Family & Relationships - 27 February 2007

My boyfriend is having trouble with a lot of different things right now. There is so much going on that he has trouble sleeping at night. I want to be able to help him, and make him feel better, but i dont know how, i wish there was some way that i could show him how much i love him, and make him feel better. He is really never happy anymore, and i know its not me, but sometimes i just feel like i want him to tell me that he loves me and do something for me that i would know how much he cared about me. Is there anything i can do to make him be more romantic or loving???

2007-02-27 03:17:35 · 9 answers · asked by gibby411892003 1 in Singles & Dating

would you date him hoping to become attracted to him or what would you do?
I met this guy and he's a christian like myself...we both are serious about our christianity..he really likes me and thinks I'm his future wife...I think he's a great guy, has excellent values and he cares a lot about where his spiritual life is heading...overall a great guy...except that physically I don't find him attractive... I feel bad about this. I don't want to seem superficial but shouldn't there be physical attraction in a relationship too?? Doesn't that matter? what would you do?

2007-02-27 03:17:28 · 16 answers · asked by Mary S 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 03:16:40 · 36 answers · asked by asker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Didn't wake up good, so clumsy. still tired, at work falling asleep on the computer. Somone share my pain?

2007-02-27 03:15:50 · 6 answers · asked by aphotic nostrum 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 03:15:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 03:15:31 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My Ex Girlfriend is torn between Myself and this other guy, she says she doesn't kno who she wants to be with, I really do have strong feelings for her but I don't know what to do, we've already had a conversation about this and she says she doesn't know who she wants to be with it's a hard choice because she's been in love with the both of us before, so it's hard. I asked her to make a choice before but she says it's not that easy, what should I do should I force her to make a choice, sit back and wait for her to make a choice or throw my hands in the air and forget about her and get out of this Love Triangle, Please help Looking for great advice on what I should do in this situation.

2007-02-27 03:15:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And my girlfriend saw me as I was leaving. Since they know each other she called my ex without me knowing
it and asked her what I was doing there.
She told her we had sex so now my girlfriend says we are
over. What should I do or say to get my girlfriend back?

2007-02-27 03:14:39 · 21 answers · asked by Charles W 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a young lady on a matrimonial website & we hit it off very well. She had a prior relationship 3 years ago that she ended & admits to feeling guilty about as she sorta "strung the guy along" and did not verbalize her concerns regarding their relationship that she felt wasn't everything she wanted. This young lady suggested to me that we need to meet in the early stages to assess if we should move forward with the relationship. I agreed & visited her last week after a month & a half of communicating & we had a great time...very relaxed, fun & open. We kissed & to describe the intensity of the passion, our tongues were on fire. She later told me that she holding back as she felt something was missing & she wasn't feeling something. Since then, we have had a couple of disagreements (no shouting or such) & some character issues came up. I found that she was being more defensive, interruptive and less proactive...she did accept some responsibility but I felt has yet to introspect...???

2007-02-27 03:13:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She broke up with me yesterday and i still love her. she broke up with me she said she does not like me anymore but only as a friend. a friend said that she takes about a week be4 she gets a new boyfriend and im going away till monday. I heard that she kinda still has feelings for her ex and i need advice i want her to be mine. ps she is 15 so no sexual stuff please

2007-02-27 03:13:29 · 8 answers · asked by you are d 1 in Singles & Dating

thirteen years because of some mean things that her husband said to me and that she did not argue him on. He said that I was a lousy mother, friend, and student and not worth their time. She did not defend me at all. It hurt my feelings very deeply. About two weeks ago, she wrote me to wish me a happy birthday and said she was sorry that things happened the way that they did. I was shocked to say the least. We both admitted that we missed out old friendship. Her latest email stated that she wanted to be friends again, but that I would need to tell her that I respect her marriage and her husband. That is what I am having a problem with. I can not honestly say that this man is worthy of it. He is a loser, a drug addict with a felony background. Yet, I miss the friendship with my old friend. What should I say? What should I do? Please....any advice would be helpful.

2007-02-27 03:12:14 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

Where Does The Lonely Go??What Does The Lonely Do At The Age Of 43????????????

2007-02-27 03:11:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have no idea how much my husband's business is worth and I assume he is not disclosing the true value to me.

2007-02-27 03:11:35 · 3 answers · asked by vphone 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-27 03:11:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-27 03:11:11 · 13 answers · asked by Chocolit B 5 in Singles & Dating

I was thinking about the situation between me and an eighteen year old about how I always feel uncomfortable around him and lately he is getting too touchy feely. What makes people turn on others and want to do this to others?

2007-02-27 03:11:07 · 3 answers · asked by --; cookie. 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Each time a guy proposes me either he is not as educated as me, doesnt have a good job, or is simply a bastard... or is not gd looking enough... or is too short... i cant find my perfect partner... do u think i am expecting too much? however i will not be happy with a person who is not gd looking, short, earns poorly n is not so educated... please advise...
thank you

2007-02-27 03:11:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He wants to have closure on a bad period in our lives but will not let go

2007-02-27 03:09:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was with a guy for 2.5yrs. Things have been off and on the entire time. It has always seemed like me chasing him. We split up a few months ago and I have been seeing someone I have been friends with for a couple years. I am so lost at this point b/c....My ex of over two yrs has asked me to go talk to a counselor with him and work out our communication issues. He says hes ready to committ to me and marry me. Hes 31 yrs old...im 24. The other guy is great...we communicate well, hes extremely attractive, has a good job and is fully ready to committ to me. All I have to do is say go. But for some reason no matter how bad things got with my ex I still love him whole heartedly. Like family. I am torn. I could pick the seemingly perfect guy that I know I could have. Or I could stick with my ex and work out our issues. For some reason after this long we still have trouble letting eacother go. We really do love eachother very deeply. But he hurt me very bad multiple times. EEEK! So lost.

2007-02-27 03:09:26 · 12 answers · asked by one 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I are in our forties and have been together for over a year she has 4 kids and I have a 15 yaear old son . Her kids range from 10 - 15 and they have know me for a year. We are very much in love but I am starting to feel some resentment . Her ex has the kids half the week and she has the other when she has them its like I don't exist I will not hear from her she will never talk on the phone when they are around she will always wait till they go to bed before she will call me , I spend time with all of them and she acts like I am a friend never has she said that she loved me , hugged me or god forbid given me a kiss in front f them . I understand that they are kids but I think that after a year of being around them she can start to let on her feelings about us to them , I feel that by this time we should be further along she has talked about us living together , I dont see how that can ever happen with the way things are now . I feel she is obsesed with the kids.

2007-02-27 03:08:38 · 10 answers · asked by el diablo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 03:08:14 · 9 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Has anyone ever met there soul mate? if they have how do you know it is your soul mate that you have met?

2007-02-27 03:08:09 · 30 answers · asked by Tinkerbell 1 in Singles & Dating

I have recently broken up with my boyfriend. I was hurt and surprised, and his good friend is my even better friend. I basically ranted to my friend and got his take on things, but now feel very bad. I apologized for creating a potentially awkward situation, and let him know I really had no hard feelings (if someone doesn't love you, they just don't) and we're all still going to be friends, but I can't help but feel like I should have just kept my mouth shut. Keep in mind I'm closer to my friend than my ex. What do you think?

2007-02-27 03:08:05 · 8 answers · asked by SarahS 2 in Singles & Dating

If you have an affair with someone's wife and trick the guy into raising your kid... is it something that can be understood or forgiven or totally wrong?!

2007-02-27 03:07:56 · 4 answers · asked by Rona9 2 in Marriage & Divorce

http://www.perfectweddingguide.com/kansas-city/professional_profile.asp?LID=17127&header=60&catheader=58
-follow this link to see a pic. of where my reception will be..it won't have the lights hanging down though. I was thinking of having a beach theme (teal and white) but I don't think I'm going to be able to come up with enough decor to drown out the golds and reds. What should I do? I haven't bought very much stuff yet; I can take back what I did get (it came from wal-mart). What colors would work well in the room if not? The beach theme was because I love this dress (http://davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns_detail.jsp?stid=2827&prodgroup=10) with cornflower as the color. Therefore, my bridesmaids would wear a dress in that same color (solid though). I just don't know what to do!

2007-02-27 03:07:17 · 10 answers · asked by goaliegirl87 2 in Weddings

2007-02-27 03:06:45 · 19 answers · asked by Lynsey D 1 in Weddings

i do cuz i am

2007-02-27 03:06:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The person in question is an ex.bf who a few days ago poped up after 7 months without contact.He drove around my house looking to see if i was around at 7 a.m when usually walk my dog.He works nights and goes to school during the day.He asked me to hang out and then tried to hook up with me even though he has had a gf for 9 months.I said no and felt uncomfortable.Anyway i still have feeling for this guy he was my first everything.He is the only guy i have ever had sex with and i trust him.I took him up on his offer and now feel num and empty?What can i do?

2007-02-27 03:05:11 · 21 answers · asked by Mandie G 1 in Singles & Dating

Things just arent working out and we have dated for a little over 2 weeks. I dont want to hurt her feelings cause I hate seeing girls upset. Does anyone have any ways I can let her know without making her upset?

2007-02-27 03:04:39 · 13 answers · asked by 333(i'm only 1/2 evil) 1 in Singles & Dating

If you found out your pretty young female co-worker was sleeping (or had slept) with a young man of her age and status in life, would you be more or less interested in sleeping with her?

2007-02-27 03:04:29 · 2 answers · asked by Jess T 3 in Singles & Dating