my boyfriend is goin through alot now and he seems not to have alot of time for me.. i understand he needs to do his own thing and i am very suportive and if he needs me im there no matter where i am.. but i also have problems at the moment and his never there for me.. and it seems when things happen im there for him and his to busy for me. iv talked to him about haven a break but he dont want that.. but i seem to get soo upset coz his never there for me.. when i need him i end up crying myself to sleep. do you think i should break up with him? or stay and try being suportive? i really do love him. but i dont think his problems on top of mine is doing me any good its startin to make me ill. help any advice will help thank you
2007-02-28 10:38:55 · 5 answers · asked by itz_me_init 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just give it some time.
Let things cool down.
I am pretty sure neither of you guys wanna break up anyway.
2007-02-28 10:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by watnowgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey-ever body goes through a lot of stuff in there lives but you need to make him understand that if you are wiling to accept that he's got a lot going on and that you will always be there at the end of it all then why not make the special time everyday just for you 2 nothing else.Even if it's just for a few hours he needs to be there for you it takes two and your there when he needs you so if he can;t make the time for you then you need to find someone who is going to be there despite all the crap that goes on at the end of the day you should be his number one and he shouldn't expect n/e thing less from you !Your only asking for what you put out in return!
2007-02-28 18:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by sweetsmiles69@jennieask-me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both are having problems and they are not related to or involving each other than I say take a break.You can still be there to support him when he needs you but you have your own issues to deal with so focus on those.Besides how supportive can you really be if your mind is on dealing with you stuff.
2007-02-28 18:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by bjustnape 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well try the whole break thing again it will give him some time to relize how much you mean to him if he's not willing to fix the problem then move on or you to cuold go some where quit and talk out what bothering you and how you to feel about eachother
2007-02-28 18:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by lola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him exactly how you feel. let him know he isnt supportive and he needs to focus more on you. stand up to him
2007-02-28 18:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by rosiee cheeks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋