O.K., the female will not speak to me at all. I apologized and left it at that. I said to myself I'll give it time, and then she'll call me back later. Now, should I let it be as it is, or say something funny to make her laugh and lighten her up a bit more. I thought this would be a good idea too. Should I stick with option #1 like I'm doing now, or option #2, try to lighten up her spirits with a good sense of humor. If I do option #2 I'm approaching her instead of giving it time, which I'm not letting her come to me when she's ready to talk to me again. How should I go about this? Trust me, I can make her laugh. She's just mad at me right now. I've got to get out of the doghouse. She's making me suffer, you know how women do, and right now I am suffering. LOL I just don't want to suffer too long. I need her back.
2007-02-23 04:57:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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Bruh, Option 1. Let it ride until SHE is ready.
If you push the issue (Option 2), she'll know you're overcompensating and will put up a higher wall - because she KNOWS you can make her laugh. See?
So, don't play on that perspective, give her space until SHE is ready.
That way, she'll have had time to collect her thoughts and you can talk TO HER about what happened. That is growth, bruh. Not to mention being mature about the situation.
Give her a week and check in with her. Tell her she can be mad all she wants, but that's not going to change the fact that you care for her. She'll understand.
Good luck!
2007-02-23 05:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by HottNikkels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evidently you did something to really hurt and or disappoint her. Maybe she didn't feel that your apology was sincere, especially because, you expect her to just get over it and come back to you. She's not a dog, she is a woman and a human being. You need to man up and actually talk to her about what happen...understand where she's coming from...."Sorry" doesn't cut it all the time.
2007-02-23 05:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, we need to know what u did in order for us to know how to help u get out of the dog house? did u do something "doggish" like sleep around on her or what? If she wont even speak to u it must be serious.
2007-02-23 05:03:02 · answer #3 · answered by BlkBeauty24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the worst thing you can do is aggrivate a woman who needs her space it will only annoy her more man... just be easy and she'll come around if it's meant to be. she'll appreciate you actually respecting her wishes. good luck
2007-02-23 05:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by so_sincere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were her, i would like you to do option # 2. but don't do it too much. kinda leave her alone, but then kinda make her laugh.
2007-02-23 05:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋