Help Me Please!!?

Question

O.K...my girlfriend finished with me on Sunday by text. I had been having unrelated problems with stress (exams etc) & she said that all i ever seemed to want was intimacy (not talking2her!) (she hadnt touched me in 1 month) (Really hurt by that!). Anyway,on Mon,she told me she felt it best if we didnt talk4a while,give it 2weeks to get over me,she said!I said 'would u want2go 4a drink aftr then, perhaps as friends (been c in her 4 year-gud frnds b4)?She said 'u may not want2,itl b hard! I was devastated & went home...the next day late at nite got text saying how she nvr wantd2hurt any1 or me,& felt 'really guilty',but 'deserved to'...then left it at that....WHAT DO I DO? If I still like her,do i nvr speak2her again? What's best in this situation? I really value her friendship,but if stil lyk that'd be hard? Do i leave it & see if she texts me eva? Could she?

Answer 1

First you need to relax, think about what is going on your sweating a girl who broke up to you through a text message she didn't even have the balls, or courtesy to break up with you face to face. Now everything else is up to you if you want to talk to her and see her as a friend or not. Just give your self sometime to think, figure out what you really want and just be your self with her.

Answer 2

ok, first off, stop with all the text message short hand stuff. second, maybe the two of you should meet somewhere quite (like a park or something) so that you can talk and you can explain your feelings to her and she can do the same for you. If you really care about her and love her, i wouldn't just let it go. At least try to talk to her. BUT! If she keeps playing games with you, move on. Good luck!

Answer 3

OK well you guys should still chat but give her some time to see how much she misses you she'll come around
but dont let youre break up afect youre friend ship

Answer 4

just dont worry about her move on with your like