2007-02-24 13:27:25 · 20 answers · asked by Serious Dude 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yessss mate it is!
2007-02-24 13:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by Andrew1968 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Soooo...this woman you love-would you agree to her having affairs? After all,as you said-variety is the spice of life! Consider how you'd feel about her cheating on you-and there's your answer!
2007-02-25 03:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IS IT OK FOR THE PERSON YOUR IN "LOVE" WITH TO HAVE AFFAIRS WITH OTHER PEOPLE? YOU OBVIOUSLY ARE;NT COMMITTED TO THIS RELATIONSHIP, AND PLEASE DON'T TRY TO CONVINCE US OR YOU THAT YOU ARE. BEING IN A "COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP" IS ALOT OF HARD WORK WHICH MEANS YOU DON'T HAVE ALOT OF TIME OR ENERGY TO BE HAVING AFFAIRS, NOR SHOULD YOU WANT TO. SO AS LONG AS BOTH PARTIES KNOW THAT ITS OK TO HAVE SEX WITH OTHER PEOPLE, AND THAT NEITHER ONE OF YOU WANT OR EXPECT THE RELATIONSHIP TO LAST (BECAUSE ONLY COUPLES WHO ARE COMMITTED TO EACH OTHER MAKE RELATIONSHIPS LAST) , SURE AFFAIRS ARE FINE AND EXCITING. BUT IR YOUR THE ONLY ONE NOT COMMITTED AND THE OTHER PARTY IN THIS RELATIONSHIP IS, AND THINKS YOU ARE, THEN NOT ONLY IS IT WRONG BUT YOU RATE DOWN THERE WITH THE OTHER SCUM OF THE EARTH THAT SAY......"I LOVE ONLY ONE PERSON AND SEX IS FUN AND VARIETY IS THE SPICE OF LIFE". SO QUIT TRYING TO CONVINCE YOURSELF ITS OK. GET A CLUE...ITS NOT OK!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-24 16:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by onejinjer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is wrong and it will end in tears, probably with you losing the person you love.
There is this little thing called "loyalty". If you are in love with somebody you have to put your baser instincts in check. There is nothing wrong with eyeballing a good looking member of the opposite sex, but don't touch!
2007-02-24 14:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by lesroys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a selfish ****.
If variety is the spice of life then break up with her, let her find a more deserving man.
For your greed- i hope she cheats on you
2007-02-27 10:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by Scarlett write 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I so totally disagree with that! If you 'Love ' one person there is no way in the world you would ever contemplate being with anyone else because no-one would ever compare to the one you love. So when you say you Love one person and have vairety I don't think you totally love them.
2007-02-24 15:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by djdundalk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she feels the same its upto you both but i kinda get the feeling she doesnt and as love is all about respect and not going against each other then yes it is very wrong and cant be called love if these wants are acted on
2007-02-24 13:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by nendlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love one person, why do you need others? You can have variety with that one person.....if that's what you want.
You obviously want sex without strings....which is called "IMMATURITY".
jerk.
2007-02-24 14:09:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Variety won't be so spicy when you get an S.T.D. and give it to your partner, will you be able to explain the FUN then????
2007-02-24 13:34:16 · answer #9 · answered by sayj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea you will be feeling pretty spicy when you get a std by sampling in the variety.
2007-02-24 13:51:02 · answer #10 · answered by magickitty0621 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with your partner, and it's all good. Lying or going behind their back is cheating and it's wrong. But you already knew that...so why waste time and points asking?
2007-02-24 13:32:37 · answer #11 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋