Is it bad that I talked to our friend?

Question

I have recently broken up with my boyfriend. I was hurt and surprised, and his good friend is my even better friend. I basically ranted to my friend and got his take on things, but now feel very bad. I apologized for creating a potentially awkward situation, and let him know I really had no hard feelings (if someone doesn't love you, they just don't) and we're all still going to be friends, but I can't help but feel like I should have just kept my mouth shut. Keep in mind I'm closer to my friend than my ex. What do you think?

Answer 1

I don't think there was any harm done.

Like you said, you're closer to the friend than your ex is. So you went to a close friend and vented. There is nothing wrong with that at all.

If they didn't want to be in that potentially awkward situation, they would have told you not to get them involved. But since they didn't, then don't worry.

Hope this helped and wish you the best in all!

Answer 2

Is it bad that I talked to our friend?
I have recently broken up with my boyfriend. I was hurt and surprised, and his good friend is my even better friend. I basically ranted to my friend and got his take on things, but now feel very bad. I apologized for creating a potentially awkward situation, and let him know I really had no hard feelings (if someone doesn't love you, they just don't) and we're all still going to be friends, but I can't help but feel like I should have just kept my mouth shut. Keep in mind I'm closer to my friend than my ex. What do you think?
i dontkno

Answer 3

You did the right thing. You expressed your feelings to your friend - that's what friends are for - and you also expressed to this person that you felt uncomfortable expressing yourself like that. You were open and honest. That's the best thing you could have done. If this is really your friend, they will understand and not create a bigger situation for you.

Answer 4

Friends are there to listen and help you should have also considered your Friends feelings but sometimes you are over run with emotions. Take it as a lesson learned and don't worry about it as long as they say they are okay with it.

Answer 5

so which you heard her communicate approximately your buddy..?? became into it BS have been the human beings who she spoke to acquaintances of your buddy became into it even significant or nicely worth it?? Is your buddy on the element of this gossiping lady like a stable buddy or acquaintance....and why didnt you upward push up to your buddy while she spoke undesirable approximately her...that makes you undesirable too your silence became into like contract..that isn't cool you may desire to stick up to your friends...say something like...that isn't cool, this is a lie, why do you may desire to make up issues approximately human beings to sense stable...etc so which you may desire to ask your self why you probably did no longer communicate up... to respond to your question...is this lady a stable buddy who gossiped or in basic terms some no physique with a huge mouth,...and your like I mentioned not extra suited reason you probably did no longer communicate up and your buddy if clever will see that too...if she's a chum and additionally you may opt for to be responsive to then tell her...if no longer then no...absolutely everyone talks undesirable approximately others she possibly talks undesirable approximately you...you who did no longer upward push up to your real acquaintances...upward push up for what's precise..yeah i could tell her yet permit or no longer this is a lesson in case you do no longer communicate u against those gossipy ******* you would be there next objective who will then communicate up for you once you probably did no longer shield them

Answer 6

I think that if your friend is as close as it seems everything should be fine. sometimes you need to talk. i just hope u didnt talk too much. you should be fine.

Answer 7

if this person did not want to hear what you had to say they could have stopped you and said "look i am his freind please dont talk to me about him, lets change the subject"

Answer 8

forget it