I love her so much, we been dating for 1 year already. We gotten really serious, she wanted to move in with me, so I did let her, ever since she moved in with me, my passion for her had decreased but I still love her though. She shown her true side while living with me. She started to get really annoying while living with me. She never been this annoying before we lived together. This has been going on for 2 months already. I am not sure if I will plan to marry her anymore, I planned to marry her before she moved in with me though. Any clues on how can I get back my passion?
2007-02-23 03:48:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dear Tanner L,
You said that you were planning on marrying your girlfriend but to really find out that 2 people are right 4 each other they need to get to know each other more. Before you said you wanted to marry her then now your not sure. You found at that she is annoying. But your still with her. This means that you are taking part in her life. You've put up with her for 2 months now. She is probably waiting for you to make the next move. Or she is to scared to do it herself. That's what I say . Do what you think is right and follow your heart.
2007-02-23 03:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by ashes_n_divas 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She's annoying you because you've left the "honeymoon" stage of your relationship. She already had all the annoying traits, you just weren't paying attention before. She isn't doing anything differently but you don't have any time away from her now. Now you have to ask yourself if they are things you can live with. Is it something like she leaves the cap off the toothpaste or leaves the bathroom a bit messy? If so, they are probably things you can easily look past. Is it something like she doesn't call if she is coming home late? That is something you need to talk over, but easily fixed. If it is something like you have realized she worships the devil every Saturday night and you are a devout Christian, then it is probably time to move on. Analyze just what is annoying you. I suspect it is more of the first kind and a few of the second kind. I doubt you would have made it to a year without finding out any big incompatibilities. It is all getting very serious and very real. I think you are just a bit scared. Talk with her about your feelings. She is probably suddenly annoyed with you too. After the talk, hopefully you can go buy a ring. Good luck.
2007-02-23 12:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by rosekm 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
although living with each other is a good indicator of how things will go after marriage, most people that move in before marriage have higher divorce rates because they don't have the same values as those that wait until marriage to shack up!
2007-02-23 11:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by Khalil 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Drop her and get a new woman.
2007-02-23 11:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by hjfr27 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
welcome to the real world of Dating/Marriage.
2007-02-23 11:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋