My sister is getting married for the 2nd time. Her boyfriend has never been married before. They are having a huge wedding. I can't get excited about it for some reason. Just wondering what others think. Thanks
2007-02-24 13:26:26 · 12 answers · asked by Mommyof2angels 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Well, it sounds like fun to me! I think as your sister's wedding time approaches, you would be more supportive and happy for her! She will need you more now and she wants you to be there for her! I think it would be good for you to get into the festive mood and just be happy for your sis! You can always show how much you want her to be happy and to accept the new family member too! It doesn't really matter that it's her second time... ok! It is his first time and should be a memorable day for them both! Have a great time and just pray that they will be together a long time and be in love forever! Good luck & God bless you all!
2007-02-24 13:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by MaggieO 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a great idea, you'll never have the regret of having a big first wedding but not a big one with the man you really love. It will be a good way to look at the future and bright it will be and forget the future relationships, big weddings generally help relationships get stronger as well.....GET PLANNING! x
2007-02-24 21:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the problem lies not your sister, her fiance & their upcoming wedding.
What's the beef you got with them? Are you jealous of their attention? Do you think she's making a wrong choice. You don't like the fiance? He made a pass at you???
You're having to pay for their big shin-dig? You think because she's been married before it shoud be more low-key?
Your sister lost love & has found it again. And tho' this isn't her first trip down the aisle, it is her fiance's. You think he should be kept from having that thrill? Maybe he should be for falling in love with a woman that's been married before. Maybe we ought to make that a rule. Ya' think?
2007-02-24 22:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by weddrev 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that she shouldn't have a "huge" wedding as she already has had one, she should however have a small reception with the Grooms side only, and maybe a small party after wards with her family and friends to announce that she has re-married. That way it wouldn't be so awkward for her side of the family to feel obligated to come to another wedding of hers, and feel like they have to give her yet another wedding gift. A second marriage is a reason to understand why you aren't excited about it, unless of course you have reservations about this person she choose to marry.
2007-02-24 21:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by MiMi 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If they can afford it then why not? He has never been married before, so he might not want to miss out on a big wedding. Or they might just like having big parties.
2007-02-25 00:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't take this rudely but can you truly not get excited or are you jealous of how big her wedding is going to be?
I think you should be happy for your sister and soon to be brother in law. I would focus more on supporting them in their marriage than the ceremony and how big it is.
Just my two cents worth.
2007-02-24 21:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything wrong with your sister having a big wedding. Don't worry what anyone else thinks about it. Relax and enjoy the reception.
2007-02-25 00:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by mmuscs 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if its one of theirs first wedding i can understand it. my sister married her first husband, they divorced, remarried and had a big wedding and gown and all that stuff for both. i thought that was absurd! they divorced again and she married someone else and had another big wedding but it was his first so i could understand that. good luck
2007-02-24 21:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by AlwaysWondering 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My second wedding/marriage, I had the big wedding-it was my second-his first. If that is what he wants, then big it is! take care.
2007-02-24 21:35:32 · answer #9 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good for Her.
2007-02-24 21:34:28 · answer #10 · answered by luna. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋