that would mean they obviously didn't care to break your heart or care about your feelings so why bother staying with them? the relationship wasn't a serious one to them. I read a quote somewhere the other day that "If he's cheated, then he'll cheat." and it's true, he/she is shown that they're capable of it so they're capable of doing it again. it's not worth the pain of "getting over it" if you stay, trust me i know. it's not worth trying to build up trust when you think back to it every day , making you sick to your stomache.
2007-02-23 04:02:43
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answered by tiff_n_a00 3
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People seem to forget that nowadays there are greater risks to promiscuous behavior than we used to have. I remember when the worst that you could contract could always be treated with a shot of pennicillin. Nowadays a roaming partner could bring home herpes (for which there is no cure), AIDS (which is fatal) or something more insidious (think chlymadia) that could be going on for years before you even know you've contracted it.
If your partner is a woman in childbearing years, how about possibly raising a child that isn't even your own?
Barring all that, the loss of trust is the worst. Your worst enemy shouldn't be the one sleeping next to you in bed....if I found out my husband had been cheating, he would definitely be out the door with no chances to come back. And I would run to the doctor's office to be tested for everything.
Good luck! I hope your question was rhetorical only....
2007-02-23 04:05:26
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answered by CassandraM 6
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I'd be very heartbroken and hurt and probably would dump him. T.T
Despite the effort to work it out, i dont think i can unless i try to give him a second chance. Or i just move on and learn to love again.
PS. I hope your wife never cheats on you. Love her! Have faith. If the relationship is strong, there isnt much to worry. Certainly what you dont want for yourself, dont do it to others.
2007-02-23 04:04:57
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answered by Anonymous
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When that happen there must be something we did wrong. Number one I would get help, marital counseling can be helpful and talk about what we've been doing wrong. If you just quit and don't find out about the problem...then you going to do the same mistakes over and over. If the other person is cheating with different genders then they maybe by-sexual.
2007-02-23 04:04:25
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answered by Jersey girl on Florida. 5
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I would make sure it is absolutely true that they are cheating and confront them. Yes it would break my heart and damage my trust in them. It will sicken me to the point of breaking up as I will not tolerate that at all.
How sad that someone would risk their family for just moments of self gratification. It would end the romantic relationship and I would move ahead in my life. If children were involved I would not pit them against them, but I would protect the children and myself the best I can from the fall out.
2007-02-23 04:00:00
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answered by Golden Smile 4
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Well, there are lot's of things that you'd have to consider. Everyone thinks they'd do "whatever" for sure...until that situation really happens to them! Are children involved? How long have you been together? Has it happened before? Is there other forms of abuse? (And YES, in some situations,cheating is abuse!) How is the relationship otherwise? Everyone makes mistakes...the key is learning from them!
2007-02-23 04:05:37
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answered by Anonymous
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Get a new significant other. Dedication is the first key to a wonderful relationship
2007-02-23 03:58:25
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answered by Michael S 2
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I would follow my significant other to all the places that he goes to and make sure that he isn't cheating on me. And if he was cheating on me than I would tell him to pack his things and get lost.
2007-02-23 04:05:33
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answered by Heidi T 7
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stay focused on maintain me and my family , leave the no good cheat and know that she or he was never good enough for you in the first place..............i do have to add i would have to slap the hell out of them but after that go on about your business and continue to build you and become success ful not only will you have a wonderful life she will be sorry she ever messed up with you and thats what its about coming out on top!
2007-02-23 03:59:57
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answered by hollaatyagirlt 2
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it is very hard to deal with a cheating mate , especially if there's kids involved , marriage or if you've been with this person for a long time. you have to be strong and move on. there is always some one better that will treat you better and appreicate you.
2007-02-23 03:59:11
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answered by goddess 3
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