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I was dating someone. for a long while, this girl was everything to me.
I was always talking to her telling her i loved her, she liked it and i did as well (not every day). I told her i loved her every day. I told her how much she meant to me and how i would do anything for her (not everyday).
She know about my depression problem and my schizophrenia problem. And she didnt like it at all.
I asked her what she didnt like about me and she said that imy depression problem something i cant control but she made me happy and she knows that.

so all this goes on and just a few days ago she stopped talking to me i had no contact with her what so ever! (a few days after valentines day) I bought her some gifts for valentines day and she took em. but, when i finally get ahold of her she tells me she has no interest in me. my heart dropped ... had no idea what to think, I though 4 breakdowns in one night, i was a wreck i need to know what i mabe did wrong =(

or on yahoo messnager hacked.suicide

2007-02-24 13:26:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

9 answers

I'm pretty sure that you didn't do anythin wrong. She prolly jus couldn't handle it that you had depression n was a schizo. Jus move on sweetheart! You'll find someone way better than her! Someone you can understand you and will be there for you when you need them!

2007-02-24 13:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by Andrea D 1 · 0 0

Don't assume it was something you did. The hard truth is that sometimes feelings change. It's the kind of thing that defies explanation- it's just is.
It's as equally hard to tell someone it's over as it is to be on the receiving end of that. The difference is, it has a much more lasting effect on the receiver of that news. Regardless, it can be devastating not to have your feelings returned. I think you need to concentrate on dealing with it and moving on. As tempting as it is to spend your time thinking about it (and her), that is the worst thing you can do. You have no choice but to pick up the pieces and move on. Good luck to you!

2007-02-24 21:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by Just call me "J" 2 · 0 0

If she is the one for you, then give her some time and space to take it all in. Depression and schizophrenia? It may be that the news of your problems was very shocking to her. Back off a little bit, and let her come to you if or when she is ready.

I don't know what "or on yahoo messnager hacked.suicide" means,but if you're going to hack her comp, then you don't trust her, and it isn't worth it anyway. If you're thinking about hurting yourself, then please take a moment and call a suicide hotline (1-800-suicide)

2007-02-24 21:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You didn't do anything wrong because it's not your fault you suffer from the disorders you mentioned,
She no doubt has come to realize that she doesn't want to have to deal with all that is involved in a serious relationship with you.
and remember it's not your fault and you can't fault her for how she feels. you can however fault her for the real shitty way she ended it.

2007-02-24 21:39:24 · answer #4 · answered by mark_grvr 3 · 0 0

u did not do any thing wrong she just lost interstted in u and u can't do any thing about that but that her lost cause she not good for u if she broke u r heart as bad as u said she did then u r better with out her u find someone one Else in time

2007-02-24 21:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by candygurl_4_ever 1 · 0 0

yo this happened to me with my ex-bf. friday I gave him a note saying I was sorry for whatever I did, I just wanted him back. He told my friend he's seriously considering it..I was going to go up with the note saying in huge letters I'm Sorry taped on my shirt..but I didn't have guts.

2007-02-24 21:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by Laura 2 · 0 0

Dude don't sweat it. She just wasn't the right one for you. Remember, girls are like buses, there's another one right around the corner.

P.S. Keep the mentall illness on the dl.

2007-02-24 21:33:21 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 0 0

call her or something and ask why she did it

i waited 4 months before asking my ex girlfriend why she broke up with me

2007-02-24 21:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0 0

i feel bad for you i don't have much to say, stay away from girls that will break your heart again ok..... hope this helps..... if not email me.....

2007-02-24 21:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by hi 1 · 0 0

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