i mean, you are serious in your relationship with your significant other and you find your other cheating on you (sleeping with lots of other opposite gender). If I find my wife to be that, I would be very heartbroken and tell her to get out of my life. What would you do?
2007-02-23 03:56:01 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would leave in an instant.
2007-02-23 03:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would cry harder than I ever cried before. Then I would have to really think hard and evaluate the relationship completely. This would be something that you really don't know what you would do until it happens. It is very easy to say once a cheater always a cheater. Especially when you hear this happen to others but if it actually happen to you; you just don't know because if you love the person you may think about everything and all the history that you have. If they feel really remorseful; then maybe another chance would occur but if they don't act remorseful then you really don't have a choice but to move on.
2007-02-23 07:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by Tgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I'm in a relationship I plan on staying with that person forever through good and bad times. But when it comes to cheating (sleeping around, etc) I wouldn't stay with them either. If someone cheats on you once, they'll do it again. I've heard people try to say otherwise but in every situation I know of, they've done it again (although it's possible there are a few exceptions). And if someone is willing to cheat on you they obviously don't love you to the extent that you love them and why would you want to be with someone that doesn't only want and love you?
2007-02-23 04:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by Mal123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do believe even if they were remorseful i would not be able to have the same feelings for them as i once had. yes the heartbreak is a given but we do get better, we do recover, and we find new lives, with new people. personally cheating is a deal breaker in any marriage, and who would want someone after they chose someone else over u anyway. we just need to move on when we get betrayed. if we choose to forgive it and take them back we will always wonder when and if we will get hurt again.
2007-02-23 05:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have already made it clear to my wife that if she ever cheated I would definitely divorce her. Now, if she cheats she knows that she has given up her marriage.
This would tell me that even if she asked me for forgiveness, that at the time she cheated she cared more about satisfying her lust than about being my wife.
This would allow me to divorce her without any doubt of whether or not she is the wrong woman for me.
There would be NO SECOND CHANCES. I would not even allow myself the thought.
2007-02-23 04:09:01 · answer #5 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were living with the bum, I would pack their things and would tell them they need to go stay at their "friends" place. If I were married to the bum and had kids, I would try counseling, but prepare myself financially to be raising my kids alone. I would make sure all financials were taken care of. If my name were on anything that was the bums, I'd get it off and make sure I could make a clean break of it when the appropiate time came. I would not have any scenes, I would not tip my hand, but I would carefully plan my bums leaving at the earliest possible convience to me. Also, no more unprotected sex with said bum, if I were to have ANY, and I'm thinking I would not be. But then thats me.....
2007-02-23 04:03:46 · answer #6 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i told my husband , if there was any sign of anything going that bad , that we talk to eachother and see about getting help.... now if that doesnt happen.. then that person obviously doesnt care enough about you , and is CHEATING on you.. i would be heartbroken, pissed off teenager (you know how pisssy teenagers can be) , i dont have words for all the hurt i would be feeling.. bc really it would be over,, how do you come back from that??? trust is broken, and i think the other person deserves better
2007-02-23 04:00:38 · answer #7 · answered by sm81206 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get a divorce like a Mothu! On the otherhand, I don't worry about it, because I know the kind of woman I married. If either was liable to stray, I would be the most likely canidate.
2007-02-23 04:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woww thats a tough one. Cheating is the worst, i would leave if i am not married and if i am i would try to work things out, but bottom line is it is going to be extremely painful take it from me i have been there and i would never wish this on my enemy. You will have to be very strong in trying not to kill him or her.
2007-02-23 04:10:41 · answer #9 · answered by Lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell them to get out of my life but I would DEFINATELY get out of theirs. Cheating is the cardinal sin. You can do alot of things to hurt someone, but infidelity is the ultimate breech of trust. If they'll do that, how could you trust them with anything else? I'd leave and NEVER look back!!
2007-02-23 04:00:04 · answer #10 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would contact www.ishemarried.co.uk for any one who is suspicious ,is you partner free to conduct a relationship or is he or she living with someone ,does he reside in London or finchampsted ?does he claim to be a Company Director or is he or she living off benefits .Or quite simply is he or she married ?
2007-02-23 04:07:29 · answer #11 · answered by jocasta a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋