My sister is a big bully, how do i deal with her?

Question

She always is beating me up and making me upset. She calls me names, says i am fat (which i am not) and makes fun of me. She is constantly forcing me to let her wear my clothes and my jewlery, use my computer, cell phone...etc... Everytime I try to deal with her she hurts me mentally or physically. My parents are usually not around and if they are they try to break it up, but usually it just ends with ignore her. But what they dont know is she constantly is hurting me. What do I do?

Answer 1

I think you need to get some outside assistance on this one. Some battles we have to do ourselves, but here you are overpowered and your parents are failing to take good care of you. I would tell them that if they don't stop her from hurting you, you will contact the school and ask them to get social service workers over. See how THAT sits.

Answer 2

Tell your parents this situation is more serious than just sibling rivalry. Tell them you are being brutalized by your sister. Give them one more chance to intervene. If they don't, knock the daylights out of her when she hits you. Tear your clothes or jewlery off her if you catch her wearing them and attempt to knock her teeth out when she calls you out of your name. That ought to do it.

Or, you could take the high road and pray about it. That would really be best.

* I'm sort of PMSing right now so take my advice with a grain of salt (and put some salt on my chocolate.)*

Answer 3

Make a list and sit down with your sister. Tell what she's done in the past and ask her to stop. Ask her if there are things that you can change too. Then, take what was said (written down) to your parents and tell them that they need to protect you from any further fear of violence or you'll have to take the list to someone else. Be calm, direct and assertive - not aggressive. Good luck.

Answer 4

well sweetie when i was ur age i got made fun of 2 u how i didnt let it get 2 me i fought back no i mean i fought heres a tip
1- put ur chin down so u dont get hit put ur rite fist by ur rite check n ur letf fist by ur left face do this in front of a minor n throw straight punches they have 2b straight n dont bend ur wrist or u'll break it do this when ur ***** of a sis aint in the house or ur parents then the nxt time she mess with u u fist fight her n if that dont wrk tell ur parents in private that u want boxin lessons that will teach ur sis 2 mess w u again make sure u tell ur parents not 2 mention the lessons 2 ur sis its improtant 2 u

Answer 5

What you confirmed us isn't bullying. Teasing, yet no longer bullying. possibly human beings could desire to renounce calling each and every thing bullying in recent times. If somebody is lazy, they are lazy, the actuality.

Answer 6

ummm...well i know this sounds cruel, i dont beat up my sister but i make fun of her, but i do do thhat to my little sister and i need to stop. Well my sister automaticaly tells my parents exactly what i did and my parents do not put up with that. You should talk to her. Thats not right that she's hurting you so you need to do something about it and sit down with your parents and tell them how you feel!

Answer 7

well you should tell her how u feel and if your not up to that particular task, just have a yelling contest...dont put up with her ****! and dont ever believe what she says. id bet money that your very beautiful and thats why ur sis pics on u . shes probably jealous. well best of luck.

Answer 8

Try to resolve the problems with you,your sister,and your parents.
Or you could just get evan with her!

Answer 9

learn how to box take classes and stuff then beat the sh!t out of her. worked for me.

Answer 10

Hit her with a shovel.