i want to break it to my mom!!!!!HELP!!!!!?

Question

i want to tell my mom that i am ready to wear thongs but she doesnt want to hear of it. the first time i asked her she said, when you start your period... then a month after i starded my period i asked her again and she said, you are too young why dont you wait until your older and now my 15th birthday is comming up on sunday and i want to tell her i want thongs for my birthday but i dont know how to tell her that without getting a no from her. i want to sound responsible and adult when i tell her.( lets keep in ,ind that she is black and it will be harder to crack that egg)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Try this approach - ask her why she doesn't want you to wear a thong? Listen to her worries and fears adn try to answer them in a responsible way. Most adults think that wearing thongs is a sign that you are sexually active. Explain to her why this may or may not be the case with you. Maybe you want to wear them for the fashion of it (no more visible panty lines!) The most important thing is to open communication. Really listen to her without getting defensive, that's one of the best things you can do to show her you are mature and responsible.

Answer 2

Trust me in 10 years this isn't even going to matter. Let the thong thing go. If you just have to wear them go buy the thongs wear them once and throw them out of course you wouldn't throw them out in your own trash. She'll never even know that you wore them. Do you plan on taking your pants off that anyone is going to notice whether your wearing thongs on your birthday? Heck if you really want to stick it to your mom why don't you just go commando. Are you trying to pick a fight with your mom? This really is somthing not to argue about.

Answer 3

Whats the deal with thongs anyway why are you trying to impress all the fellas, but If its that important to you I'll tell you what I do I Just write down why i want how it, will change my life, in a positive way, and the cost of it and where you get get,it works with my guardian every time.

Answer 4

um, do you have thongs?
if you do, then wear them. And then if she sees them and asks why you are wearing them say, mom, im 15 i know a girl that has been wearing them since she was 12!! ( i wish you well, i guess i had it easy cause my mom wore them too. i was 12 and my sister 14 and she didnt wear them until she was 16. and im still wearing them..... and im 15, email me sometime if you want. ok? I can answer alot of your questions, it seems ive already been there.
ttyl

Answer 5

Believe me ....wearing them is no big deal......

Wait...if this the only battle you have with her....how lucky you are!

She must have her reasons, why not try talking to her about it and if she gives some good ones....try to understand them.

There are so many other issues that are so more important then this.....think about that and your future...

You are talking about a Thong....something that isn't even seen and is most likely going to be uncomfortable.


Just a thought

Answer 6

You can just tell her what you want to do, but I happen to agree with your mother. I think there are far more serious issues you could focus on instead of what kind of underwear you want. Girls today try to grow up too soon; you have the rest of your life to worry about wearing thong underwear.

Answer 7

Why are you soo keen on wearing thongs???Im just wondering y its really that important to you..no one can see your underwear so who really cares what you are wearing..maybe you should listen to your mother she has your best intrest @ heart..wait till you are older and if you still want a thong then you can get it for yourself..

Answer 8

I don't know girl, but I wish you the best of luck. Maybe try telling her that you know that she doesn't agree with it, but she also made decisions that her parents didn't agree with, and at least you are wise enough to discuss it with her. I had the same problem with my mom when I was younger. If all else fails when you start making money on your own, than you can buy them yourself.

Answer 9

Why do you want to wear those nasty things? I think they're inappropriate for anybody. They look trashy and will probably give you the reputation of being a ho. Of course, that's probably what you're going for. That's just gross.

Answer 10

ummmm.... Just go up to your mom and have a talk with her and tell her that you should be old enohg to where thongs and you were just wondering if you were aloud to... then say i would really like a pair for my birthday please.... then if she says no... dont pout just say ok and show that you can be an adault about it.... and then just wait... e-mail me if any more ?`s [e-mail]