My hubby to be, wants to go to belgium for 4 days for his stag do. Under normal circumstances I'd be happy, but it means him leaving me with our 2yr and 1 yr old babies alone and I simply cant cope for that long. We had a massive fight over it, he said I was controlling, and said the wedding was off (after I had already suggested it!). I sobbed my heart out for hours, he ignored me, which made me cry harder as now I felt unloved and neglected, and finally he said shut up...which made me devastated, and I cried even harder.
I dont want to stop him having fun, but we have very little money, we havn't paid for the church or the funiture or his lager pump he wants for the recption..and now he wants to go abroad.
I suggested he stayed in the country, or he go for three days instead to save the money and help me out with our children, but he wants what he wants as its a one off. He's blind to this stag party. Whose in the wrong?.
2007-02-28
10:41:16
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jamiehattie
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Marriage & Divorce