English Deutsch Français Italiano Español Português 繁體中文 Bahasa Indonesia Tiếng Việt ภาษาไทย
All categories

Was it worth it? I'm thinking about it.

2007-02-28 10:34:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

32 answers

My sincere advice....don't do it.
It may be fun at the time, but you'll regret it at some level for the rest of your life.

STOP THINKING ABOUT IT!
Thinking about it is the first stage of planning for it to happen.

2007-02-28 10:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by JV 5 · 2 0

If you are married and you are planning to cheat behind your spouse back, I will call that adultery, but if you are single and you want to sleep with a married person, like everyone says here,you will become a home wrecker, esp. if theres a kid involve in the picture.
No fun intended, but I caught my husband having an affair for 2 months,before x-mas last year with this married woman as well and they met on some christian dating site. Have I been good to my husband,in bed and in our regular life?? yes I do, his the one that don't know anything in bed. What he did ruined my trust, respect, and love for him. And now my 3 kids,(teenagers) lost their respect as well and at the same time he ruined their life,for some stupid lust.
So just think about it before you do it because theirs a lot of life itstake, not just yours.

2007-02-28 10:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 1 0

I have and i'll tell you that at the time, I thought that it was amazing. I mean who wouldn't want to have sex with a love starved horney person?!? But now that I'm married, I wish that I would have never done it.

Sometimes I wonder if the person's spouse ever found out...or if he ever told her...even are they still together now? If not, is it because I ruined their relationship?

What a yucky feeling. I wish that I could go back in time and apologize to him for being such an ***!

2007-03-01 14:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by agentorange 1 · 0 0

That's something I couldn't do.

Some people have lifeless marriages, and there are legitimate sparks between a married person and someone else. It's a real thing.

It's just something any respectable person avoids. It's bad for everyone involved, especially children.

The reality is that most people aren't respectable.

Why am I at home on Yahoo Answers? Answer: people are pricks.

2007-02-28 11:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by SirEddieCook 3 · 1 0

Yes, I slept with a married man that is my husband!
Now if you are asking if you should sleep with a married man that isn't your husband but someone else's husband then NO, don't do it. It is not worth it.

2007-02-28 12:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by Tgirl 3 · 2 0

I've slept with a married woman for nearly 6 years now. Our second child is due in June.

2007-02-28 11:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 2 1

before you do anything think how you will feel if that were your husband!!
I have done it a few times I had no idea that person was married. 1 time I did. I regret that cause I never really wanted to go that far I wanted to wait. but I messed up and did anyways. They were separated but that was because of me as well. I never tried to cause any of tha tmess but I did. I'm so sorry fo rhis wife and child. To think they almost divorced because of me! Sad!!!

2007-02-28 12:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by tweedy778 3 · 0 0

I slept with a married man! My husband! LOL

2007-02-28 10:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by Gerry 7 · 2 0

Just my husband of 10 years!

More than the moral reasons not to sleep with someone else's spouse are the 100's of personal reasons not to. First of all, they never leave their marriage for the affair....and if they do...why wouldn't they do it to you. In the back of your mind you'll always be thinking "Well they cheated with me, why wouldn't they cheat ON me?" Not a pleasant way to live.

2007-02-28 11:38:54 · answer #9 · answered by tchrnmommy 4 · 2 0

I had 3 brief affairs with married men it was ok after we got done he went to his wife and I went back home had fun for a while and things just fell off. Then of course I got married and That is nothing that I would ever do again. So in other words DON"T DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-28 11:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by Charlie H 2 · 1 1

fedest.com, questions and answers