Family & Relationships - 27 February 2007

i went to publicschool all the way up to 5th grade. in 6th grade i started homeschooling. It has been 4 years. last sep. i found out that someone i knew from public school lived across the street.ell he grandparents do. We dated for a little bit. After a while he stoped talking to me. So i stoped the relation ship, even if i did like him. And i still do. We still talk a every once in a while. With the everyday wave to each other. After we split he acts different. not in a bad way. I hae heard from different people (friends) that he still likes me. But i dan't know if they are telling me this just to make me feel better. Should i just give up and call it over. Or should i keep going and see if something is left? How do i find out if he likes me by not flat out saying" do you like me still?" He is coming over after he gets out of school today.

2007-02-27 03:32:03 · 11 answers · asked by bekkers14392 1 in Singles & Dating

I know that sounds like a silly question but I have a mental block.

2007-02-27 03:30:49 · 18 answers · asked by kchick8080 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I met someone two days ago whom i have known of for about five years. This person used to play football with my now ex partner. The ex cheated on me and since then I have not found it easy to trust and have lost my faith in whether I will find love again. This person approached me and starting chatting me up. He didn't say he had a girlfriend in fact he said he didn't. We got talking and it was nice and he was very definintely coming on to me. When he was leaving he didn't ask for my number so I offererd it to him. He seemed a little reluctant but took it. I should have known then. The following day he bombarded me with texts and after a while he told me he had a girlfriend but wanted to remain texting - I though it would be harmless so I agreed. Since then the texts have gone on and he wants a physical relationship. I have agreed to meet him but so far we haven't done anything. I do feel its wrong to be with someone who has a partner but he is very attentive and persuasive

2007-02-27 03:29:48 · 27 answers · asked by billiebimbo 1 in Singles & Dating

i am looking for designs different designs of wedding cakes to choose from so i need photos

2007-02-27 03:28:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

how many females nag and complain about everything to there men??? And y do u do it?

2007-02-27 03:28:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom from so far away? Thanks for your help.

2007-02-27 03:28:46 · 25 answers · asked by :-) 2 in Family

i feel, everybody is (except my family) not take care me. and when i meet relatives or friends (him/her) after long days, i wish to speak with them normaly, i wish to ask their life and tell my life. but nobody is like that. they are like don't care. i wish to touch with everybody. but it couldn't. what to do in simple way?

2007-02-27 03:28:10 · 7 answers · asked by jay 2 in Family

My boyfriend and I live in MN. There is A LOT of snow right now and it's pretty cold. We're sick of the same old, sit in the house, watch a movie, have a romantic dinner or go to MOA. Anyone have any really cool, exciting ideas on what we can do for fun when I get home from work tonight?

Thanks all!

2007-02-27 03:27:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

kk so umh ive been wondering like how do u know when a guy wants to kiss u like who makes the move ? and whens the best time to kiss make out that stuff like where %? when ? how do u know if the guy wants to have a kiss or makeout ? rlly wanna kiss a guy !!

2007-02-27 03:27:46 · 8 answers · asked by justlilme 1 in Singles & Dating

On women would your rather have big boobs or real small boobs? thick female or small slim wear a size 1 female? or a nice cute female or a really hot (fine) gets any guys she can get girl?

2007-02-27 03:26:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think its title 20 or 21 (where the woman gets a discount on things such as daycare).. but my question is if she is recently recieving child support does her payments for day care go up? does she have to go into her case workers office and say she is gettting support or would her case worker already know because it went through the court?

2007-02-27 03:26:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I work with a guy who wants to be more than friends, but I don't see him that way. He is constantly hovering over me. I can't even have a conversation without him being right there even if he's not part of it. He's borderlining stalker, I've had him follow me from my house to the gas station even though he lives an hour away from me. If I park my car at work even two spaces away from him, he moves his car so he can be parked by me. It's driving me up a wall. I didn't ask for a puppy and he's a nice guy so I don't want him to lose his job, but I need some space. What do I do to get him to realize that I'm not his?

2007-02-27 03:25:39 · 13 answers · asked by pixie 4 in Singles & Dating

me peronsally...bad girls. the challenge thrills me but can that thrill last...I know the way I put it sounds like its doomed but can it. What is your ideal bad person?

2007-02-27 03:24:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When she walks past-she lowers her head as she passes me.SHE'S THE ONLY ONE WHO DOES THIS IN THE OFFICE!Other times she smiles and we make eye contact. GOOD SIGN???

When her friends walk past-they sometimes look at me+smile+stop talking.Then they suddenly start talking again as soon as they pass me!!!The same happens during lunch occasionly.GOOD SIGN???

I sent her a valentine card(don't know its me) and my mate said that her friends were talking about it. The next day she sat at a table(which was empty) behind me at lunch, even though she passed 5-6 empty tables to get there!!!We just kept looking at each other,smiling and making eye contact.A coincidence???GOOD SIGN???

Not spoken to her yet-work in different departments, I don't deal with her at all.How can I get talking to her??

THESE POSITIVE SIGNS???

p.s. I'm very shy and afraid of rejection! Please comment if the signs are positive.....

2007-02-27 03:24:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My ex broke up with me 1 mth ago having been together for 9 months.

After 5 mths out of the blue she said she was unsure about us. I asked why, she said that and I thought we had loads in common & the spark was there, she agreed, but said she wasn't sure. Within a 2 hours she apologised & said she had been down & it made her irrational.

Everything was good again for 2 mths. She again said she wasn't sure. We had a long chat, we both got upset & she said she was really sorry and hated when she was horrible to me. She said that she felt that she held me back (because she is often tired due to work etc) and that I could do better. I said that was never the case and never will be. I suspected she may be depressed as she had that in the past

6 weeks ago she said she "wanted to end things as her feelings had changed over a short period". She admitted she was suffering from depression then took it back 1 week later saying us was the cause of her being down.

What do I do??

2007-02-27 03:24:31 · 7 answers · asked by bepositive1976 1 in Singles & Dating

females preferred they do have there own take on things

2007-02-27 03:24:27 · 3 answers · asked by tom the plumber 3 in Singles & Dating

~*I drank your wine,as you taste mine
I kissed your lips..
you felt my body slip into your soul
I almost cried coze it was so beautiful*~

2007-02-27 03:24:08 · 11 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 03:24:06 · 1 answers · asked by maverick3 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been out for almost two years. i miss it so much. i was infantry. i got paid to play with guns and blow shitttt up. i think i was most happy there. yeah i went to combat in iraq. but i lived. and i had a few close calls but who didnt? i hate civilian life. the stupidy of people rivals that of the military. good payin jobs are hard to find. and guess what i got paid crap there but enjoyed it more. so what should i do. i know im a single dad. and i know my kids need me. but no one gave me that as an excuse when i was gettin out. no one had an opinion either way. so whats the diference between now and then. i just feel lost here. i work off shore oil rigs so once again im gone anyways. yeah they pay ok but i dont have the since of duty and honor i used to have. can anyone help me here what should i do. i think i want to go back in. but im not eligable till aug. any ideas????

2007-02-27 03:23:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am recently divorced and just started dating again. This is not the first woman I have dated since the divorce but I met a woman at church and we have been out 3 times now and talk everyother day or so either by email, phone, or text message. This weekend I text'd her that I think about her a lot and she wrote back that she thinks about me "a lot" too and enjoys my company "a lot". I am finding myself liking this woman a little too much almost to the point were I don't trust my own instincts. I feel we have hit it off so well that I am scared to mess it up because of any of my baggage, insecurities, or trust issues that I am bringing along from the divorce. My question is, is it unhealthy or not normal to like a woman so much and think about her all the time after only really knowing her a month or so?!? Thanks!!

2007-02-27 03:23:35 · 7 answers · asked by fedup 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it similar to a resume? I don't want to include too much, at the same time too little. Any examples or samples available? Please Help!! Thanks.

2007-02-27 03:23:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-27 03:22:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For my boyfriends birthday I am getting him the new James Bond Casino Royale movie. But I also wanted to make him some coupons. You know, thew ones that say good for a dinner and a movie- my treat kind of thing. Do you guys have any ideas for the coupons? Anything is much appreciated!

2007-02-27 03:22:53 · 1 answers · asked by Chick-a-Dee 5 in Singles & Dating

Over a week ago i slept with one of my work mates on a drunken staff night out.. Well iv work with him loadza since then and were are getting on fine as though nothing has happend!!
It did seen a little akward to begin with but now were fine..
Well am thinking maybe i might be having feelings towards him and its as much as a shock to me than anyone else because he really isnt my type..
We havent spoke about the evening iv just commented about how drunk i was..
On are next staff night out should i go for it again or do you think it was just a one night stand!!
Hes been single a few mnths now because his long term girlfriend dumped him.... Is it to soon for him??? Is it just a bit of fun?????
Am a little confussed!!!!! lol

2007-02-27 03:22:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I seperated my boyfriend after six years of relationship and one child.It´s been six months that I left him,but somehow I still love him but we can´t be a couple do to some serious issues(like money,family,etc)give me advice on how to get over it and start something new.

2007-02-27 03:21:41 · 19 answers · asked by soy la mas linda 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to tell my mom that i am ready to wear thongs but she doesnt want to hear of it. the first time i asked her she said, when you start your period... then a month after i starded my period i asked her again and she said, you are too young why dont you wait until your older and now my 15th birthday is comming up on sunday and i want to tell her i want thongs for my birthday but i dont know how to tell her that without getting a no from her. i want to sound responsible and adult when i tell her.( lets keep in ,ind that she is black and it will be harder to crack that egg)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-27 03:21:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

theres this boy that likes me and i liked him, but im what caught his eye. He approched me first before i could (: well we started talking and then some how he moved and i knew but i didn't know that we would lose toucth ): So then i figured that i would move on because i thought that maybe he had forgot about me. LIttle did i know that he didn't he's been asking about me to this girl and she was "supossed " to tell me and never did, becaus eshe liked him so .. i moved on thinking he did so now i have a b/f and wensday he made a suprise visit to see me i was confused what do i do at situation like this?

2007-02-27 03:20:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 03:20:20 · 5 answers · asked by Ramesh R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it wrong for me to think of Bubba (my nephew by marriage) and not my husband? He's so handsome, strong and God is he bright! He always amazes me the way he always knows what buttons to press on the calculator and he knows that after every equation you have to hit the "=" button to solve it. Why can't my husband be more like him? Why am I having these thoughts? I knew if Mrs. Harper would find out about this she would say it was the work of the devil and that I am a sinful sinful woman. How can I stop these thoughts?

2007-02-27 03:18:54 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been patient with her insanity for years, at terrible cost to myself. I am miserable with her, She continuously plays drama games with me, with real life costs, and then is bouncing off the walls with anger nearly every night. I find myself literally praying to God EVERY night for her to be in a good mood, and fear every weekend.
I actually have left her, and am living in a hotel. Now she is claiming that she has anorexia again, is suicidal, and so on...and says that the only way for her to get better is for me to come home. I called a therapist for her, but she is still being impossible.
I am dead set against going back, but I don't know how to continue to keep away as she is suffering greatly. I do care about her wellbeing, but suspect she is doing all she can to manipulate me into coming back. Further she is using her illnesses to avoid even talking issues.
I am not a cold person, if I were then perhaps I would not be in such shape today. I just cannot take any more.

2007-02-27 03:18:42 · 35 answers · asked by needtobfree12 1 in Marriage & Divorce