Over a week ago i slept with one of my work mates on a drunken staff night out.. Well iv work with him loadza since then and were are getting on fine as though nothing has happend!!
It did seen a little akward to begin with but now were fine..
Well am thinking maybe i might be having feelings towards him and its as much as a shock to me than anyone else because he really isnt my type..
We havent spoke about the evening iv just commented about how drunk i was..
On are next staff night out should i go for it again or do you think it was just a one night stand!!
Hes been single a few mnths now because his long term girlfriend dumped him.... Is it to soon for him??? Is it just a bit of fun?????
Am a little confussed!!!!! lol
2007-02-27 03:22:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1 night stand darling you cant base anything on shale we say a drunking night of passion sorry just being honest with my answer
2007-02-27 03:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh you are so in trouble with your heart but this is my advise,
depending on how you know him, if he is the shy type, hes probably not sure about mentioning what happened so you could try hinting on it in a neutral way so you can get a reaction from there you then probably talk about it then act from there.
If hes the outward type...... you know open with stuff and still has not said a word about what happened, let him make that move coz if you are starting to have feelings for him trust me you don't want him to start ignoring you and all if he thought thats were it ended.
In the mean time try to continue with things as they were ....tho it can be tense on your side when feelings are there for him. Don't play the same game on the next staff night out untill you speak about it....you need to step back abit....you could choose tho to ask him about it just before you go for the night out, that way you know what to do different depending on his answer.
Goodluck
2007-02-27 12:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by JAM - Emotions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go for it again on another work outing to the bars after work...it could turn into a 2 night stand.
If you want to explore it as possibly something more, then you need to do that while you are both sober. Invite him to lunch and get to know him better. I would save asking questions about your relationship to later in the lunch. If things turn awkward, then you wouldn't be stuck in an awkward position for too long that way...like all through lunch.
2007-02-27 11:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by BAM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 night stand is not good enogh to know if u have feelings for him or not. I advice u study him a little bite more to be sure of what u really want ok.
2007-02-27 11:37:32 · answer #4 · answered by Impossible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about it and move on with your life. Have you ever thought of doing that?
2007-02-27 11:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are so different when it comes to these things, just come out and ask i say :)
2007-02-27 11:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how u fee and maybe he will feel the same way
2007-02-27 11:27:22 · answer #7 · answered by Rae [BRiiNG iiT BACK] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take time before jumping any conclusion
2007-02-27 11:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋