Im a muslim guy 18 and im in love with my cousin who is 11.shes very beautifull young and intelligent.but im in love with her.would it be ok to marry when shes 20 or older.and when do i ask her if she loves me.im in pain day and night worrying if shel love me and marry me someday.how can i do somet so i know she loves me without hurting her feelings i really care for her and love her.
2007-02-23 07:39:30 · 1 answers · asked by nasserprofessional 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you are not in love, you can't be in love with a child!! for god's sake, she is 11.
Anyways, Islam does allow for marriage between cousins, so you might have a chance some day, but surely not in a western country, where it is considered illegal.
My advice to you is to focus on finishing school, college and get your self a decent career and then a few years down the line you are going to lauch at the thought of being in love with your 11 year old cousin.
2007-02-23 13:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by fozio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋