my mom is conspiring against me.I'm 15 &she treats me like dirt when no ones around, mocking me&treating me like shes my age.im constantly catching her telling other people lies about me. Like when i offered to clean up around the house,for 10 $ a week, she went around telling people that i want her to pay me money to clean up after myself,which i already do&i clean up after every1 else. I just wanted to clean up&organize the big jobs.Another ex. is,im trying to become more independant,so i offered for them that id pay for all my own things&shes telling my dad that i keep on asking for money. But the worst is today, when my dad told me to stop treating my mom so badly,when i dont,i try to stay away from her when SHE treats me like dirt.shes tellin him that i shouldnt get anything because of how i treat her.my mom constantly acts "jealous" when i get things or attention so i try to downplay what i get, but i just want this to stop&now shes turning my dad against me what do i do?
2007-02-28 10:27:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OMG, my mom did that crap with me too! turned out she had a serious psychiatrc problem, but I still can't forgive her or trust her...I don't know what you can do, when it's an adults word against a teen, people always seem to believe the adult, what a sucky situation!
I guess you could try talking to your dad, maybe you could live with him? If not, maybe your school counselor can help, even set you up with relationship counseling for you and your mom.
Sorry for your situation, hope you can find a way!
Good luck!
2007-02-28 10:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to ask them both when they are together why they are treating you the way they are. I would ask your mom why she acts the way she does towards you?
It sounds like to me that she is maybe a little jealous of you maybe because you have a lot of friends at school and maybe when she was your age she didn't have the things that you do. It's really hard to say though. I would just say try talking to both of them at the same time and see what they tell you is the reason behind it.
Good Luck
2007-02-28 18:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by blondie21_97504 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. Your a child. Your mom is the boss so live with it. Better yet, listen to her and do what she says. Until your 18, your are entitled to nothing. Try living on your own baby.
2007-02-28 18:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by kevin t 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
spend more time with ur father...u should have a father-daughter bond but if u don't then u need to get one... but if u have any questions to ask ur mother make sure u ask them in front of ur father that way he will hear and see the responses...try it and gl
2007-03-01 11:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by featherlover2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋