Ever since I caught my husband of 1 year, lover of 6 years, looking at porn sites I haven't been able to trust him. I know guys look at that stuff but when I asked him if he was one of those guys he swore he wasn't so it really hurt to know that he lied to me. He promised to not any more but I find it difficult to trust him like I used to. It makes me wonder, what else could he be lying about? It has made my marriage ackward. What should I do? I feel distant from him and find it hard to sometimes look him in the eye. One lie feels like a million.
2007-02-24 13:33:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well okay to be totally honest when my husband watches porn.....our sex life gets better he learns stuff It can be a healthy part of your relationship you could try to watch it together there are porns out there made by married people with married couples to help you understand each other If it really bothers you maybe you can talk to him about his intrest in it and try to understand and even play a little not all porn is nasty. it could open up a door of communication that can make you feel more at ease and MORE SATISFIED :). Some times sex gets boring and after you have kids it get gone so live it up. he might just be afraid to share it with you so shock him IT COULD BE LOTS OF FUN!!!!!!!
2007-02-24 14:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by donaberry1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you are not alone, I have the same problem...lover for 3 married fro 1 year, at first i ignored it, and later i told him he's addicting then he tells me he doesn't look at the ANY more, but he lied because he still was and it makes me really upset mad and hurt that he would lie to me over somthing so dumb, and yes it made me wonder about what else is he lieing about.....it became a big problem the second i found out he was still watching-common he already has satsfaction at home right! so i would tell if i'm not good enough and if sex so bad then why are you with me.....after a while it stop and then started guess it's a guy thing but it pissed me off and i won't except, so I found a web site called bettersex.com for couples and we watched it togther , no its not that kind of movie its an educational one! and i found that watching it togther and learning from it made him very intrested in us and not porn
2007-02-24 17:36:16 · answer #2 · answered by xoxo-gina! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can install NetDog Porn Filter on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2007-02-24 14:51:46 · answer #3 · answered by beyondhelper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over your self most guys look at porn its not something most like to talk about its a privet thing
2007-02-24 16:43:09 · answer #4 · answered by funguytank 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋