What If Your Bffs Are Trying 2 Convince You To Break Up W/ Ur BF?

Question

my bffs are soooooooooooooooooooooooooo anoing they r saying bad stuff bout my bf and trying to get me 2 break up w/ him and one of these girls i hate anyway soooo its anoing and i reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeally dont want to and they r being really mean about it

and my bf is really nice and none of my bffs have bfs

and i hardly ever hang w/ him anymore cause when i do get a chance they want me 2 hang w/ them

Answer 1

i was in the same situation. Remember the ole saying... Don't worry about what other people think? Believe it. Your life will go by way too fast if u keep worrying about other people. Keep your boyfriend... and tell your friends to shove it.

they're probly just jealous

but please, please do not dump him becuz of your friends.

Answer 2

Are your friends single? If so then they want you to be single also. You need to explain to them that you really like your boyfriend.

They may also feel that you don't spend enough time with them anymore now that you are with your boyfriend. You need to spend some more time with them and they will back off with all the down talking they are doing about your boyfriend.

Just remember you will need them when things don't work out between you and your bf. So you don't want to push them to far away.

Answer 3

If your boyfriend is treating you properly and with the utmost respect then maybe your friends need to back off. Sometimes it is jealousy on their part, but if there is something remotely wrong with the guy then you should consider what they are saying. Good luck anyway and I hope all works out between you and your man.

Answer 4

talk to them ask them why they want u to break up with and den go talk to boyfriend and if u really dont want to dont listen to them if they were your real friends they would accep ur decision oh yuh n also if your boyfriend has had a rep about cheatin or somthing like the really think about maybe ur friends are trying to help u out

Answer 5

~~~What oh heck no!.....he basically laughed in ur face woman...He did harm up with you, no longer a hug individual what the is the lamest excuse ever he needed out of that realtionship rapid.....flow as much as him sit down and talk straight away what you experience and why he did what he did!...if he says im sorry or bla bla bla i opt to come back with you, say oh u do good for u because of the fact i dont...woman dont waste ur time this thi s form of dummies flow on theres too maby available that are nicely worth it~~~~

Answer 6

Tell your bf and stop talking to them. If they r saying mean things that u don't agree with then u don't want to hang with them.

Answer 7

If you don't like one of them,I would say that they or she isn't such a great friend anyway.If he treats you badly and they are seeing this,that could be why they are saying that.If he's a good man,then maybe they are just jealous and not such good friends.

Answer 8

Why dont ya try hooking your friends up with his friends. They might warm up to the guy if they are around him more..
p.s. I think your keeeeeeeeeeyboard is stuck

Answer 9

it might be that one of them has feelings for him, if ur bf's good just tell them to back off if they're really ur friends they should not be doing that

Answer 10

just ignore them but you never know they could be right about what they are saying and they might know something about him that you dont and they dont want you to get hurt. just talk to them and see whats going on.


they also might be jealous


good luck figuring it out!