Me and my boyfriend who i have been dating for over a month were having a good night out and then right beofre the end of the date he tried to kiss me. well i slapped him in the face and punched him in the gut untill he fell and told him that i didnt want to be kissed. he didnt even get angry, he just got up all dignified and got back in his car and was about to drive away when i asked him why he didnt hit me back after just giving him a beating like that? he said "I could never hit someone as gorgeous as you" and then he drove off. I kinda felt really guilty for doing that and then he drove away with such honor and dignity. do you think i should go after him and try and get him back.
2007-02-28 10:30:23 · 14 answers · asked by Christy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hellz yes!!! that was way violent! what a nice guy for saying what he said and not hitting you back... if i was him... you would have been dead! lol! run after him! and kiss him for god's sake! its just a simple peck on the lips... ur not gonna die! what a nice guy he is...........
2007-02-28 10:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you overreacted a bit there. Instead of doing that you should have just told him "No" that you didn't want to be kissed.
The fact he got up dignified and drove off like that says he's a good guy, but honey, if you are going to do that to every guy you meet, you are going to end up alone.
If you like him, try again, but honestly, if it were me in that situation, being the guy, I wouldn't ask for a second date.
2007-02-28 18:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by Lillian M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you found a really good guy because instead of getting angry with you and yelling at you he got up and walked away. Some guys prob would've reacted with violence... Some might even have raped you, child! Call him, tell him you're sorry and leave the ball in his court! Explain to him why you did it.. And while you're at it explain to the rest of us please cuz it sure as Hell sounds like a crazy a** thing to do!
2007-02-28 18:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by britt g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have some anger issues to deal with first and foremost. Real men never hit women EVER! This guy sounds like a real find and you should be thankful for him. Reign in the anger and you might keep him around for a while!
2007-02-28 18:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by Thunderman9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did u hit him???? That was wrong you should apologize 4 ur behavior. U hurt him both physically and morally. u should have just said that u did not want a kiss it would have been enough.
2007-02-28 18:35:28 · answer #5 · answered by piksy_rose1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious???? He tried to KISS you, and you beat him up?? Get a life, girl. A simple step back and a "no" would have sufficed. Let him go... he knows his worth and he deserves better than you!!
2007-02-28 18:34:19 · answer #6 · answered by curiousity_killed_the_cat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes,Why in the world did you punch him?Just for a kiss.
2007-02-28 18:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by savnit g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U sound like such a *****!!!ARE U SERIOUS!!!U beat the crap outa your b/f cause he tried to show u how much he cared for u?Girls like you don't deserve guys like him,try bein single,maybe you'll learn something about relationships then.Go after him if u want!Even if he takes u back,he'll probably break up with u for having such a bad temper!SHAME ON U!!!!
2007-02-28 18:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go after him and explain why you did it. then say your sorry and hope he takes you back. you hurt his pride and thats not easily forgotten or forgiven. please remember next time let the man know how you like it rough and set limits. many guys cant bring themselves to 'hurt' the one they love. so if he cant hurt you either tune it down or go elsewhere.
2007-02-28 18:42:53 · answer #9 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea girl u should go after him he was so sweet .....and u sound like u were a ***** (no offensine)kk bye
2007-02-28 18:37:02 · answer #10 · answered by abby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋