Family & Relationships - 23 February 2007

I met a lady in Thailand who told me she was finished with her partner (and the father of her daughter), but then I found out she was still living with him, but she said it was only because she couldnt live anywhere else at the time and that she didnt want him. Then I came back home for 2 months and when I went back to Thailand she was pregnant with his baby, but said he forced himself on her and she aborted the baby. She insisted she doesnt love him and now he lives with the daughter in another city. He keeps sending me e-mails telling me how I ruined his family and he hates me. So she obviously told him she doesnt want him and that she loves me. What should I do now? I love her. Did I ruin the family or would she have left anyway?

2007-02-23 05:02:47 · 30 answers · asked by Jimbo 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 05:02:47 · 9 answers · asked by domani 1 in Singles & Dating

it for school

2007-02-23 05:01:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

This is what happend on Tuesday i was caught by cheating by using the answer key on the math test in my math class, now i have been trying to tell my teacher that i need some easy problems to figure out however, my other teacher knows about it all! How can she not lecture me because i know in my other class she is mad at me for cheating. How can i make sure that she does not throw any kind of trash at me? How can my math teacher and i get along?

2007-02-23 05:01:24 · 7 answers · asked by Sewer Tank 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do they choose to go for a low life like street pharmacy, former prisoners, pimp, etc... and live a hard poor life instead of go for some bad boy who are well to do such as those in mafia, illegal arms smuggling, etc... and have everythings they want?

2007-02-23 05:01:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me. i was somehow given a last chance on valentine day, i can feels her happiness. never before i felt that i can make her happy. that day was meant to be a great memory for both of us. i never really bother her again. 1 or 2 week later. she started to send me messages(sms). 2 days in a row, day 1 she wanted to return me the bottles and umbrella i lend her ealier when i was wooing her. day2 she sms me, and ask that if i'm sick (i'm sick and we are working at the same company). i don't know what i should do,
i'm afriaid that she will starts to avoid me again if i do any obvious signs of me still liking her. what should i do? i just wants to be a shadow, and watch over her secretly. but she's driving me crazy!

2007-02-23 05:01:20 · 14 answers · asked by continue waiting? 2 in Singles & Dating

today, i went on myspace and i added my friend, who is also friends with my brother, i found my brothers profile and i saw pictures of him with bongs and in 2 he was "tripped out" what does tripped out mean and does this mean hes doing drugs...i can't turn him in i love him even though i wont admit it and i don't want him to get kicked out of the house.... what do i do and is he doing it? and what the hell does "tripping out" mean??

2007-02-23 05:01:19 · 4 answers · asked by Melly. 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

..i mean is it possible to be in love and live with eachother but dont have sex. say if u guys were together for at least a year.

2007-02-23 05:00:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husbands x is controlling, mean, hateful, deceitful, manipulating, gold digging and uses the kids as leverage against him. My x doesnt do any of these things, He leaves us alone other then to see his daughter which we schedule. My husbands ex goes crazy if Im coming with my husband to get his kids and she grills the kids everytime they go home or she calls my husband all the time(I think to annoy me). Its gets under my skin and causes rage in my marriage between us. My ex doesnt do any of this and we were married for 13 years and have a toddler. Ive tried talking to his ex and she only hears what she wants. She cheated on my husband before I even came into the picture. Now my husband (who is her ex) blames me for being "obsessed" because I get so upset or basically hurt. I wanted them to work out their marriage because of the kids but she blames me. I think my husband resents me now because I am consumed by this mess.. HELP! I knew he had a family but his ex has got worse.

2007-02-23 05:00:48 · 19 answers · asked by Wolf woman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-23 05:00:39 · 13 answers · asked by KB 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this guy for about two years now. I know I love him and he loves me...but lately I've been having feelings for my best friend. He also has a girlfriend. We talked once about this and he said he'd been having weird feelings for me too. Since then, though, nothing. It's not hurting our friendship at all and everything is normal, but I can't help but keep thinking about that conversation. How do I know if he really is having feelings for me too. Please, HELP! Keep in mind though that I'm in high school. Haha.

2007-02-23 04:59:57 · 6 answers · asked by shell 1 in Friends

I have my "flaws" like smoking, and drinking (not excessively unless it's in a controlled environment), but, I'm in the military, i treat women with respect and courtesy, when it comes to sex, i have an attitude of talking it out with a girl first before making any moves that way she is comfortable, which, to me, is most important, along with honesty, and communication, and dedication (for the good times and the bad). And, though i may have been lied to, i was told i am a handsome guy...i don't know...

2007-02-23 04:59:23 · 16 answers · asked by Sire_D 3 in Singles & Dating

What are some of the signs that adults show when they were molested as children???
I can remember only certain things from when i was little, my parents worked so my father's dad had to watch me, my sister, and my cousin when we were little and shyla and my sister would always go outside whatever well i remember always asking if i could go and crying when they would leave me their, I also remember when they left my grandpa would always throw me in a room..
My sister has brought up that she also remember's everytime her and my cousin would go outside I would cry and say please don't leave me here, she has also witnessed him throwing me in a room and him coming in as well and being in their for a while and she would hear me screaming as well as him hitting me and threatening me..His wife at the time would never do anything i remember her going to her bedroom and shutting her door everytime ang cry and held me when i came out.I don't remember anything else is it possible???

2007-02-23 04:59:22 · 14 answers · asked by Kasja 5 in Family

i got yelled at and degenerated. told off my self pphone was taken away im going to annother school

is this right or abuse

2007-02-23 04:58:48 · 3 answers · asked by Scream Your Secrets 3 in Family

My grandma just died of cancer

2007-02-23 04:58:28 · 20 answers · asked by 2 a'da da dorable' 4 u 2 in Weddings

My fiancee' has some major hairs on her nip*les, I don't know how she doesn't notice them. Do I tell her or just yank 'em out?

2007-02-23 04:58:25 · 18 answers · asked by SEAHAWKS P.O.ED 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I want to know does the sexual needs and sexual preferences of women change with age? After how many years of marriage does sexual boredom start to kick in?

2007-02-23 04:58:19 · 8 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been very confused and now I am thinking rationaly. Me and my sister have been in a relationship in the same home. Both parents do not have a clue! She is pregnant and refuses to abort the pregnancy. She wants us to be a family. I am trying to explain to her what we have done is wrong and not rite. She wants nothing to do with what i say other than she loves me, wants to marry me, and wants us to be a family. I am so embarased, my family is going to be realy mad. What do I do? I am so scared!

2007-02-23 04:57:35 · 12 answers · asked by carlos f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

O.K., the female will not speak to me at all. I apologized and left it at that. I said to myself I'll give it time, and then she'll call me back later. Now, should I let it be as it is, or say something funny to make her laugh and lighten her up a bit more. I thought this would be a good idea too. Should I stick with option #1 like I'm doing now, or option #2, try to lighten up her spirits with a good sense of humor. If I do option #2 I'm approaching her instead of giving it time, which I'm not letting her come to me when she's ready to talk to me again. How should I go about this? Trust me, I can make her laugh. She's just mad at me right now. I've got to get out of the doghouse. She's making me suffer, you know how women do, and right now I am suffering. LOL I just don't want to suffer too long. I need her back.

2007-02-23 04:57:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

under $200

2007-02-23 04:56:50 · 11 answers · asked by whitystratt 2 in Weddings

Walnuts, what do you call nuts on your chest? Chest nuts.. What do you call nuts on your chin???

2007-02-23 04:56:29 · 14 answers · asked by Dat slavemaker pimp 1 in Singles & Dating

I may like this girl, and then it turned out that she has the same last name?I'm not sure cuz i know like 20 people that have the same last name and aren't related and they live in the same city?She doesnt live near me by the way

2007-02-23 04:56:19 · 14 answers · asked by Christian G 2 in Singles & Dating

are you happy with them?

2007-02-23 04:55:53 · 2 answers · asked by Hugh J 1 in Singles & Dating

The wedding will be held in westchester ny.

2007-02-23 04:54:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

he says"I have feelings for you - you are very special to me" we are used to talk to one another daily for many hours! is that addiction, interest or whatever?

2007-02-23 04:53:45 · 26 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

but she said she didnt feel the same way , we havent broken up , we still kiss , and are intimate , why does my heart feel so heavy , i cannot get her out of my mind , i think about her from the moment i wake up till the moment i go to sleep , she says we should just take things day by day , i feel as tho she is the one true person and want to spend the rest of my life with her , do you think in time she will feel the same as me ? please help im in turmoil

2007-02-23 04:53:44 · 30 answers · asked by tribute 2 in Singles & Dating

my 14yr old sister has a bigg attitude problem && it started getting worse when our mother was diagnosed with a medical problem..she can be very abusive at times && is constantly yelling at me && my father when she doesn`t get her way..she`s not really a spoiled brat but i think it has something to do with our mom`s condition && i also think part of her is hiding what she feels just b/c she just wants to be strong like her big sis...is there anything i can do to help her?

2007-02-23 04:53:16 · 5 answers · asked by xxgoincrazy313xx 2 in Family

2007-02-23 04:52:21 · 17 answers · asked by Diamond Prince$$ 1 in Singles & Dating

guys should know this

2007-02-23 04:52:02 · 7 answers · asked by errrika. 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 04:50:28 · 11 answers · asked by 1231314 1 in Singles & Dating