im wondering if he likes me? even after all of that? is it possible he might ask me out? what should i do, if anything?

2007-02-28 10:33:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what if i decided not go stop for gas before I went to work? If I hadn't, I wouldn't have been smashed into while looking for a parking spot. If that hadn't of happened, I wouldn't have had a rental car for 3 weeks which was 4x4 and my car isn't. So I would never have decided to take the car off roading that monday night. Then of course, I wouldn't have been stopped by the police at the entrance of the trail. So, by not stopping for gas, I wouldn't have a DWI on my record. Since I do have one, I can only drive to/from work/school. So I would have been able to drive to my friends on another monday night. If I had gone there, a huge huge fight could have been avoided and we would still be friends now. And if it was the case where my ex-best-friend didn't hate me now, I would be able to still see his dog. I love this dog. and I'm very sad today because i miss him. If I had only had enough gas in my car to make it to work, I'd be a very different person today. That's chaotic!

2007-02-28 10:32:40 · 3 answers · asked by brandon 5 in Friends

2007-02-28 10:32:23 · 12 answers · asked by Luis J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you say that you dont care about a girls personality,smarts or anything else as long as the girl is hott??

2007-02-28 10:32:09 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend proposed to me last week. We are now engaged. I've been so happy about it and so excited. A few months back though, he broke up with me pretty much out of nowhere. I was crushed. I thought I was going to have a nervous breakdown. The next day though, he asked for me back and I gave him another chance. As bad as it was, it actually made our relationship stronger. We're crazy about each other and want to spend our lives together.

Thing is, I forgave him of this and most of the time am okay, but sometimes it'll hit me like a ton of bricks what happened before and I panic about it happening again. I'm engaged to be his wife and I'm still scared.

How can I keep this from bothering me, or is it just something natural that will cross my mind from time to time?

2007-02-28 10:31:46 · 17 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 10:31:39 · 11 answers · asked by bandaidgirl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I used to know it, but now, after 5 yrs of being out of touch, I no longer do. I really want to find her; she's the bestest friend I ever had.

2007-02-28 10:31:29 · 3 answers · asked by Elizabeth Gaska 1 in Friends

2007-02-28 10:31:07 · 12 answers · asked by La parisienne ! 2 in Singles & Dating

im moving to maryland from indiana mom to dad

2007-02-28 10:30:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Me and my boyfriend who i have been dating for over a month were having a good night out and then right beofre the end of the date he tried to kiss me. well i slapped him in the face and punched him in the gut untill he fell and told him that i didnt want to be kissed. he didnt even get angry, he just got up all dignified and got back in his car and was about to drive away when i asked him why he didnt hit me back after just giving him a beating like that? he said "I could never hit someone as gorgeous as you" and then he drove off. I kinda felt really guilty for doing that and then he drove away with such honor and dignity. do you think i should go after him and try and get him back.

2007-02-28 10:30:23 · 14 answers · asked by Christy 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend (for a few years) and I have recently fallen head over heels for each other - we were not expecting this at all - we truly care and adore each other but we decided that right now is not a good time in our lives to have that serious relationships we long from each other.

Any stories are inspirational words??? or actually, movies that show love being stronger the second time? and do YOU believe that love is stronger and better the second time around?

2007-02-28 10:30:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do u know if a guy likes u. besides them telling u, what would they do. like would the talk differently, b around u more, idk... guys, how do u act around girls when u like them?

2007-02-28 10:30:03 · 3 answers · asked by book worm 5 in Singles & Dating

alright,
my friend has this girlfriend who is very annoying. and she made my friend into a sort of snob. before he used to be a pretty nice guy, but now he acts like he is better than everyone.

I really dont like my friend's girlfriend at all. she forces her presence all the time, and is obnoxius. like today, when i saw her at my dorm room (my friend is one of my room mates), i opened the door, and in an obviously kidding tone i asked "What are you here for?" and in a snide, bitchy tone she said under her breath "What do you think?" almost like saying "What do you think, idiot?"

And she also made him so whipped. he does everything she asks without even a question.

should i tell my friend how i honestly feel about her? or should i just let nature take it's course?

2007-02-28 10:29:34 · 1 answers · asked by arodhater 3 in Friends

Just askin!

2007-02-28 10:29:28 · 1 answers · asked by tinkie1992 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so my BF and i broke up because i hugged my bestfirend, who happens to me a guy, so we got into this huge fight and i broke up with him, was that wrong? and then i found out that he had been talking a bunch of crap about me, and our whole relationship of like a year and a laf was a lie, and that when he sapposedly "loved" me he was telling other girls how much he loved them...not cool, i trused this boy, like no other, he was my bestfriend, so this makes me wonder,are all men like this? or just mine? and how do you know if you can trust them or not? should i just give up all together?

thank you.

2007-02-28 10:28:33 · 24 answers · asked by jauryd 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean from your first to your present/latest,I dont want you to tell me the sizes just if you can remember them.

2007-02-28 10:28:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom is conspiring against me.I'm 15 &she treats me like dirt when no ones around, mocking me&treating me like shes my age.im constantly catching her telling other people lies about me. Like when i offered to clean up around the house,for 10 $ a week, she went around telling people that i want her to pay me money to clean up after myself,which i already do&i clean up after every1 else. I just wanted to clean up&organize the big jobs.Another ex. is,im trying to become more independant,so i offered for them that id pay for all my own things&shes telling my dad that i keep on asking for money. But the worst is today, when my dad told me to stop treating my mom so badly,when i dont,i try to stay away from her when SHE treats me like dirt.shes tellin him that i shouldnt get anything because of how i treat her.my mom constantly acts "jealous" when i get things or attention so i try to downplay what i get, but i just want this to stop&now shes turning my dad against me what do i do?

2007-02-28 10:27:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Her name is allison and she is absolutly beautiful. I am not so good looknig myself, and I am wondering if that will affect anything. My buddy has told her everything about me and I know everything about her. I am also a shy person! Can it work?

2007-02-28 10:26:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you ask a guy who he likes and say all the people in the class(but sneakly leave yourself out) and he says no to everyone, does he like you?

2007-02-28 10:26:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you prefer a skinny girl or a girl with curves? and by curves i dont mean fat. and what part of the body do you focus on the most?

2007-02-28 10:26:02 · 19 answers · asked by Ally 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this boy in my class........and he STINKS as in smelly no one likes him. Should I tell him or not?

2007-02-28 10:25:59 · 3 answers · asked by XOXO 2 in Friends

Im divorce and my ex has to many mental disorders and my girls are always giving me problems and know my boyfriend left cause the girls always want him to bye them stuff and the girls are always getting into trouble and know i feel like my girls want torule my life like my ex did can they have a mental disorder too...

2007-02-28 10:25:47 · 7 answers · asked by marcy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

O.K. My girlfriend finished with me on Sunday, things had been going downhill anyway,and i had an eating disorder which I told her about, & said i was seeing a doctor bout it,she felt 'we' couldnt continue as she thought she caused it.We had dated 4 a year. She said she didnt want me contacting her, & that she wanted 2 weeks. I spoke to her today,she said that for my sake, 2 weeks was best to get over her,& then we'd have to see what happened. I said, in 2 weeks, if I ask u out 4 a drink as friends,would u want2?She said that it'd depend on how 'I (Not her!)' felt, bcos it isn't always easy..... the thing is....i still like her,& i know if I cured my prob,she may hav me bak,but i doubt it. so questions...has anyone had a situation lyk ths?is it best to meet her aftr 2 weeks,wht shud i say?shud i just never speak 2her again? please let me know!....UPDATE: Last night she sent me a text out of the blue, saying how guilty she felt & nevr meant to hurt me&feels guilty! NOW WHAT!!

2007-02-28 10:25:29 · 3 answers · asked by Rejhaven 1 in Singles & Dating

I won a discounted 10 day trip from them a a bridal show and they said all I need is $400 to hold the spot. I want to know how legit they are as a business.
Thank you for your anwers ahead of time

2007-02-28 10:25:19 · 2 answers · asked by scarlett13854 3 in Weddings

is there somethin wrong with that?
what if the guy u like is really shy
and hasn't had experience with gurls at all...
i wanna make a move && find out if he likes me
or not since if i dont do anythin he wont!!
he knows i like him && ever since he's found
out hes acting different towards me...

i wanna ask him if he likes me or not...is that a smart move or will it just scare him more w/ girls?? i REALLY wanna kno && stop guessing him...i can't read him at all!!! =(

2007-02-28 10:24:23 · 28 answers · asked by BRITANI 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a bunch of wild and crazy friends all part of a bohemian bunch who are getting along in years, hence are cooling down. So there is this super hot party gal whos been there done that and now wants to settle down in calmer latitudes. As in most such cases the guys are straight arrow dependable type that have probably spent their youth face buried in books. Come time to marry these hot gals somehow choose the bland bread earners to settle down. This gal has an unique situation since in the past she has appeared in many private sex videos, copies of which are not impossible to obtain, but not in video stores. She brought the topic up many times and her fiancee seems totally turned off to the idea of watching such movies leave alone see her permorm her acrobatics in one. Is there a tactful way of disclosing this not so subtle matter to this future hubby so as to not have to suture the relationship in future?

2007-02-28 10:24:16 · 12 answers · asked by Kaliyug Ka Plato 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 10:23:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 10:22:48 · 9 answers · asked by CC 1 in Singles & Dating