Family & Relationships - 24 February 2007

I'm dating a female that always think i'm doing something behind her back..which i'm not. I always let her know where i'm at, answer my phone 99.9% of the time, and stay at home pretty much all the time with her (we live together). I tell her that i love her and that she is beautiful and the only woman for me...but it doesn't seem to be working.

2007-02-24 13:34:02 · 8 answers · asked by inet_cadet 1 in Singles & Dating

Ever since I caught my husband of 1 year, lover of 6 years, looking at porn sites I haven't been able to trust him. I know guys look at that stuff but when I asked him if he was one of those guys he swore he wasn't so it really hurt to know that he lied to me. He promised to not any more but I find it difficult to trust him like I used to. It makes me wonder, what else could he be lying about? It has made my marriage ackward. What should I do? I feel distant from him and find it hard to sometimes look him in the eye. One lie feels like a million.

2007-02-24 13:33:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A story is told about a soldier who was finally coming home after having fought in Vietnam. He called his parents from San Francisco. "Mom and Dad, I'm coming home, but I've a favor to ask. I have a friend I'd like to bring home with me." "Sure," they replied, "we'd love to meet him." "There's something you should know," the son continued, "he was hurt pretty badly in the fighting. He stepped on a land mind and lost an arm and a leg. He has nowhere else to go, and I want him to come live with us." "I'm sorry to hear that, son. Maybe we can help him find somewhere to live." "No, Mom and Dad, I want him to live with us." "Son," said the father, "you don't know what you're asking. Someone with such a handicap would be a terrible burden on us. We have our own lives to live, and we can't let something like this interfere with our lives. I think you should just come home and forget about this guy. He'll find a way to live on his own." At that point, the son hung up the phone. The parents heard nothing more from him. A few days later, however, they received a call from the San Francisco police. Their son had died after falling from a building, they were told. The police believed it was suicide. The grief-stricken parents flew to San Francisco and were taken to the city morgue to identify the body of their son. They recognized him, but to their horror they also discovered something they didn't know, their son had only one arm and one leg. The parents in this story are like many of us. We find it easy to love those who are good-looking or fun to have around, but we don't like people who inconvenience us or make us feel uncomfortable. We would rather stay away from people who aren't as healthy, beautiful, or smart as we are.

2007-02-24 13:33:21 · 2 answers · asked by Tiffany 3 in Family

Everytime I talk to him my stomach feels all weird everytime he smiles at me when im sad he makes me happy whenever i hear his voice I feel safe I think about him constantly and he's all I've ever wanted whenever someone says his name I pause and just think about him I know I like him but is that all do I just like him or do I love him I've never felt this way before so I don't know???

2007-02-24 13:33:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-02-24 13:32:39 · 13 answers · asked by thecooldude 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 13:32:31 · 15 answers · asked by Gretchen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend wants to hold my hand and i wanna hold his but im scared, what do i do..and how do i get his hand??? HELP PLEASE????

2007-02-24 13:31:43 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys sorry but i've added a bit more?
What would you take this to mean?
If someone called you a dirty cop out?
what does this mean - any ideas?

This came from the woman i board withs mother who came down to stay thursday and i said to the lady i board with i would go out and leave her to catch up with her parents so I went out last night and the mother said when will you b back, I said i may not be i'm going to give you guys some space so you can catch up - any way i got back early this morning and said hello and she said have you only just gotten home and i said yup and she said "you dirty cop out" and I never did anything so I can't understand y anyone would say this? I'm 24 and don't drink and don't sleep around and last night I went to c my ex and stayed with him as we are working on things ( I never told the mother this). I'm not a bad person and try to make people happy - im just stumped as to y she would say this to me.

2007-02-24 13:31:14 · 5 answers · asked by Jack 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this guy online and we have been talking during a whole year. We talk every single day. It suppose he was gonna come to see me to my country, he lives in Italy but then he thought it again and said no. He said no because his parents are very old and he takes care of them so he asked me to go down Italy. I started to save money but now I am doubting if it is a good decision.
When I come to talk to him I take it as it would be a date: I focus on him, say my best words...I feel like in a date and I only focus on him so I go invisible. But it is not the same case about him...he does not take it so seriously as I do. Lately when I talk him about important issues it seems he does not care too much...you know he is talking to someone else and what I am telling him seems like not very important. I take the whole thing as a date and I thought if this would be face to face talking to someone else while I talk to him would be like I talk by cellphone during date.

2007-02-24 13:30:39 · 12 answers · asked by C6 7 in Singles & Dating

So, there is this guy that I like alot. I've liked him for over two years, and he used to think I was absolutely crazy. Now, we're both alot different, except that I still like him. Also, we're both 14 and in 8th grade. One day, I was walking my dog on my street, and I saw him and his older brother (who can drive) driving down my street, which is very odd because I live in a gated (ick) community next to his neighborhood and no one but a few homeschooled kids live in my neighborhood. I thought it was very funny that he would drive down my street in front of my house and then leave the neighborhood (I saw him head towards the gate). So, on Valentines Day, I gave him a rose (I know it's a little tacky, but they sell them at our school and I couldn't think of anything creative but not wierd), but now he still hasn't said anything to me. I thought that if he liked me at all, he might say something to me by now. So, I was basicly wondering if I should ask him out or move on?

2007-02-24 13:30:26 · 2 answers · asked by Rach 5 in Singles & Dating

my bffs are soooooooooooooooooooooooooo anoing they r saying bad stuff bout my bf and trying to get me 2 break up w/ him and one of these girls i hate anyway soooo its anoing and i reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeally dont want to and they r being really mean about it

2007-02-24 13:29:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A father of a 5 year old child takes a job as a (legal) prostitute in Nevada. He makes a ton of money doing it and has no problems supporting the kid, although he has to be gone a lot for her "work" and hires a nanny (the father makes over $100,000 year).

The mother wants primary custody. She's a warehouse worker making $20 per hour, and with child support from the father she could provide a stable home life for the child, without being away as much as the fatherhas to be. The mother is willing to allow the father to have reasonable visitation.

The father won't voluntarily give up primary custody (they had agreed to allow the father to have primary custody before he took his new "job" for convenience only). It's up to you, the judge, to decide who should get primary custody. Neither of the two have a proven drug or alcohol problem, there are no allegations of abuse on either side.

Who should get primary custody?

2007-02-24 13:29:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husbands mom is in a bad way in the hospital,with heart trouble in another state.We just found out yest.He always drinks on the weekend but treats me well.Tonight he said f u and I dont care what u do.He was drinking as in drunk.Is this cause of his mom and the underlying anger?Whats the best way to handle this?I lost two family members a yr apart and I never acted like this.He has lost his gramma only at 48.so is there more stuff to come?and no he wont quit the weekend drinking ,,,

2007-02-24 13:28:55 · 12 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Writing a story, need input. 6 months before you were divorced did you see a marked reduction in the times that you made love or the quality of those times? Do you think you could tell that something was wrong by what was going on in the bedroom? How long were you married?

2007-02-24 13:28:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this guy in year 10 one year older then me and i really like him. He looks at me a lot and whenever i walk past him he watches me. Does this mean he likes me or he just likes the way i look? I really want him to notice me! how can i?

2007-02-24 13:28:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i broke up with nick because i thought he was emo.and i didn't want to get hurt by him telling me.i didn't know what to do.i still love him so what do i do.

2007-02-24 13:28:20 · 5 answers · asked by ally 1 in Singles & Dating

Lost and confused? I have saved around $20,000. I want to buy me a condo however, do you think is better to rent or own a condo. I am only 23, and make about $32,000 a year. I've been doing some calculations, but if I was to take out a mortgage, I would not be able to afford it because I don;t make enough at my job. Need guidance. The reason I also want a place is because I shard my bedroom with my brother and sister and I can't take it anymore.

2007-02-24 13:27:53 · 10 answers · asked by D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

let see i want to ask out this girl but she is always around friends or doing something else
also she never talks to me and every time i try
to talk to her she ignore me should i ask her out

2007-02-24 13:27:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 13:27:25 · 20 answers · asked by Serious Dude 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

help..its been bugging me so much...

2007-02-24 13:26:58 · 12 answers · asked by thecooldude 2 in Singles & Dating

Lost and confused?

I have saved around $20,000. I want to buy me a condo however, do you think is better to rent or own a condo. I am only 23, and make about $32,000 a year. I've been doing some calculations, but if I was to take out a mortgage, I would not be able to afford it because I don;t make enough at my job. Need guidance. The reason I also want a place is because I shard my bedroom with my brother and sister and I can't take it anymore.

2007-02-24 13:26:53 · 7 answers · asked by D 1 in Family

I was dating someone. for a long while, this girl was everything to me.
I was always talking to her telling her i loved her, she liked it and i did as well (not every day). I told her i loved her every day. I told her how much she meant to me and how i would do anything for her (not everyday).
She know about my depression problem and my schizophrenia problem. And she didnt like it at all.
I asked her what she didnt like about me and she said that imy depression problem something i cant control but she made me happy and she knows that.

so all this goes on and just a few days ago she stopped talking to me i had no contact with her what so ever! (a few days after valentines day) I bought her some gifts for valentines day and she took em. but, when i finally get ahold of her she tells me she has no interest in me. my heart dropped ... had no idea what to think, I though 4 breakdowns in one night, i was a wreck i need to know what i mabe did wrong =(

or on yahoo messnager hacked.suicide

2007-02-24 13:26:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister is getting married for the 2nd time. Her boyfriend has never been married before. They are having a huge wedding. I can't get excited about it for some reason. Just wondering what others think. Thanks

2007-02-24 13:26:26 · 12 answers · asked by Mommyof2angels 3 in Weddings

I dont know about most guys, but i hate getting gifts from women. Even if i like what they got me, i dont know how to react when they give it to me. I come from a family that never celebrates christmas or birthdays or crap like that so gift giving seems kinda stupid to me. I say if you want somethin just ask, but thats just me. Would a woman be offended if i just said dont buy me anything????

2007-02-24 13:26:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am just curious. How do you think about Japanese guys? do they different from a taste of sushi? What criteria are important to date with Japanese guys? and Why do you think so?

2007-02-24 13:26:10 · 3 answers · asked by yyy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 13:25:32 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Plz help me to be a success.

2007-02-24 13:24:39 · 17 answers · asked by Joshua 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-24 13:24:26 · 12 answers · asked by lostlovefound30 2 in Singles & Dating

my mom IS pretty hot...so i understand why my bf wanted to hit that
but still...its kind of weird and gross

2007-02-24 13:24:20 · 13 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

A relative of mine called and cursed my mother out. I texted them & told them 2 stop b4 we c them in court. Now they continually text my phone all day with horrid messages. I asked them several times to stop texting my phone finally I got tired & went off. Can they still be dealt with even though I responded keep in mind i asked them several times to stop texting b4 i retaliated

2007-02-24 13:23:57 · 15 answers · asked by JELLE 3 in Other - Family & Relationships