Family & Relationships - 23 February 2007

2007-02-23 07:47:34 · 8 answers · asked by elizabeth12323 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Little 'bout us: We've been together 4+ yrs not married but we are committed as if we are; my 5 kids (oldest in air force) ages 4-19 live with us in my house, his 3 kids ages 12-18 6th-12th grades not living with us. He makes 5 times more than I do. 2 mortgages=$633/mo, car $402/mo, boat $205/mo each purchased last year w understanding he'd make those payments if I got the loans for them (his credit score is under 350 + tax levy). I agreed to pay: All groceries, utilities, insurances for all our assets, I pay real estate tax as well, upkeep of house & vehicles which has cost me over $3,000 this year! Our basement has a water problem I have to pay to have fixed. I don't think the division of money is fair. I have to borrow money from my parents to make it each month while he blows $3-400 then complains he "has no money". I have to give him $ for his bowling cuz he runs out 3 days after payday! This is tearing us apart. How do you stay thru this, not give up? Were nitpckn every $1.

2007-02-23 07:47:33 · 20 answers · asked by HeavenlyAngel 3 in Marriage & Divorce

wadda i do?, since it dries so bad it curls at the ends and it bugs me ALOT anything i can do at home to keep it hyrated until i can get some GOOD shampoo to help

2007-02-23 07:47:08 · 3 answers · asked by bbob_baller 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 07:46:22 · 11 answers · asked by jjimenez93 1 in Singles & Dating

im on the phone with my boyfriend now and i want to ask him if he'll still wanna go out after a break, but i dont know how to. please help!!! quick!!!

2007-02-23 07:45:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 18 year or next month 19 year old boy
i am a little proud because of this i cant talk to girls

2007-02-23 07:45:33 · 11 answers · asked by Armageddon 1 in Friends

to request that we do not go near each other for a couple of days until all the "meat" has been processed throughout his system?

I mean, I can't imagine kissing him after that, or being nearby when any bodily functions erupt ... I'm going to ask him to use the guest bathroom too.

I am a vegetarian, AND DON'T MIND WHEN HE EATS REGULAR MEAT, but it's this "game" meat that really truly grosses me out about this situation.

I gave him no problem about going, so he should give me no problem about this request, right?

Thanks for your opinion!

2007-02-23 07:45:31 · 27 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i am scared of what my mother mights do if i tell her anything that i do or did wrong. i am constantly told how i am so selfish and inmature and what a failure i am.. i often break down in front of teachers,peers and friends because i cant deal with being put down from my mother on small things that she turns big like how i wear my pants. she constantly yells at me and only tells my brother good night and how much she loves him and gives me the cold shoulder. i was the a blame for why no one would get any christmas presents last year because i asked where she was going one night. she was going shoppping. she screams at me because if i ask for some money to go somewhere or if i can get something and she tells me why dont i ask my dad who i dont have a realashionip with. i feel i am the blame for everything that happens its never her or my brothers fault, always mine.
i was exposed to a abuseive mother and father realashionship when i was 6-8.
have i been emotionally abused?

2007-02-23 07:45:24 · 9 answers · asked by <3112 1 in Family

My husband cringes and pulls away when I approach him. He backs away and disengages. I feel hurt and disappointed when he does this. Sometimes I just want a hug for a bad day at work.

He has an engineer's mind. He is very precise, methodical and non-feeling in his approach to life. Snap out of it....don't bring your work home....someone with my intelligence shouldn't be so needy.
...are some of his comments.

He showed slightly more affection when we dated...he would caution me that he didn't like displays of affection in public. He tolerates very little at home.

Does anyone else have this problem? Is there anyway to make him relax?

2007-02-23 07:45:18 · 8 answers · asked by taurine_banana 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so I was flirting with a guy on our bus. (I don't really like him I was trying to make another guy jealous.) The guy I was trying to make jealous got all mad, so he asked out my best friend. She said no, but go ask Leslie. He said maybe later. So will we eventually go out???

2007-02-23 07:44:49 · 11 answers · asked by LCC 4 in Singles & Dating

Well my school is having a dance but my friends and I are planning to go to chinatown instead. My mom doesnt let me go to chinatown though because she doesnt trust me. Should I lie to her?

2007-02-23 07:44:30 · 8 answers · asked by Linda Nguyen 1 in Friends

2007-02-23 07:43:59 · 13 answers · asked by : 6 in Friends

okay one of my ex girlfriends wants me back but i went to a dance and got another girl whos liked me for a year now, i told her i wouldnt break her heart, but my ex wants back what we used to have and she says she misses me ALOT, this other girl is REALLY sweet and i dont wanna break her heart tho, but i cant feel bad and think maybe my ex really does want me back and maybe things will wrk better than b4, like i said i dont wanna break my new gfs heart, but i really had a hard time losiing my old one and i had a great life when i had her, this new girl makes me feel happy too, cept once i dump her and try it with my ex, i wont be able to get her back.......what should i do?

2007-02-23 07:43:41 · 4 answers · asked by bbob_baller 2 in Singles & Dating

we have our own kids from diff ppl . both fixed no kids between us wats so wrong.

2007-02-23 07:42:49 · 18 answers · asked by jon s 1 in Singles & Dating

When you see/talk to a guy what makes you attracted to? Explain..

2007-02-23 07:42:46 · 12 answers · asked by Kevin S 1 in Singles & Dating

he looks like totally different and is all into techno music. He dances like amazingly well to it. Before when i liked him, i used to write notes to him and he would keep them and appreciated the attention. lol. But he only wanted to be friends. He is kinda like a man ho in the sense that he has had many girlfriends (not all at once) but yeah. All these feelings are coming back but he currently has a g/f. I don't want to tell him any of this but i kinda like him all over again. What should I do ?

2007-02-23 07:42:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was born on March 11, 1979, and my boyfriend was born on January 19, 1809. Do you think this will be a problem?

2007-02-23 07:42:19 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay well my girlfriend was on the pill for just over a year, then stopped for a week, and has been back on about a month and a half, to 2 months. She is about 5 days early before her period is supposed to come and having period-like cramps. Does this mean she could possibly be pregnant? what are the odds? We had sex once since she's been back on the pill about 2 weeks ago, which would have been 1 week after her period... Would she have been ovulating then?

2007-02-23 07:42:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i really like this one guy named joe*, he was a senior last yr. and i was a freshman, me and joe's other friend mike* were good friends and pretty close, and last yr. i thought joe was the hottest guy ever, he was the coolest senior, but he had a girlfriend. all summer i havent seen joe or anything, and now he just got a myspace so i added him and we started to talk. my heart totally jumped, since i finally got into contact with him, he said he thought i was really hot, and put me on his top 8! lol, he gave me his number, and told me 2 call him, but im really phone shy i dont why, i wish i had the guts to call him! so i havent called him yet, its been 3 days, and i dont want to ruin this friendship because im too phone shy. and also all these girls from my high school keep adding him as a friend, and it makes me jealous, i need help getting over him, and getting over my super jealousy! i think he might be mad @ me, he hasnt messaged me in 4ever!!! help please!! thnx <33

2007-02-23 07:41:35 · 3 answers · asked by cus i forgot my name...? 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't know how to feel or what to expect right now. I recently meet someone that I have fallen for. I'm unsure if the feelings are mutual. We have been dating casually for the past 2 weeks but recently i ran into a problem. My drivers liscense was suspended for a month. I was the only one with a car and liscense. I'm very concerned that this may turn away a potential partner. How are we supposed to see eachother if I cannot drive? Another issue. It seems as if he has been avoiding me, not answering phone calls or text messages. I hope that I did not drive him away by overwelming him. I care so much about him I would do anything for him to be my boyfriend. Is this fixable. What should I do? Can I find out what his intentions are? He says hes not mad at me, but things just feel different. Any advice would be appreciated. Sorry about my spelling lol.

2007-02-23 07:41:34 · 3 answers · asked by bronzebody281 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 07:41:14 · 23 answers · asked by MrJohnson 1 in Singles & Dating

If you are dating someone, how long do you typically wait to see if there is chemistry in the relationship? I'm talking about a situation where two older people have common interests and seem well-matched, but there just doesn't seem to be much of a spark.

2007-02-23 07:40:38 · 22 answers · asked by Sunflower81 2 in Singles & Dating

I like the dude named christian, but he doesn't like me. I'm always acting like a guy when im with his/my friends. When he are at the end of the line i dont know what to say and it makes me feel like an idiot. Help anyone? what can i do?

2007-02-23 07:40:14 · 8 answers · asked by Kayla 1 in Singles & Dating

i hung out with another guy a couple of weeks ago and it has been eating me alive, if i told him hed never speak to me again but if i hadnt done this i wouldnt have realized how much i love him..i dont think im going to tell him, our relationship is better now then ever

2007-02-23 07:40:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He cheated on me and also got the girl pregnant. He saids it was only one time when he was drunk. I have been with this person for over five years we were engaged to be married and now i have no idea what to do. I truly feel that it was one night and i want to forgive him so we can move on but the question is where do i start?

2007-02-23 07:39:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im a muslim guy 18 and im in love with my cousin who is 11.shes very beautifull young and intelligent.but im in love with her.would it be ok to marry when shes 20 or older.and when do i ask her if she loves me.im in pain day and night worrying if shel love me and marry me someday.how can i do somet so i know she loves me without hurting her feelings i really care for her and love her.

2007-02-23 07:39:30 · 1 answers · asked by nasserprofessional 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Some of them put some of the sex stuff on the internet to shame. We women are quick to say that men are cheating reading Playboy. Come one ladies.

2007-02-23 07:39:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years, and moved in together 6 months ago, and we've always pretty much worked the same shifts, but recently he was accepted for a job change. His work will be about 35 minutes away from our apartment, and he'll be working swing shift, 6pm-2:30am. I work from 8-5! He will be working sunday-thursday, and I work monday-friday! I'm worried that not seeing eachother as much as we usually do will be a huge strain on our relationship, and was wondering who else has gone through this? And any ideas to help stay close? thanks so much for the answers!! :0)

2007-02-23 07:39:06 · 2 answers · asked by shelb 2 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if a guy that looked a little "rough" (like boots, leather jacket and jeans) that you didn't really know much at all except for his name maybe, asked you out or told you he liked you? He is a really nice guy once you get to know him, thing is, you don't know him. Also he is a sophmore and you are a freashman, and you've been in study hall together for 2 quaters in a row? If you didn't know, I am the guy na d I like this girl in my study....what would you do if that was you, and how would you feel, or like to be asked???

2007-02-23 07:39:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how long should the enagement be, plus i am a very romatic person, how can i get him to be romatic.

2007-02-23 07:38:14 · 9 answers · asked by maplegirl5 1 in Singles & Dating