after splitting up 3 times in 4 years why do i still want my ex back, is this healthy?

Answer 1

no its not healthy at all....you should move on to someone that will make you happy...

Answer 2

ive split up about 5 times (huge arguments, not even counting the little ones) in 2 years :) dont worry
it will get u stronger :) its probably that ur characters are a little different or too similar and sparks fly, but if u r having fun at the end of the day just dont hang up on that, it probbaly gives u more passion and the make up is lovely :) it depends what kind of person u r, if u want peace and quiet than maybe think again, if u r energetic emotional and impulsive than just accept that this is how you r. its probably more fun than having one stable line where there are no ups and downs

Answer 3

Healthy? Not necessarily. But I think it's normal. I think we tend to romanticise our past exes. Especially when do not have someone new in our lives. We look back sometimes and think "ahhh, it was not so bad". We need to remember that there was a reason for the split. Just give yourself time to heal. If your mourning a past love there is not going to be room for someone new. You will survive this. Good Luck.

Answer 4

Thats not very healthy. The average time to get over a lost love is one year. Also I heard that the average length of a serious human relationship is about 3 years.

You're heading for a new world record. I'll bet you guys still hang out together. If you seriously want to get over him/her (if theres no chance of getting him/her back) I think you have to push them out your life a bit.

Answer 5

Is this healthy? God, NO. Why do you keep putting up with this? Has the relationship changed? Obviously not. You need to move on to something healthy. There's someone out there for you. You need to get the hell out of Dodge and go fine her/him. Good luck.

Answer 6

it must be low self esteem that keeps you wanting him back because why do you keep on splitting up with him
once its over it is over move on life is for living and in life you keep going forward never go back on anything move on to pastures new after all you would never go back to school would you progress through life at a steady pace looking for something new and one day you will find what you are looking for but you will not find it going back
just think of it this way if you drive your car looking behind you all the time you will crash keep your eyes in front and keep looking ahead

Answer 7

His happened with me and my x, and after the fourth time I said no!! If it was meant to be you would still be together without the splits.

Answer 8

If you keep splitting up there must be something fundamentally wrong with this relationship. Bite the bullet and move on. It'll be hard at first, but you WILL get through it and be glad you were strong. Good luck.

Answer 9

Could be you just can not stand the thought of someone else touching what you think is yours or maybe you still find him or her very attractive or just maybe you still love him or her but refuse to see it .

Answer 10

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Answer 11

go on the jeremy kyle show...that man will help you ........NOT!!!you obviously cant live together or apart take time out and have a good long think if its 4 the best?