Ok my best friend nd my other best friend [[a boy nd a girl]] like each other. But my best friend whos a girl has a bf nd the boy best friend wants to go out with her. I dont feel comfortable with them going out i mean im both their best friends and Immm just sooooo uncomfortable if they go out...again. Idk, maybe i still having feelings for they guy best friend? But i like another guy. Help plssssss!
2007-02-28 10:41:12 · 18 answers · asked by cutehaliey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well unless you actually know you like the guy then you should let your other friend go out with him if whe breaks up with her b/f. becuz then thats kinda selfish. but i would prob feel that way also that would be your best friend getting everything she wanted and she already has a b/f. but then the other guy might feel sad.
life so complicated.
2007-02-28 10:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by baby girl#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's an old saying that applies here: MYOB! That acronym stands for Mind Your Own Business. Quit trying to control somebody else's actions. That makes you a control freak, one of the most hated of bad habits. How are you going to stop them from going out? And why would you want to? They aren't married are they? And if they were, what business do you have trying to tell them what to do? Don't you think they are old enough and capable enough to make up their own mind? And if you don't, why would you want to hang around with someone like that?
Relax. Let nature take it's course and wish them both well. If you don't, you're going to end up minus two good friends.
2007-03-08 08:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by pianofritz2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you cant stop them from going out you will just have to find a way to deal with the uncomfortable situation. Chances are they will break up eventually but the problem will be worse if you bother them about their decisions
2007-02-28 10:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by Becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..ur girl has a boyfriend, so y would he wanna be with her?! i think u wanna b with him! uh huh...but how can u want both?! u have to chose one, and i think u want him because he wants her..hmmmmm...i say u go for the "other" guy because then ur best friend can find another gurL and yous all can hang out with someone new besides each other, and gossip about each others relationships. ;)
2007-03-07 09:36:33 · answer #4 · answered by JB. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't like him its a normal feeling when u c ur best friend (boy) has a crush on some1 u know, u must tell them both no matter how things went wrong between u guys both of u will always b my friends i don't wanna lose either of u
2007-02-28 10:49:36 · answer #5 · answered by i dont know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok 1st calm down...then if the gal pal has a bf then don't worry she will have to break up with him 2 go out with the guy pal and tell them both it will effect u in a bad way....open up to them if there really your friends they'll listen and if u want a little insurance talk the gal pal into staying with her bf...if shes with him u must approve of him
2007-02-28 10:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by Adele.S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its just that you're uncomfortable with the thought not that you still have feelings for him.When friends start dating it changes everything.Only thing you can do is be there for them and don't get in the middle of relationship spats.Stay neutral!
2007-03-08 03:28:21 · answer #7 · answered by ladydream67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your "uncomfortable" about their dating is actually jealosy. its selfish for you to have both guys and expect the girl friend to still be your bff. go for the other guy and let her have your guy friend. but first she must choose between her boyfriend and her crush. like you, she cant have 2 boyfriends. and if you both try to, it will end very badly for all concerned.
2007-02-28 10:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you sem like you are in a pickle because if theres a fight your in the middle. and if you like to guys go for the single one and if your friends get ina fight dont hasatate to tell your boy friend what stresses you and all that.
2007-03-06 01:09:01 · answer #9 · answered by Ricky 007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let things be hun, If they like each other there will be nothing stopping them. Just be there for them just in case. Things might be alright tho. So don't let it trouble you. If you try and keep them apart they might not like that.
2007-03-08 09:25:19 · answer #10 · answered by leons mum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋