My boyfriend is having trouble with a lot of different things right now. There is so much going on that he has trouble sleeping at night. I want to be able to help him, and make him feel better, but i dont know how, i wish there was some way that i could show him how much i love him, and make him feel better. He is really never happy anymore, and i know its not me, but sometimes i just feel like i want him to tell me that he loves me and do something for me that i would know how much he cared about me. Is there anything i can do to make him be more romantic or loving???
2007-02-27 03:17:35 · 9 answers · asked by gibby411892003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a new boyfriend. Yours is broken.
2007-02-27 03:24:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Sit him down and ask him what is bothering him. Once you know what is bothering him, then you can then think about how to make him feel better. Maybe do nice things for him, like surprise him or something, buy something that he likes etc. Or be romantic towards him, he might open up and respond to it.
2007-02-27 03:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in that situation once and it was quite painful. He pushed me away and toook on other activities. As long as ur b/f continues hanging out with you, I say hang in there. U do need to be patient, but also he needs to get to the root of things and change the problem. If he is bringing problems to hiimself and doesn't want to change them, then u need to move on. I had to. My b/f had mother problems and allowed her to interfere with us. I just ended it cause she after 6 yrs took over everything. She still does! Not only that he started being obsessed with other women. It was horrible and u don't want yrs of garbage. Really evaluate the situation. Being down for ur man doesn't mean giving up ur self-esteem and ur well-being. God bless u.
2007-02-27 04:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by chiquita39 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's having a hard time with your needs because he's overwhelmed. You may not think it's what works, but you'll have to back off.
2007-02-27 03:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... firstly u shud help ur guy in coming out of his problems.. tell him u r his partner in happiness and his problems... ask him to open up and share his problems with u .....once he opens up.... discuss mutually and help him in getting rid of them.. stand by him and his love for u wud grow... eventually romantic things wil foollow!
2007-02-27 03:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by niks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him. ask him what is goin on in his life. ask how his day at work went. just the simple things make the difference.
2007-02-27 03:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by liznjames_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO just be a friend to him right now he knows you will be there for him, just be there and you will have him forever.
2007-02-27 03:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
2007-02-27 03:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him.
2007-02-27 03:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by jimmyjohn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋