im on the phone with my boyfriend now and i want to ask him if he'll still wanna go out after a break, but i dont know how to. please help!!! quick!!!
2007-02-23 07:45:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You tell him that you need time to yourself for a little while. Tell him that you want an understanding that you do not want the relationship to end permanently, but that you need to some time to yourself right now to figure some things out. Explain to him that you just need a break, just like you did right here. Be honest with him. He may be upest, but if you need time to yourself, then it is best to be honest and do it soon. If you wait, you will end up hurting yourself because you aren't being honest with YOURSELF.
Amanda
2007-02-23 07:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok look you canot have your cake and eat it too. If you want a break you are taking the chance that you will not get back together. If that bothers you then you don't really want a break. IF you do take a break you must be prepared for the fact that you probably will not go out again. Why should the guy wait around for you when you cannot make up your mind. Think long and hard about this because you cannot break up with the guy and keep him around too.
2007-02-23 15:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why the break? Just need some single time, keep in mind you can go for the break but sometimes couples can't get over what happened during the break to get back together. If you aren't ready stay together but take some space, do what's in your heart.
2007-02-23 15:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by Italia 28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, i think that the last thing you need to be thinking of is if he will still want you after a break because if he doesn't at that time, then your destiny may lie with someone else. so don't sweat it. just be honest about your feelings or you and him could both miss out on the right person for you in EVERY way.
2007-02-23 15:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by Lovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advise is that you take a break without telling him and by taking a break i mean be single (but DO NOT talk to other people). my reason for this is that if you tell him you want a break and you put it in your mind that you want to get back with him sometime in the future. you will be disapointed because he will not wait for you and might fall for some other chick.
Goodluck
2007-02-23 16:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by Whetin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him it is okay if you and him can take a break and then see what he says! I did that and they guy totally understood and maybe he will to! Just say I think we need to take a break and then maybe after a while we can get back together. Try that! GOOD LUCK! Email me back and tell me what he says if you want to! my email is sexybratcourtney2008@yahoo.com
2007-02-23 15:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by Courtney Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you need a break to think about things and get your life in order. He doesn't fit in your master plan right now...so you would like to continue things in the future, just not right now.
2007-02-23 15:49:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's missing in your relationship that makes you think you need a break?? And why would you want a break if you want to go back with him after one???
Train him, to do what you think is missing. COMMUNICATION.
2007-02-23 15:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by cora m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would he know? You're asking him to predict the future. Just break it off instead of "taking a break"
2007-02-23 15:48:42 · answer #9 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's kind of strange. You want a break from him, but yet you want him to agree to continue dating you after this break? You need to look a little deeper inside yourself & figure out what you really want.
2007-02-23 15:48:26 · answer #10 · answered by leecarh 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋