Family & Relationships - 23 February 2007

My sister is just turned 21. She says that she feels worried that she has never had a boyfriend and she is 21. My sister has really low self confidence and she keeps making comments that she will never get married because of the fact that she has never had a boyfriend. She keeps saying that she thinks everyone in the family thinks she is a lesbian. I keep telling her they dont'.

She says that she has never been asked out by a guy before and she thinks it is because she is too ugly. She is not ugly at all. What can I tell her to make her feel better about this?

2007-02-23 03:58:08 · 15 answers · asked by Crysta 2 in Singles & Dating

i am more educated, ear more money, more modernised. I, have had mixed feeling about this for along tyme. feels like quiting coz he is very old fashioned but i somehow dont do it.

i am thinking about setting a business for him , give him the capital and take the back bench. he feels sorry for the situation he is in and i feel bad that why the roles are not revised.

is it ok to try to improve me mans life? to make it head in the right diretcion and make him feel like he is a man?

what repuculsions does this ahve in the wrong run?

2007-02-23 03:58:01 · 6 answers · asked by Essie 2 in Singles & Dating

Anytime I post a question or something, I get alot of people saying "If that's really your picture" lol Why do people think I'm putting up a picture of some random girl? Whats not believeable about it?

2007-02-23 03:57:58 · 6 answers · asked by toronto_leafs 4 in Singles & Dating

WHAT SHOULD I DO?

I want to see him ... when i see him I just admire...he is OLDER than me...i think he likes me(i am not sure!)

How can I forget him and concentrate on my studies?

2007-02-23 03:57:16 · 1 answers · asked by ♥♥♥Miracle♥♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 03:56:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 03:56:33 · 8 answers · asked by Sajid 007 1 in Weddings

Anytime I post a question or something, I get alot of people saying "If that's really your picture" lol Why do people think I'm putting up a picture of some random girl? Whats not believeable about it?

2007-02-23 03:56:24 · 1 answers · asked by toronto_leafs 4 in Singles & Dating

I am 6' tall, athletic, ligth brown skin, dark brown/almost black hair, deep brown eyes (the ladies love my eyes:)

There has to be some evolutionary reason for 90% of the women I date to be blonde. It's not just me going for the blondes, they are the women I catch looking at me the most and put out mating signals the most. Incidentally I find them to be the most attractive to me as well. What is the evolutionary reason for this?

2007-02-23 03:56:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean, you are serious in your relationship with your significant other and you find your other cheating on you (sleeping with lots of other opposite gender). If I find my wife to be that, I would be very heartbroken and tell her to get out of my life. What would you do?

2007-02-23 03:56:01 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-23 03:55:54 · 6 answers · asked by Deloreen M 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been talking to this guy for almost a year he is in the airforce and living in florida. We met through mutal friends, and we have become really close, i even flew down to see him. He is leaving the military in April but recently asked for some space. why would he need this space? and what should I do?

2007-02-23 03:55:28 · 7 answers · asked by dreamangel1102002 2 in Singles & Dating

i mean, you are serious in your relationship with your significant other and you find your other cheating on you (sleeping with lots of other opposite gender). If I find my wife to be that, I would be very heartbroken and tell her to get out of my life. What would you do?

2007-02-23 03:55:17 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 03:55:07 · 15 answers · asked by arushi p 1 in Family

b-day ideas!

2007-02-23 03:55:06 · 5 answers · asked by boo 2 in Singles & Dating

i dated a guy who was a drinker he kept telling me that he didn't have a problem because it was just beer. i couldn't take trying to compete with beer it seemed like he just wanted me to do everything he needed done.when we broke up within 2 weeks he had someone new- i'm guessing maybe i really never loved anyone like i love you was all just crap. why didn't i use my head to think.

2007-02-23 03:54:51 · 1 answers · asked by elliepenelly 3 in Singles & Dating

Now more then ever before, grown adults are finding it harder and harder to leave the nest. Is this a result of the higher cost of living or just mere laziness. or is it something else? 50 years ago this would be unheard of, but now we just shrug our shoulders and accept it, why?

2007-02-23 03:53:35 · 19 answers · asked by graduate_boy 2 in Family

you get married but they heaven forbid die -Do you meet them on the other side?I like to hope so,i do not think i would like to meet anyone if that had happened but my partner said he would nt mind as he would not want me to be on my own -bless him,but i said in my theory we meet the one s we have given our soul to so i said he will have to put up with me up there too lol.
What are your thoughts on this?x

2007-02-23 03:51:40 · 8 answers · asked by sarz 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband just called me to say his friend called him and would like to meet up for a few pints tonight. I'm annoyed because I was looking forward to a nice night in with him. Am I unreasonable?

2007-02-23 03:51:25 · 39 answers · asked by Carol T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what can you do when one of your close relative tell lie about your husband that he wanted to rape her six times, and that two times with someone else. Is it possible for a man to rape two person eight time in a roll without any one knowing about it? Or is it a normal thing for someone to rape the same person six times with no witness or mark or a fight back evidence?

2007-02-23 03:49:56 · 20 answers · asked by Tezza D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband had a very abusive father almost killed him and his mom by pushing them both of a moving car, my husband rolled under the tires and almost died and also had a baby brother that died when he was just 5 months or so for an unknown cause i think it might of been the father but nobody knows, the father was a beater, alcoholic ect...My husband's mother left him finally when my husband was 4 years old or so and remarried a wonderful guy...My husband was raised by his mom and her husband..He thinks of him as his real dad and all..When we get in a fight we has a habit of grabbing my arms and squeezing me but would never hit me however he thinks he is going to end up just like his real dad and become a alcoholic and a beater, he is the sweetest most caring person i have ever met why would he feel this way??He did not grow up around his real father but by a wonderful man that is also sweet and caring, he couldn't end up like his father if he didnt grow up around it right???

2007-02-23 03:49:28 · 19 answers · asked by Kasja 5 in Family

I love her so much, we been dating for 1 year already. We gotten really serious, she wanted to move in with me, so I did let her, ever since she moved in with me, my passion for her had decreased but I still love her though. She shown her true side while living with me. She started to get really annoying while living with me. She never been this annoying before we lived together. This has been going on for 2 months already. I am not sure if I will plan to marry her anymore, I planned to marry her before she moved in with me though. Any clues on how can I get back my passion?

2007-02-23 03:49:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my boy friend have been together for well this is our fourth year together he is 19 and i am 16 and we have an 8 month old baby boy. my mother and dss keep trying to break up our family were trying to find a way out to be together any suggestions?

2007-02-23 03:48:35 · 8 answers · asked by brittany l 1 in Family

I love her so much, we been dating for 1 year already. We gotten really serious, she wanted to move in with me, so I did let her, ever since she moved in with me, my passion for her had decreased but I still love her though. She shown her true side while living with me. She started to get really annoying while living with me. She never been this annoying before we lived together. This has been going on for 2 months already. I am not sure if I will plan to marry her anymore, I planned to marry her before she moved in with me though. Any clues on how can I get back my passion?

2007-02-23 03:48:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there's a guy who speaks chinese only no english.. i speak some conversational mandarin, but not much.. every other day he asks me to go out with him... how can i make this work out?

2007-02-23 03:48:18 · 15 answers · asked by Jebbie 7 in Singles & Dating

my gf acts like im livin in the 80's cuz i walk around quoting terminator, and wearing fubaz pants, remember those? think i should go for an update?

2007-02-23 03:47:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently met someone a few weeks ago and the attraction between us is 1000x greater then any I felt before, even toward my parents. I know this is the relationship for me and that we will be a couple, maybe more, for the rest of our lives. The problem is a big one because of my personality, being cold natured and alone. I am not one to express my feeling openly so I have no idea of how I can express my love to the love of my life. I know the feeling is mutual between us but I cant seem to gather the words to tell how much I feel towards this person. So does anyone have anypointers for a love sick man, I would appreciate any feedback on this manner.

2007-02-23 03:47:44 · 1 answers · asked by gatz1000 4 in Singles & Dating

Argh I'm super stressed. 7 weeks to go! Does anyone else find that weddings really is a girl thing? My man is fabulous... but I ask for his input, and he really doesn't care. Somehow I ended up being in charge of MAKING the invitations as he wouldn't help me pick any and I didn't like anything. To top it off, our roomate is a total slob, he moves out when we get married, but I don't think I can last that long without going postal on him. I spend more time cleaning than planning the wedding. I'm so stressed :-(

2007-02-23 03:47:25 · 10 answers · asked by Jess*21* 1 in Weddings

What can i gift a person I love...hes leaving and will be away for long....

2007-02-23 03:47:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

The first thing I notice of people are their SHOES. If someone is wearing neat shoes to me it means they are well groomed.

2007-02-23 03:46:32 · 16 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Singles & Dating

If you haven't had a girlfriend by the time you are _______ years old, you are a complete loser.

Why did you choose that age?

2007-02-23 03:46:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating