me. i was somehow given a last chance on valentine day, i can feels her happiness. never before i felt that i can make her happy. that day was meant to be a great memory for both of us. i never really bother her again. 1 or 2 week later. she started to send me messages(sms). 2 days in a row, day 1 she wanted to return me the bottles and umbrella i lend her ealier when i was wooing her. day2 she sms me, and ask that if i'm sick (i'm sick and we are working at the same company). i don't know what i should do,
i'm afriaid that she will starts to avoid me again if i do any obvious signs of me still liking her. what should i do? i just wants to be a shadow, and watch over her secretly. but she's driving me crazy!
2007-02-23 05:01:20 · 14 answers · asked by continue waiting? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her, if she says no, then give up. I think you are starting to scare some people. RELAX!!
2007-02-23 06:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to be a shadow and watch over her secretly?
That's really not very healthy, move on, be polite and friendly but forget about anything else.
2007-02-23 13:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by Rafaman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you wanna watch over her are you stalking her sms her and tell her you are fine and ask her if she wants to go out after work stop being so shy..
2007-02-23 13:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by Mary O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude snap out of it. If she has already told you that she is not interested then don't continue to put yourself out there. You have to move on. I've been there before and it is hard when you have opened up to someone only to be told that you are not the one. But you can't make yourself look stupid or desparate just move on you ma be missing out on somethig else.
2007-02-23 13:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant be a shadow and watch over her she will find that scary. Dont let this drive you crazy anymore. Move on.
2007-02-23 13:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by babyshambles 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, stalker. let it go. if its meant to be it will happen but in the meanwhile the closer you try to get the farther shes gunna run away. CHILL OUT
2007-02-23 13:06:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony C 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Never chase a woman, if she is interested she will let you know. Chasing is a sure route to slavery and heart ache, is this what you realy want.
2007-02-23 13:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by CI MIke 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
a shadow and watch over her secretly?.............sounds to me she feels shes being stalked
2007-02-23 13:06:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you want to be a shadow? you sond like a stalker!
2007-02-23 13:05:04 · answer #9 · answered by theemadmonkey 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get over it because it sounds like you are becoming obsessed
2007-02-23 13:45:53 · answer #10 · answered by top cat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋